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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Janes Groove on May 29, 2018, 04:35:25 PM

Title: I Just Got Ma'amed
Post by: Janes Groove on May 29, 2018, 04:35:25 PM
I stopped by after my dentist appointment at the second hand store and rewarded myself by buying a cute, summer, skirt.  The lady at the counter rang me up and said, "Thank you ma'am."  It was about the millionth time I've been called ma'am and it's amazing that it still feels wonderful.

After almost three years, and female hormones, and surgeries and lots of practice, the skin, the hair, the hips, the boobs, the face, the voice, the mannerisms, the walk. It's all coming together. Oh and practice, practice, practice.  Did I mention practice, practice, practice?

Title: Re: I Just Got Ma'amed
Post by: KathyLauren on May 29, 2018, 04:49:00 PM
Quote from: Janes Groove on May 29, 2018, 04:35:25 PM
I stopped by after my dentist appointment at the second hand store and rewarded myself by buying a cute, summer, skirt.  The lady at the counter rang me up and said, "Thank you ma'am."  It was about the millionth time I've been called ma'am and it's amazing that it still feels wonderful.

After almost three years, and female hormones, and surgeries and lots of practice, the skin, the hair, the hips, the boobs, the face, the voice, the mannerisms, the walk. It's all coming together. Oh and practice, practice, practice.  Did I mention practice, practice, practice?
Yay, glad to hear it never gets old.  Clearly, you are in the Groove.  :)
Title: Re: I Just Got Ma'amed
Post by: Amaki on May 29, 2018, 05:29:08 PM
That is what we all are striving for, feeling good about ourselves is the most important. I know my best friend called me ma'am (she's the only one right now that knows) and it felt right, almost made me want to jump for joy. Congrats on being you lol.
Title: Re: I Just Got Ma'amed
Post by: Dani on May 29, 2018, 10:50:48 PM
Same for me.

It never gets old to hear people using the proper pronouns and greetings.
Title: Re: I Just Got Ma'amed
Post by: Jessica on May 29, 2018, 10:55:12 PM
I know I love it every time!
Title: Re: I Just Got Ma'amed
Post by: Beverly Anne on May 30, 2018, 07:51:17 AM
That first ma'am is pure gold! It's still music to my ears every time!
Title: Re: I Just Got Ma'amed
Post by: Janes Groove on May 30, 2018, 07:12:19 PM
Quote from: KathyLauren on May 29, 2018, 04:49:00 PM
Yay, glad to hear it never gets old.  Clearly, you are in the Groove.  :)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NvlW4bEjB5A
Title: Re: I Just Got Ma'amed
Post by: HappyMoni on May 30, 2018, 07:28:15 PM
Wonderful validation! Can totally relate! Sometimes it still takes me by surprise! Good for you Jane.