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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Jessica_K on April 27, 2019, 02:43:30 AM

Title: Another great day at work
Post by: Jessica_K on April 27, 2019, 02:43:30 AM
Yesterday was the first time I had gone to my major client since I started full time work fem. So I would be meeting many that had only seen me as male. Surprisingly I was actually looking forward to it as I have huge confidence at the moment with all the acceptance elsewhere.

I was late arriving, accident on the M4 (again) so initially just met the tech director who was the first I told I was trans and has supported me throughout. He commented at the end of the meeting that I was looking good. The it guy came in during the meeting and got from him Hi Jessica, then it was down to the reception to grab a coffee before leaving and chatted with the receptionist. She knew as everyone there that I was wearing a wig after all this is a place that has known me for years and she asked is that real hair? Can I feel it? It looks so real.

I left so happy. It is wonderful being me at last

Jessica xx
Title: Re: Another great day at work
Post by: Bea1968 on April 27, 2019, 03:50:32 AM
Awesome day!  Maybe the world is starting to be more accepting.   Glad to hear about your good day.  Keep us posted.

Bea
Title: Re: Another great day at work
Post by: Maid Marion on April 27, 2019, 05:36:25 AM
That is great to find acceptance at work! 
Title: Re: Another great day at work
Post by: CynthiaAnn on April 27, 2019, 08:17:10 AM
Very nice !! Indeed working as yourself is such an empowering feeling. The feed back I receive at work on a routine basis is quite validating and makes it so worth it ! I wish you continued success at your place of business....

Best

Cynthia -
Title: Re: Another great day at work
Post by: Denise on April 27, 2019, 08:53:46 AM
Nice uplifting experience.  Thanks for sharing.

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Title: Re: Another great day at work
Post by: Northern Star Girl on April 27, 2019, 11:01:17 AM
@Jessica_K
Dear Jessica:
Thank you for sharing your positive, uplifting, and affirming report about being "out" on your job. 
Yes indeed, being "yourself" at work, and everywhere that you go, is such a big confidence booster and feels to liberating.

Again, thank you for sharing with all of us.
Hugs and best wishes as always,
Danielle


Quote from: Jessica_K on April 27, 2019, 02:43:30 AM
Yesterday was the first time I had gone to my major client since I started full time work fem. So I would be meeting many that had only seen me as male. Surprisingly I was actually looking forward to it as I have huge confidence at the moment with all the acceptance elsewhere.

I was late arriving, accident on the M4 (again) so initially just met the tech director who was the first I told I was trans and has supported me throughout. He commented at the end of the meeting that I was looking good. The it guy came in during the meeting and got from him Hi Jessica, then it was down to the reception to grab a coffee before leaving and chatted with the receptionist. She knew as everyone there that I was wearing a wig after all this is a place that has known me for years and she asked is that real hair? Can I feel it? It looks so real.

I left so happy. It is wonderful being me at last

Jessica xx