Hello,
I've spent considerable time looking here and feel I need to introduce my self.
First, I'm Seth, and I'm here with my wonderful supportive wife. ( She can't call me Jess yet)
I like alot of you, I'm sure, started to crossdress at a younger age. Almost two years ago I came out to my wife, about crossdressing, and the very likely possibility I feel as though I may be transgender. I picked a good time to bring it up to her. I had just purged all clothing and could not take it anymore. It was a now or never thing with me, as I just couldn't go on any longer.
I brought it up over a beer with her after work. Went incredibly well and fairly quick. I spilled most things, told her I like panties, clothes, etc and there was a sexual element to it sometimes. Also that I like a certain pair of her old panties.
To my surprise, she said "lets go in and let me see how they fit." I was a little embarassed as nobody had ever known this part of me. After modeling them for her, and her allowing me to try anything in her closet ( we are exactly the same size), she was into it as much as I am!
Over the course of the next few days we had many talks. She on her part did much research online and was super supportive for the most part. She had many questions, and I was straight up with her, and told her I always would be from this point on. She almost immediately threw out my old undies, and out the door we went to buy some panties. WOW!
Fast forward to this day. I have very few mens clothes and we enjoy shopping together for womens clothes! So much fun. I have a stealth dress for work, they are all womens clothes I'm wearing but most don't notice, even with a Frenchie or painted nails. People say I can always pull off painted nails. And then I have my other wardrobe which is more feminine.
Anyway, glad to be here. Looking forward!
Hi Seth/Jess :icon_wave:
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V M
Quote from: sethbo on December 22, 2018, 02:47:20 PM
Hello,
I've spent considerable time looking here and feel I need to introduce my self.
First, I'm Seth, and I'm here with my wonderful supportive wife. ( She can't call me Jess yet)
I like alot of you, I'm sure, started to crossdress at a younger age. Almost two years ago I came out to my wife, about crossdressing, and the very likely possibility I feel as though I may be transgender. I picked a good time to bring it up to her. I had just purged all clothing and could not take it anymore. It was a now or never thing with me, as I just couldn't go on any longer.
I brought it up over a beer with her after work. Went incredibly well and fairly quick. I spilled most things, told her I like panties, clothes, etc and there was a sexual element to it sometimes. Also that I like a certain pair of her old panties.
To my surprise, she said "lets go in and let me see how they fit." I was a little embarassed as nobody had ever known this part of me. After modeling them for her, and her allowing me to try anything in her closet ( we are exactly the same size), she was into it as much as I am!
Over the course of the next few days we had many talks. She on her part did much research online and was super supportive for the most part. She had many questions, and I was straight up with her, and told her I always would be from this point on. She almost immediately threw out my old undies, and out the door we went to buy some panties. WOW!
Fast forward to this day. I have very few mens clothes and we enjoy shopping together for womens clothes! So much fun. I have a stealth dress for work, they are all womens clothes I'm wearing but most don't notice, even with a Frenchie or painted nails. People say I can always pull off painted nails. And then I have my other wardrobe which is more feminine.
Anyway, glad to be here. Looking forward!
Seth/Jess welcome to the greatest forum on the web. Lots of fine helpful people here.
You are so lucky to have a loving supporting wife. Mine is very slowly getting used to my growing femininity. I too have painted nails while presenting male.
Hi, welcome here. There are several members her on Susan's who are from Florida. Once you have enough contributions, you can PM and we can see, if we live near to each other!
@sethbo Dear Seth aka: Jess
I see that you have joined Susan's Place and this is your very first posting here on the Forums.
I am most pleased that you had decided to come to the Susan's Place site and the Forums. As you post here on the forums you will be able to exchange thoughts and comments with others that are experiencing many of the same things.
This is the right place for you to be to find out what others may have to say that may have been in your circumstances and with your questions and concerns.
There are a lot of members here that will be able to identify with your situation as you continue to feel free to share it.
I see that our lovely member
@V M has already welcomed you but I also want to warmly
WELCOME you to Susan's Place.
You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.
Now that you are on the Forums you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other like-minded members. When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others
and offer support to others. ....
***There is a very good chance that you might find that you will
make some new like-minded friends here.
Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace.
There is information and important LINKS that
V M included below her welcome message to you. You will find information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.
Please look closely at the
LINKS in RED, answers are there to many questions that new members ask.
Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
Danielle
Hi, Seth / Jess. Welcome to the forum.
Congratulations on coming out to your wife! That is a big step. I know the joy of having your wife be supportive. I came out to my wife more than two years ago, and one of the first things she said to me, after I assured her that I had no desire to leave, was that she would support me. She has been true to her word, and we regularly go clothes shopping together.
It gives me great joy when I read about another couple that are negotiating transition together.
Welcome Jess/Seth! Great to hear that your wife supports you!