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Community Conversation => Crossdresser talk => Topic started by: mismith415 on January 29, 2019, 12:01:30 PM

Title: GEtting the Urge
Post by: mismith415 on January 29, 2019, 12:01:30 PM
Hi,
I try very hard to not thinking about dressing up when I'm out and about, but sometimes it's really hard to control.  I will see women walking around and start imagining that I am this woman or that woman.  Not just that I like her clothing, but that I am actually her.
How do you all deal with that if it happens to you?
Thanks!
Michelle
Title: Re: GEtting the Urge
Post by: Wendi on January 29, 2019, 12:22:59 PM
Are you wearing any female undergarments?

If not you should try wearing some panties. The only one that knows is you and you'll feel better.
Title: Re: GEtting the Urge
Post by: ChrissyRyan on January 29, 2019, 12:25:33 PM
You could try a body shaper, such as a shaping camisole.

You might feel curvier, although corsets will be better at making you appear curvier.

The camisole is less bulky.

Chrissy
Title: Re: GEtting the Urge
Post by: Northern Star Girl on January 29, 2019, 12:34:28 PM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on January 29, 2019, 12:25:33 PM
You could try a body shaper, such as a shaping camisole.

You might feel curvier, although corsets will be better at making you appear curvier.

The camisole is less bulky.

Chrissy
@mismith415
Very good suggestions from our lovely members @ChrissyRyan  and   @Wendi

Also if you are wearing a heavier material shirt, perhaps with vest/chest pockets you could could easily wear and conceal a lightweight sports bra or even a regular bra.   Also pantyhose, tights or leggings under your male clothes can be a good option.

Danielle
Title: Re: GEtting the Urge
Post by: sally0196 on January 30, 2019, 03:51:31 PM
Michelle,

Is there a reason you just can't give in to your desire?  There is absolutely nothing wrong with actually giving dressing up a try.  As Chrissy, Danielle and Wendi suggest, start with simple items to see if they satisfy your desires, and if not expand your exploration to a more complete transformation.  Whatever you decide, enjoy the journey. 

Hugs,

Sally
Title: Re: GEtting the Urge
Post by: Ciara on March 01, 2019, 02:26:38 PM
Oh that urge is sooooo familiar, but it comes to me in waves. There are periods when I think I will go insane if I don't wear at least one feminine garment - and when I do I feel calm. Then there are times when I say this must stop!!......I discipline myself and throw out all my feminine things. Generally this can last anywhere up to 6 months before the urge returns, as it did two weeks ago. I'm now wearing a brand new outfit and feel absolutely beautiful (I may not look it though, but who cares!!).
I love being feminine.....don't you?

Hugs,
Ciara.