So, here I am introducing myself. My name is Karen and I have no idea what I am doing here. Well, I have some but not a lot. Hopefully a few of you know what I mean.
Been dressing up ever since I can remember, for years I thought it was a sexual thing (maybe it is, I don't know). Recently the way I relate to it has changed a lot, and I find myself thinking more and more about what it would be like to be dressed all the time, to have people relate to me as a women, to have a womans body.
I'm confused, but hoping to find if not answers here at least a listening ear.
Say Hi. I'm new.
Karen
Welcome to Susan's Place. Perhaps we can help you figure out what your doing here or at least speed the process up a bit. It's probably not a sexual thing because many of us felt that way when we first started. I suspect if you were to go full time you would find the sexual side fades into the background and you are just more comfortable in feminine dress.
I have a couple of links you might want to look at. The first is our WIKI (https://www.susans.org/wiki/Transgender) where the word Transgender is explained. The second link is "the transition channel" (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfO3B57E6NpIn-KsVjvmLLw) where you will be able to explore your feelings.
If you have any questions, feel free to ask and somebody will be around with an answer.
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Hi Karen 🙋♀️ Welcome, I'm Jessica!
I agree with Dena that it's probably not a sexual thing. I too was confused about my feelings on that. It just didn't feel exactly right, or giving the whole picture.
With all the experiences of all the members, I think you will find a spot where you fit and feel comfortable in.
Please review the site rules and links that Dena gave you, and learn and share!
Hugs and smiles, Jess 💁♀️
Hi Karen :icon_wave:
Welcome to Susan's Place :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
Hugs
V M
Welcome Karen! I hope you find the community hospitable.
Thanks for the welcme and the links, nice to be here.
K.