Hi guys,
I've just made this account as I've been struggling for a while now and just want a place where I can talk to people who have experienced similar things to me.
I am still very closeted (I came out to my sister like 4 years ago but she ignores it) and therefore am not on testosterone as of yet. During the day I dress like a girl but once everyone in my household is in bed I like to transform myself into the guy I am. It's just a huge relief to look in the mirror and see what I believe I really should look like.
I want to know if I actually look male or if I just look like a girl playing dress up. I will attach a female image and male image below, please be brutally honest :)
Male:
https://imgur.com/a/CMaMEsb
Fem:
http://imgur.com/ciIyQdr
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Well I would like to be one of the first to welcome you to this wonderful site everyone here is absolutely great as far as your looks I I hate to sound mean but you look very feminine II male picture that you picked being that I used to be male most males that I know generally don't tend to edit their pictures with ears and stuff like that and as far as your family goes there are women that dress like boys all the time they're called tomboys you should be able to get away with something like that that way you're comfortable in your own skin at least until you can come out to the rest of your family and start hormones if you wish to
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Quote from: DanielLeeHastings on October 17, 2018, 03:28:06 PM
Hi guys,
I've just made this account as I've been struggling for a while now and just want a place where I can talk to people who have experienced similar things to me.
I am still very closeted (I came out to my sister like 4 years ago but she ignores it) and therefore am not on testosterone as of yet. During the day I dress like a girl but once everyone in my household is in bed I like to transform myself into the guy I am. It's just a huge relief to look in the mirror and see what I believe I really should look like.
I want to know if I actually look male or if I just look like a girl playing dress up. I will attach a female image and male image below, please be brutally honest :)
Male:
https://imgur.com/a/CMaMEsb
Fem:
http://imgur.com/ciIyQdr
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I think the male picture you could pass as Male, kind of look like one of my nephews in that pic....
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Yeah...the ears and nose is a very female thing to do. Luckily, you did it to your female pic so its okay.
Your male pic looks pretty good. I don't know how old you are, but you could pass for a 12 year old boy.
Stay strong bro!
Ryuichi
In all honesty no but I think you're making progress. Facial hair and more rugged hair and skin would probably make a big difference if you were on T you'd be able to get there.
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I have to say that the male pic looks more tomboyish than male. The nice clear skin (which is nice by the way... jealous!) and overall feminine vibe is there. I'd have to agree with the others T and facial hair would push you over the line.