Hello, I am in transition since April of 2017, well that is when I started HRT anyways. I am presently 50 years old, but I knew from the time I was 7 who I was, or more accurately who I should be. I was youngest of 6 kids growing up. My 2 sisters are the oldest of the siblings and were out on their own shortly after my birth, so I mostly grew up around my three brothers, who were all super jocks., complete opposite of myself. I learned quite early to hide my true inclinations for fear of worse beatings and teasing from them...., fast forward through the usual growing up that mirrors most of us. I hid my true self from family and friends. I got married to be "normal". We had a son, and after 7years of marriage divorced. After the divorce I attempted to transition (in 2003), but when my ex discovered I had was prescribed hormones by an endo she informed me that if I proceeded she would make sure I would never see my son ever again., so I retreated back into the closet.., DEEP into it. Not a day went by where I didn't think about my desire to transition, but I kept it buried away from anyone else finding out or knowing. I am sure that is what caused my medical maladies I went through. Well on New Years day of 2017 I informed my then 17 year old son, whom by that time I have had full custody of for a bit over 5 years, that I was going to begin my transition. He took it well and was supportive and accepting. In April of 2017 I began HRT and slowly started process of coming out to family and friends. I game out to HR at work who informed management of my future plans. They were accepting. In August of 2017 I publicly came out to all via social media. Acceptance was strong, but not from all, I expected that. My first day of living fulltime was December 10, 2017 at my works X-mas party (I prepared them well in advance). I have since had my name and gender marker changed and am now me legally. I have come a long way from where I had thought possible just 2 years ago even, but I still have quite a way to go yet.
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@XYGirl Dear XYGirl:Thank you for your interesting and detailed posting introducing yourself. Many of our members will now be aware of your arrival to the Forums and will be able to share with you and you with them regarding your questions and comments.
I see that you have already been
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@V MPlease allow me to also give your a warm
Welcome to Susan's Place.I am thinking that you may have lots more questions and concerns, this is the right place for you to be to find out what others have done that may have been in your circumstances.
Be aware that there are a lot of members here that can identify with your situation..
You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes. When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here on the Forums if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....
***It's a very good chance that you might find that you will
make some new friends here.
Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace.
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Danielle
Dearest XY,
Welcome. Wander around the forums and see what you find that interests you (I think you'll find quite a bit). As the Alaskan Hunted One says, take a look at the introductory stuff -- you'll find good knowledge there about how things work.
But mostly, explore and enjoy. And know that we love you.
Carolina
Hey!
Just wow :) You have a long path behind you. I think you're very brave and strong with that coming out to social media. Glad to hear there was a lot of support and acceptance, especially from your son. Don't worry about those who don't accept you, you never can fulfill everyone's expectations, there always people who disagreed and/or dissatisfied.
Welcome here :) Thanks for sharing your experience :)
Hi, XYGirl, welcome!
Congratulations on coming out to the world and on becoming yourself officially! I am sure that, with your experience, you will be a big help to those just starting this journey. And, if you need help yourself as you move forward, you just have to ask.