I am new to this site so I thought I would put my little blurb out into the ether for anyone who cares to read it. :) My name is Anna and I am 35 years old. I won't go into my long story thus far, but maybe a little bio. I have been married for 16 years and I have 2 wonderful boys. Currently going through a divorce (for issues not relating to why I am on this site). She knows about me being trans. I spent so many years trying to fit in and be a normal guy, but the feelings kept coming back again and again. No matter what I did.
I finally told my wife because I was tired of hiding it and ready to move on with my life. At first she was very accepting and agreed to taking this slow. But before too long, she decided that if I went forward with transition then she could not be with me. I accepted that and chose to stay with her and not transition. I lied and told her the feelings were gone, playing into her thought that this was just a "phase".
Fast forward a few years and here we are. Going through a divorce and really starting to think seriously about moving forward. Like I said, just wanted to introduce myself and I really look forward to hopefully making some friends and reading about all your stories as well. :)
Anna Kristen
Hi, Anna!
Welcome to Susan's. This is a great place for sharing stories, for asking questions, and for receiving support.
I am sorry to hear that your marriage did not survive.
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Hi and welcome, if this is your first post then a mod will be along in a bit to greet you. Told my wife and she kicked me out and the divorce will come through in the next month or so. Set me free though now I am old free and single!!!!See Kathy beat me to it whilst typing .
Ha ha! She must be quick then. ;) And thank you for the greeting. I'm sorry to hear about your divorce as well, Davina. And thank you, Kathy. I will definitely swing by the introductions section and maybe type out my whole long drawn out story. Ha ha ha.