Hello, I am Taylor and I am bigender. I always questioned how I seen myself. At first, thought I was unhappy as male and wasn't. Knew I wasn't a crossdresser. Then I realized I always been happy as male with desires to dress as a woman. Finally at age 30, finally seen a therapist whom diagnosed me being bigender. Explained it all to me very well. After that came out to my family, they knew I was in the closet about it for a very long time. They accepted it right away knowing I lived a terrible life before this. Now know I am at peace now. My 1st wife, we divorced and thought I was very confused. Married to a great 2nd wife that is very supportive. I dress as Taylor fulltime now, was dressing on and off as Taylor at first. Now 40, live a great better life. I don't plan to transition at all staying fulltime as Taylor
Hi Tayler :icon_wave:
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V M
Hi Taylor, my name is Moni. Wow, you sound very self aware. Glad you are here and hope you feel comfortable chatting.
I am self aware about myself, was struggling at first. My family, they have seen me much happier ever since. They do call me Taylor most of the time now. Mom was a huge help, she is a lesbian married to her wife Laura. Laura and my mom show their support knowing I am in the GLBT community also.
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Quote from: TaylorCr on March 03, 2019, 05:46:52 PM
Hello,I am Taylor and I am bigender.I always questioned how I seen myself.At first,thought I was unhappy as male and wasn't.Knew I wasn't a crossdresser.Then I realized I always been happy as male with desires to dress as a woman.Finally at age 30,finally seen a therapist whom diagnosed me being bigender.Explained it all to me very well.After that came out to my family,they knew I was in the closet about it for a very long time.They accepted it right away knowing I lived a terrible life before this.Now know I am at peace now.My 1st wife,we divorced and thought I was very confused.Married to a great 2nd wife that is very supportive.I dress as Taylor fulltime now,was dressing on and off as Taylor at first.Now 40,live a great better life.I don't plan to transition at all staying fulltime as Taylor
@TaylorCr Dear Taylor: I am so very glad that you have become a member here and this is
your very first posting. I am happy to see that you found the Susan's Place Forums.
As you post on the forums you will be able to exchange thoughts and comments with others that are experiencing many of the same things that you are. I expect that you will be getting many members offering their thoughts and suggestions as you continue to post here.
This is the right place for you to be to find out what others may have to say that may have been in your circumstances and with your questions and concerns.
There are a lot of members here that will be able to identify with your situation and as you continue to feel free to share with all of us.
I see that our lovely member
@V M has already Officially Welcomed you I also want to warmly
WELCOME you to Susan's Place.
You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.
As you are certainly aware you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other like-minded members. When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others
and offer support to others. ....
***There is a very good chance that you might find that you will
make some new like-minded friends here.
Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace.
In her welcome message
V M attached important and informative
LINKS that will help you to navigate around the Forums and will allow you to enjoy the features here.
Please look closely at the
LINKS in RED, answers are there to many questions that new members ask.
Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
Danielle
It did bring my mom, her wife Laura and I together too. Only child and we are involved with the GLBT community now.
Welcome Taylor.
It's great that you have found yourself and that you have much support around you.
Tony
My dad, it took time for him to accept it. Now he is supportive seeing I live a better life now. I also help out transgendered veterans, I did 6 years in the Marines and proud of my service.
Quote from: TaylorCr on March 04, 2019, 09:56:49 PM
My dad,it took time for him to accept it.Now he is supportive seeing I live a better life now.I also help out transgendered veterans,I did 6 years in the Marines and proud of my service.
Hi again Taylor,
Thank you for your service. One of my best friends on Susan's was a Marine. She did not transition, but found a happy middle ground through HRT. I always marveled at her strength and her loyalty to friends, family and country. She was so strong. I miss her. You are awesome to be doing what you are doing. I wish you great happiness.
Moni