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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Dany on November 28, 2018, 10:44:42 PM

Title: Mental Vagina
Post by: Dany on November 28, 2018, 10:44:42 PM
hi

So, we all know that our vaginas are much like an iceberg right, meaning the bigger part of it isn't visible. It's up in our minds, in our brains. But the question is, can the brain create physical sensations akin to that of the hardware part of the vagina, which sadly enough isn't there yet? Has this ever happened to any of you?

I was just watching a bit porn(c'mon now lol), a lesbian scene to be more exact. I'm not bi..I think..I may be but well this isn't what this is about. It's just that usually porn is shot from the man's perspective which is why I find lesbian porn interesting, not that I watch it all that often. Hardly ever really.

When the girl was performing oral sex on the other...I swear I actually felt pleasure where my clitoris should've been and will be shortly. I mean...it's just skin there for the time being. Don't get me wrong, I do mean where it will be not the tip of the useless and disgusting parts I have for now, which by the way was dead, no unwanted anything going on with it. And then I could actually feel the whole vagina being sensitive and everything.

I'm sorry if this post is a little, say, weird, but I just thought it was something interesting. I always had my "mental vag"..but uh never felt this. 
Title: Re: Mental Vagina
Post by: Northern Star Girl on November 28, 2018, 10:50:20 PM
Quote from: Dany on November 28, 2018, 10:44:42 PM
hi

So, we all know that our vaginas are much like an iceberg right, meaning the bigger part of it isn't visible. It's up in our minds, in our brains. But the question is, can the brain create physical sensations akin to that of the hardware part of the vagina, which sadly enough isn't there yet? Has this ever happened to any of you?

I was just watching a bit porn(c'mon now lol), a lesbian scene to be more exact. I'm not bi..I think..I may be but well this isn't what this is about. It's just that usually porn is shot from the man's perspective which is why I find lesbian porn interesting, not that I watch it all that often. Hardly ever really.

When the girl was performing oral sex on the other...I swear I actually felt pleasure where my clitoris should've been and will be shortly. I mean...it's just skin there for the time being. Don't get me wrong, I do mean where it will be not the tip of the useless and disgusting parts I have for now, which by the way was dead, no unwanted anything going on with it. And then I could actually feel the whole vagina being sensitive and everything.

I'm sorry if this post is a little, say, weird, but I just thought it was something interesting. I always had my "mental vag"..but uh never felt this.
@Dany
Hmmm, yep, a little weird but if this is your own personal experience then who are we to argue. 
.....The mind is a powerful thing.
Thanks for sharing and posting.
Danielle
Title: Re: Mental Vagina
Post by: Battle Goddess on November 28, 2018, 11:02:44 PM
Goodness gracious.

At first I thought you said "Metal."

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Title: Re: Mental Vagina
Post by: dee82 on November 29, 2018, 12:51:06 AM
Quote from: Battle Goddess on November 28, 2018, 11:02:44 PM
At first I thought you said "Metal."

Now that's interesting, I read it the same way too.

Dany, I believe you. I once experienced "labor pains" during the birth of my daughter. It was a pretty powerful trick of the mind. When it comes to the brain and sensations in our body, I think anything is possible.

~Dee
Title: Re: Mental Vagina
Post by: krobinson103 on November 29, 2018, 12:29:24 PM
I can understand this. My brain has programmed out the unwanted bits of me and I don't even feel them anymore. Instead pleasure etc is centered exactly where a vagina would be and works very differently.
Title: Re: Mental Vagina
Post by: gracefulhat on November 29, 2018, 12:34:43 PM
Quote from: Dany on November 28, 2018, 10:44:42 PM
hi

So, we all know that our vaginas are much like an iceberg right, meaning the bigger part of it isn't visible. It's up in our minds, in our brains. But the question is, can the brain create physical sensations akin to that of the hardware part of the vagina, which sadly enough isn't there yet? Has this ever happened to any of you?

I was just watching a bit porn(c'mon now lol), a lesbian scene to be more exact. I'm not bi..I think..I may be but well this isn't what this is about. It's just that usually porn is shot from the man's perspective which is why I find lesbian porn interesting, not that I watch it all that often. Hardly ever really.

When the girl was performing oral sex on the other...I swear I actually felt pleasure where my clitoris should've been and will be shortly. I mean...it's just skin there for the time being. Don't get me wrong, I do mean where it will be not the tip of the useless and disgusting parts I have for now, which by the way was dead, no unwanted anything going on with it. And then I could actually feel the whole vagina being sensitive and everything.

I'm sorry if this post is a little, say, weird, but I just thought it was something interesting. I always had my "mental vag"..but uh never felt this.

LMAO! You had me at the title! I have nothing to add to this conversation worthwhile other than if you do want to watch it from a female perspective, that's a thing. Just sayin
Title: Re: Mental Vagina
Post by: Faith on November 29, 2018, 12:36:57 PM
Quote from: krobinson103 on November 29, 2018, 12:29:24 PM
I can understand this. My brain has programmed out the unwanted bits of me and I don't even feel them anymore. Instead pleasure etc is centered exactly where a vagina would be and works very differently.

this

while there's not much usage atm, the last time all sensations focused more internal in that area. The external, erm, bits felt nothing except the very tip and then only in a specific instance. which I'll not describe since I've said too much already

as for porn? no interest whatsoever in watching it. I have no concern over what others do.
Title: Re: Mental Vagina
Post by: Beverly Anne on November 29, 2018, 01:36:56 PM
I have one of those! Getting the real thing in six months. Can't wait. In the meantime, the mental one works.  ;)
Title: Re: Mental Vagina
Post by: Sarah77 on November 30, 2018, 12:09:51 PM
i do know that I can only reach satisfaction by mentally having a female body and it creates a longer lasting affect.

the downside is it gets harder and harder to connect with my wife for intimacy..i have to transfer somewhere else.


Title: Re: Mental Vagina
Post by: GingerVicki on November 30, 2018, 05:09:13 PM
What is wrong with metal vaginas? Is this robot discrimination? LOL. Just kidding.

Anyhow, this is interesting.
Title: Re: Mental Vagina
Post by: Dany on November 30, 2018, 07:56:07 PM
Well, imagining right now is the only sexuality I have so...I guess that explains why it's so intense. At any rate, having this part of your sexuality, if you know what I mean, is essential to the success of the surgery so there you go. For now I'll just drag myself along with my loneliness and my forced celibacy.
Title: Re: Mental Vagina
Post by: Coffeedrew on November 30, 2018, 08:46:39 PM
I laughed when I read this. I'd say transitioning is more of an iceberg not a vagina.  The tip of the iceberg being the physical changes to the body, and  the body of the iceberg being the mental changes and the day to day stuggle.  I'm surprised that nobody has mentioned tucking yet.  I've always thought of that as a mental vagina and a sense of security,  but I guess one could argue that it's main use is for passing. I'm not sure if I saw this on these forums or somewhere on ->-bleeped-<-, but there is a question posted somewhere about feminine versus masculine ways to masturbate. To be honest I have always tried to be more feminine about it. I don't think it's wrong, I just think we all have our own personal preferences of how we all deal with gender dysphoria. I think the main point being is if it provides you comfort or validation with who you are on the inside, and you can rule out it being a fantasy, then I'd say it's normal. I have had all sorts of feelings growing up, and I believe they have helped me figure out who I am. I have also grown up with a lot of men, and we've had a lot of those weird discussions throughout the years and a lot of it is normal behavior. I used to talk to my buddy and throw out these things I was embarrassed to talk about and he said he did something just like it or even worse. As long as it does not involve breaking the law.