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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: MeTony on November 16, 2018, 02:05:14 AM

Title: Life is a roller coaster
Post by: MeTony on November 16, 2018, 02:05:14 AM
I'm so happy I will be done with therapy in maybe 4-5 months. I can finally take the steps to be me.

I'm sad though. My husband has made it clear to me he will leave when I start hormones.

Two huge things competing. What is more important? I know I will be depressed if I don't walk my way. I will be sad to lose my best friend. But I guess depression is worse than being sad.

Happy-sad-happy-sad. Life is so complex!


Tony
Title: Re: Life is a roller coaster
Post by: Kirsteneklund7 on November 16, 2018, 02:55:14 AM
Hi Tony
Is it possible to still be best friends even if you live apart?

I think I will lose my wife if I transition.( HRT only so far) still pass as male.

I know it feels like being between a rock & a hard place,
                       Kirsten.

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Title: Life is a roller coaster
Post by: MeTony on November 16, 2018, 07:26:57 AM
I'm at a train station waiting for my nephew. At the coffee shop. A kid ran into the room and to my table and shouted "Oh no! There's an old guy at that table!" Her favourite table I guess.

Haha


Tony
Title: Re: Life is a roller coaster
Post by: Kirsteneklund7 on November 16, 2018, 04:55:48 PM
 Being correctly gendered always feels good doesn't it!
Title: Re: Life is a roller coaster
Post by: Northern Star Girl on November 16, 2018, 05:37:52 PM
Quote from: MeTony on November 16, 2018, 07:26:57 AM
I'm at a train station waiting for my nephew. At the coffee shop. A kid ran into the room and to my table and shouted "Oh no! There's an old guy at that table!" Her favourite table I guess.

Haha


Tony

@Tony
Dear Tony:
In this case, that is a compliment....   
...good for you Tony, this certainly is very affirming for you.

Thanks for sharing.
Hugs,
Danielle
Title: Re: Life is a roller coaster
Post by: Faith on November 16, 2018, 05:39:48 PM
Quote from: MeTony on November 16, 2018, 07:26:57 AM
I'm at a train station waiting for my nephew. At the coffee shop. A kid ran into the room and to my table and shouted "Oh no! There's an old guy at that table!" Her favourite table I guess.

Haha


Tony

I'm so sorry that you got called old.

oh ... did I miss the point ?  :D
Title: Re: Life is a roller coaster
Post by: MeTony on November 17, 2018, 12:07:12 AM
Yes. Kids are innocent. They say what they think and see. No filter. I take it as a compliment.

Being called old though... haha... I am old in her eyes. You know 40+.