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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Perry on January 21, 2019, 12:00:45 PM

Title: Feeling so good today
Post by: Perry on January 21, 2019, 12:00:45 PM
...for a couple of reasons. Firstly, I spent 30+ hours in a hospital anxiously awaiting the birth of my great-great niece. (Note to self: being induced at a certain time doesn't ensure the kid shows up anytime soon thereafter!) During those many hours of hanging around with very little good sleep I had time to think about a lot of things. Certainly a scary prospect! Once others had gone home, gone to the hotel or were trying to sleep in a chair or comfort my great-niece in her room it seems I came back several times to one thought in particular. 

That is: 

This new little human who was about to show up would only know me as her UNCLE

Needless to say this thought brought a big smile to my face and an overwhelming sense of joy coupled with a feeling that it is so right to be her uncle.

Secondly, my great niece and her husband, both independently, after the birth of their daughter, asked how I felt being a great-great Uncle! (Baby D is my first great-great niece/nephew) Don't know if they discussed it ahead of time, really don't care but I doubt it. They were very preoccupied the previous day and a half.

I'm taking this as reinforcement that this journey I'm on is the right one and that my family is amazing.

Perry
Title: Re: Feeling so good today
Post by: Northern Star Girl on January 21, 2019, 12:22:11 PM
@Perry
Dear new Uncle Perry:  
This is a wonderful report.
Certainly a great moment for you in your journey.
Thank you for sharing and brightening our day.

Hugs, and wishing you well.
Danielle
Title: Re: Feeling so good today
Post by: blackcat on January 21, 2019, 10:58:35 PM
That is awesome. I'm so happy for you. :)
Title: Re: Feeling so good today
Post by: MeTony on January 21, 2019, 11:02:52 PM
Congratulations great great uncle! Babies are amazing.

Tony