Hi, my name is Chris. I'm a 29 year old transman from Australia. I'm not very good at introductions so I'll keep it brief. I first heard the term transgender 5 years ago and knew immediately that it was the term that could describe my whole life. I recently came out to my therapist and am building up to talk to my friends and family and am hoping I can find some good tips here.
Hi Chris! Welcome to Susan's Place! I'm Jessica.
I'm glad you're becoming comfortable in discussing your feelings with your therapist. Hopefully it will give you the courage to talk to family and friends.
I see your new here, so I'll post some links that may help you get better acquainted with the site. Pay attention to the site rules they can be of great help and don't forget the link highlighted red. It has answers to questions that are commonly asked. Then join in on a topic you find interesting and learn and share.
Things that you should read
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Welcome Chris!
Tony
Quote from: Celdro on September 21, 2018, 12:37:57 AM
Hi, my name is Chris. I'm a 29 year old transman from Australia. I'm not very good at introductions so I'll keep it brief. I first heard the term transgender 5 years ago and knew immediately that it was the term that could describe my whole life. I recently came out to my therapist and am building up to talk to my friends and family and am hoping I can find some good tips here.
@Celdro Dear Chris:Thank you for introducing yourself. Many of our members will now be aware of your arrival to the Forums and will be able to share with you and you with them regarding your questions and comments.
I see that you have already been
Officially Welcomed to Susan's Place by our lovely
Califorinia Girl @Jessica Please allow me to also give your a warm
Welcome to Susan's Place.I am thinking that you may have lots more questions and concerns, this is the right place for you to be to find out what others have done that may have been in your circumstances.
Be aware that there are a lot of members here that can identify with your situation..
You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes. When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here on the Forums if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....
***It's a very good chance that you might find that you will
make some new friends here.
Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace.
In her Welcome Message
Jessica included
Important LINKS that will tell you about Susan's Place. Included there is information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.
Please look closely at the
LINKS in RED, answers are there to many questions that new members ask.
Please don't be a stranger, we want to share postings and thoughts with you.
Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
Danielle
Hi Chris :icon_wave:
Welcome to Susan's Place :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
Hugs
V M
Hey Chris!
It's great you told your therapist about this issue. I'm sure it'll help you a lot.
About friends and family... You'll never know how they'll take such news. From my own experience, nobody care enough as long as they don't get involved (I mean, until they can do nothing about it and until I trying to get in their pants lul). From experience of others here I know that people can become very supportive or leave you regardless of their current opinion. You'll never know for sure until talk with them. So I suggest you check yourself - what can you get and what can you lose and if you'll be able to endure potential losses. Be ready for that.
Anyway, here you'll always find support when you need it. Welcome :)