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I am an older person who was born androgynous (probably intersex), who wants to finish the bodies development to be a woman. My psychologist classifies me as having always been more female than male and that I never finished puberty. My body tries that now by growing itself a set of boobs.
Because of the fact that I had a penis, I was raised male (kind of in the beginning, because my parents wanted a girl). My body never developed any of the secondary male sex characteristics (not even an Adams Apple, or male chin/jaw line), and I tried very hard to fit my male role. Luckily I had a job in the medical arena that was absolutely gender neutral, and that made my life much easier. I was happily married (my wife loved my soft, hairless body, because it was so nice to cuddle with), until about 15 to 16 years ago, when I lost my ability to function as a male within a very short time. This and some other problems destroyed my marriage.
My psychologist feels that I went through menopause at that time, and this seems to be confirmed by the results of a genome analysis that put me into the same category as a typical post menopausal female.
Shortly after this kind of a menopause I started to play with the idea to become a woman. At that time I did not even think much about that I was androgynous, or that i could be transgender. I must have had dysphoria all my life, but I did not recognize it as such.
The urge to become a woman got stronger and stronger, and really came out full blast when my breasts were starting to grow (kind like, now that we done with puberty, let's be the real thing).
So, here I am sitting, still looking more like an old geezer on his way to become an old hag!
My main goal is to be a full woman before I die!
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Hey Dietling!
Sorry to hear about your marriage. At least, many others can choose between saving it or following their desire to be themselves with possibility to ruin it.
But I really like your attitude :D Just don't curse everyone around you when you'll became old hag, it's not healty I heard :D
Hi Dietlind,
Welcome to Susan's. My name is Moni. You have a very interesting story. Thank you for sharing. It sounds like you have a head start on the woman part but hope you aspire to better than old hag. lol I transitioned at around 60 and did better than old hag. Hope to see you around the site.
Thank you for the freindly welcome here. It feels pretty cozy here!
I was told that I would be a very friendly old hag! In fact, i was kind of adopted by a young woman, who is absolutely dedicated to make me looking great. She had never had the chance to do anything with her mother, and now she wants to do mother daughter tings with me.
She goes with me shopping for clothing, she is doing my makeup. Simply said, she wants me to be as hot looking as she can.
I own an old English sports car (1961 Triumph TR4 Roadster), and she plans already that we use that instead of a chick magnet as a guy magnet. I think we might have fun!
So, no real old hag, just old!
Hahaha don't worry I'm just joking :D
Glad you had such support :)
Dietlind,
I thought the slang for the friend of the trans person was hag, as in ->-bleeped-<- Hag or Trans Hag. They aren't terms I am cool with, but I am desperately trying to let you off the "hag" hook. lol Actually, your friend sounds like an angel. Aren't supportive people great? I'm reading your vibes and picking up that you are really a hot mature woman. Maybe you should consider becoming a "cougar."
Quote from: HappyMoni on October 22, 2018, 06:16:14 PM
Dietlind,
I thought the slang for the friend of the trans person was hag, as in ->-bleeped-<- Hag or Trans Hag. They aren't terms I am cool with, but I am desperately trying to let you off the "hag" hook. lol Actually, your friend sounds like an angel. Aren't supportive people great? I'm reading your vibes and picking up that you are really a hot mature woman. Maybe you should consider becoming a "cougar."
I never ever thought about a cougar. That sounds hot, sitting in my sports car and letting the fangs show a little while the claws are scratching over the steering wheel!
Somebody told me that I would be a great MILF, but I think I am a little to old to be a MILF. I don't even know what the female version of a Sugar Daddy would be. cause I might fit that role!
How about a GILF, as in Grandmother I'd Like to...
Quote from: HappyMoni on October 22, 2018, 07:49:27 PM
How about a GILF, as in Grandmother I'd Like to...
Don't work, I have no grandchildren. And my son and his spouse seem not want to have any kids (probably because they don't want the poor kids have me as a GILF?)