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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: judithlynn on March 15, 2018, 11:15:13 PM

Poll
Question: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your dress size?
Option 1: UK/AU Size 4, US Size 0, France/Spain size 32, Italy size 36 or smaller votes: 0
Option 2: UK/AU size 6, US Size 2,  France/Spain Size 34, Italy size 38 votes: 1
Option 3: UK/AU size 8, US Size 4, France/Spain Size 26, Italy Size 40 votes: 2
Option 4: UK/AU size 10, US Size 6, France/Spain size 28, Italy size 42 votes: 6
Option 5: UK/AU size 12, US Size 8, France/Spain size 30, Italy size 44 votes: 3
Option 6: UK/AU size 14, US size 10, France/Spain size 32, Italy Size 46 votes: 6
Option 7: UK/AU size 16, US Size 12, France/Spain size 34, Italy size 48 votes: 6
Option 8: UK/AU size 18, US Size 14, France/Spain size 36, Italy size 50 votes: 10
Option 9: UK/AU Size 20, US Size 16, France/Spain size 38, Italy Size 52 votes: 5
Option 10: UK/AU size 22, US Size 18, France/Spain Size 40, Italy Size 54 votes: 4
Option 11: UK/AU Size 24, US Size 20, France/Spain Size 42, Italy Size 56 votes: 2
Option 12: UK/AU size 26, US Size 22, France/Spain Size 44, Italy Size 58  or bigger votes: 1
Option 13: If you are on HRT for more than 2 years - Has your size reduced, since being on HRT? votes: 0
Title: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: judithlynn on March 15, 2018, 11:15:13 PM
For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your dress size, at the moment? Secondly if you have been on HRT for more than 2 years has your size reduced or increased?
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Cassi on March 15, 2018, 11:22:37 PM
Thanks a lot Judith Lynn!

I'm still working on the hand thing and am a little comfortable in 20 and haven't even gone for a dress yet.

I don't see myself as a dressy person but a year ago I wouldn't have seen myself as I am now - go figure on my figure :)

Seriously, I enjoy your threads!
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: JulieOnHerWay on March 15, 2018, 11:30:14 PM
OMG  Dress size.  Womens clothes are all over the place.  There should be a law.  Some makers are strict.  Follow standards and then I am a 16.  Some want to make me feel skinny and I fit a 10.  Really, in Gloria Vanderbilt "Amanda" jeans, they fit my no-bootie backside. 
Then others make up their own sizes.  And I am a 2!! 
I love Tommy Bahama clothes but they are strict so pants are 14 unless drawstring.  TB Knit dresses are ok at a Large. Less forgiving fabrics I have to go up a size to X Large (16).
After much trial and error my defining measurement is my shoulders and my "cool sculpting" target area.  I need 19 inches or forget it and 21 across my chest even boob-less.  But my need for comfort as a function of style says just get an XL and own it.  Seems to work.
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Sonja on March 15, 2018, 11:43:21 PM
US size 14 but it depends on the cut of the dress.

Sonja
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Cassi on March 15, 2018, 11:45:29 PM
Quote from: Sonja on March 15, 2018, 11:43:21 PM
US size 14 but it depends on the cut of the dress.

Sonja

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I honestly don't have a clue - this, or most of it is new to Cassi!
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Sonja on March 15, 2018, 11:53:13 PM
Quote from: Cassi on March 15, 2018, 11:45:29 PM
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I honestly don't have a clue - this, or most of it is new to Cassi!
Cassi - Darling, I wish I could take you out shopping!! or even just measure you up and hit the net...

There are SO many gorgeous dress's on the net of every style, fabric and colour ....well its never too late to start.
Go to google and type in 'swing dress'  then switch to images for search results and ta da... start finding your 'look'

Sonja
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Cassi on March 15, 2018, 11:54:59 PM
Okay, I'm going there only because you're one of my BFFs :)
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Cassi on March 15, 2018, 11:57:14 PM
Certainly not this one.

https://www.stylewe.com/product/plus-size-elegant-batwing-printed-boho-asymmetrical-midi-dress-293740.html
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Cassi on March 15, 2018, 11:58:53 PM
Maybe this one :
https://www.stylewe.com/product/black-pink-color-block-stand-collar-elegant-sheath-guipure-lace-midi-dress-271971.html
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Sonja on March 16, 2018, 12:02:27 AM
Quote from: Cassi on March 15, 2018, 11:58:53 PM
Maybe this one :
https://www.stylewe.com/product/black-pink-color-block-stand-collar-elegant-sheath-guipure-lace-midi-dress-271971.html
Okay - its elegant definitely, and it will certainly work if you want attention!

What else tickles your fancy?

Sonja.
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: sarah1972 on March 16, 2018, 12:20:35 AM
15 month on HRT and dress size has not changed. I am a bit odd shaped: Dress is usually a 14, sometimes a 12, sometimes a 16 depending on brand and style. Funny enough I can easily fit in size 10 skirts and pants, sometimes even in 8...
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: JulieOnHerWay on March 16, 2018, 12:21:29 AM
For girls trying to find their style.
https://www.bing.com/images/search?view=detailV2&ccid=b3TsmkGd&id=439D0121B50723ABB8FC86DDE1CDFE06015C84AE&thid=OIP.b3TsmkGd3igK8WIhMRFJuQHaMo&mediaurl=https%3a%2f%2fs-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com%2f736x%2f73%2f13%2fdb%2f7313dbd0f75c43a071eef1ce1a7a9f4a.jpg&exph=1099&expw=644&q=everyday+dresses+for+older+women&simid=608020255727027857&selectedIndex=22&ajaxhist=0
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Cassi on March 16, 2018, 12:26:54 AM
Quote from: Sonja on March 16, 2018, 12:02:27 AM
Okay - its elegant definitely, and it will certainly work if you want attention!

What else tickles your fancy?

Sonja.

http://www.articlesweb.org/blog/wp-content/uploads/sites/1/nggallery/casual-wedding-dresses-for-older-women-5/Casual-Wedding-Dresses-for-Older-Women-13.jpg
https://www.stylishwife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/Casual-Outfits-For-Women-Over-40-33.jpg
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: kitchentablepotpourri on March 16, 2018, 12:27:41 AM
Why, are you planning to buy a new dress for everyone; OMG, are you Oprah? "You get a new dress, you get a new dress, everyone gets a new dress!"😀
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Cassi on March 16, 2018, 12:28:52 AM
Quote from: kitchentablepotpourri on March 16, 2018, 12:27:41 AM
Why, are you planning to buy a new dress for everyone; OMG, are you Oprah? "You get a new dress, you get a new dress, everyone gets a new dress! 😀

It's Sonja's fault mommy!
She wanted to know which ones tickle my fancy :(
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Sonja on March 16, 2018, 12:38:07 AM
Quote from: Cassi on March 16, 2018, 12:28:52 AM
It's Sonja's fault mommy!
She wanted to know which ones tickle my fancy :(
Hah ha - Don't blame me, I'm just trying to make a lady out of you! nothing wrong with that! lol

The wedding dress/gown is way too much unless your actually getting married ( ? )
and the last one was NOT a dress!! it was an outfit...

Kitchenpotpouri - your avatar pic looks Gorgeous btw.

Sonja.
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Cassi on March 16, 2018, 12:40:45 AM
Quote from: Sonja on March 16, 2018, 12:38:07 AM
Hah ha - Don't blame me, I'm just trying to make a lady out of you! nothing wrong with that! lol

The wedding dress/gown is way too much unless your actually getting married ( ? )
and the last one was NOT a dress!! it was an outfit...

Kitchenpotpouri - your avatar pic looks Gorgeous btw.

Sonja.

See Mommy, Sonja said she was trying to help me.  I'm a work in progress.
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Sonja on March 16, 2018, 12:50:57 AM
Quote from: Cassi on March 16, 2018, 12:40:45 AM
See Mommy, Sonja said she was trying to help me.  I'm a work in progress.
Cassi - Sorry dear but I've reported you to the moderator for the following points

1) posting in a thread about dress's where you clearly admit to not owning one!! (lol)

2) That's the second time you've called Kitchenpotpouri 'mommy' and ...well.....I just think..its time you got SPANKED!!!

3) Forcing me to reply to you - in which case the moderator is going to tell both of us off for saturating this thread with  awesomeness ( useless garbage lol)

Sonja out!
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Mendi on March 16, 2018, 05:01:33 AM
Depends on the dress/jeans/shirt/ and it´s maker. Sometimes size 36 is just fine, even 34, but sometimes even 40 is not ok.

At work I wear size Extra Small for trousers, even when I cannot wear that small trousers anywhere else. Shirt needs to be Small in size.
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: pamelatransuk on March 16, 2018, 06:10:56 AM
So you use same sizes in Australia as in UK? I suppose that's logical. AU/UK size 18 for me which I hope will change after a couple of years on HRT and some shapeliness!


Pamela
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: KathyLauren on March 16, 2018, 06:48:06 AM
I said US 10 because that's where I start when trying stuff on.  What actually fits could be anything. 

The problem with dresses is the proportions.  I am a large in tops and a medium in bottoms; dresses aren't shaped that way.  Plus I need something that will fit largish shoulders and itty biity titties, again an odd shape.  So, although I have a couple of dresses, I mostly stick with skirts and tops.

Nothing has changed in 14 months of HRT.
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: davina61 on March 16, 2018, 02:21:00 PM
Yes 18 up top and 16 below and to big in the middle
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Cassi on March 16, 2018, 02:29:26 PM
Sizes are still greek to me :)
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Mendi on March 16, 2018, 03:12:16 PM
I think this poll is a bit skewed, or the measurements are incorrect, or using some size table, that I´m not familiar.

I answered size 38, meaning EU size, but I´m not sure if that´s the same as France/Italy sizes. According to this table my size is 38:

http://www.instylefashionista.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/03/womens-clothing-sizes_693.jpg (http://www.instylefashionista.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/03/womens-clothing-sizes_693.jpg)

But with this poll, the option of size 38, is much much bigger...

With the poll options, my size is UK 10, but I have no idea where the France/Italy sizes come from, because UK 10 is EU 38.
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Hannah Samira on March 16, 2018, 04:55:23 PM
Sizes are annoying!! I'm normally a 12... or a 14... or a 10... so annoying when I can't try them on in the shop!! :P

I think the fact that I have a very straight figure with a pretty small bum doesn't help the way dresses, skirts and jeans fit on me :/
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Karen_A on March 16, 2018, 06:48:40 PM
Not really sure, have not bought a dress in over a decade.

Way back when, HRT did not make a difference in my size.

- Karen
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Lady Sarah on March 16, 2018, 07:19:42 PM
I was so scrawny at the beginning of my transition, that (at 5' 11") I could wear a size 8. Now, at 5' 10", I wear a size 12. The biggest difference is that I went from no body fat, to having curves.
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Harley Quinn on March 16, 2018, 07:44:03 PM
I still wear the same dress size I did "pre-transition".  After 2 plus years, I think that it would have changed more...  🙄
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Devlyn on March 16, 2018, 07:49:36 PM
Size 6 US.
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Michelle_P on March 16, 2018, 07:59:51 PM
Sizes are funny.  Both weird funny and ha funny. 

I usually take a medium top or size 10-12. On pants I usually take a size 6/28, sometimes a 4. 

Dresses are limited by top size, and simple stuff tends to hang oddly unless I add in a wide belt to produce a visual waistline.   I have had the best results from "structured" dresses, notably Calvin Kline, Tahari, and similar. These shape the fabric itself, and give me a reasonable silhouette in spite of the anatomical quirks.

Like others I haven't seen a huge change in gross dimensions from HRT. Waist is maybe 1 1/2 inches narrower, hips an inch wider, chest unchanged. However...  I lost 4 inches in band size while keeping that measurement constant, moving from 38AA to 34B. [emoji6]

Naturally the skeleton didn't change, so I still have those shoulders. I can get away with quite a bit if I am careful about the wardrobe, though.



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Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: steph2.0 on March 16, 2018, 08:01:53 PM
Top/dress usually US 12, sometimes 14. Bottom 8 or 10, or sometimes even 6. Sizes are bizarre.

Stephanie
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: yayo on March 16, 2018, 09:06:08 PM
I'm a size 2 but go down to a 0, which I find unattractive on me. I'm happiest and feel I look best at a size 2.
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Denise on March 16, 2018, 11:37:53 PM
Quote from: judithlynn on March 15, 2018, 11:15:13 PM
For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your dress size, at the moment? Secondly, if you have been on HRT for more than 2 years has your size reduced or increased?

Interesting question.  I started out as a size US 8.  I could only dream of anything smaller.  Today I wear a US 6 in most things and US 4 in others.  My weight is within 2 pounds of what it was when I started HRT (even with the two pounds of silicone :) )  So that's telling me that the bulk of my broad shoulders is moving down to the lower region and specifically the hips.  Lord knows it's not going to the genitals.  (LOL)
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Donna on March 17, 2018, 12:18:17 AM
18 heading to 16. A 5 lbs drop last week.
Spiro, dutastricide and estrogen seem to be lowering my weight
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: Cassi on March 17, 2018, 01:10:15 AM
I still don't know my size :((((((((
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: zirconia on March 17, 2018, 02:06:01 AM
According to friends in the garment business, women's apparel manufacturers in the U.S. frequently base their sizing on the target customer—the median figure getting a size 10. Thus, a size 10 in one market segment may be equivalent to e.g. 14 or 6 in others. The less expensive clothes tend to be larger for a given size, while the upmarket brands veer toward small.

In some other regions there are more stringent guidelines based on actual measurements that all manufacturers have to adhere to. The degree of enforcement varies...
Title: Re: For those of us Transitioning from Male to Female what is your Dress Size
Post by: stephaniec on March 17, 2018, 03:06:23 PM
Target size 18 fits perfect now to lose weight which I'm been saying forever