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General Discussions => Beauty => Fashion => Topic started by: ChrissyRyan on January 14, 2024, 06:01:49 PM

Title: Have you bought or acquired a handbag / purse, or a tote recently?
Post by: ChrissyRyan on January 14, 2024, 06:01:49 PM
Have you bought or acquired a handbag / purse, or a tote recently?

If so, what style, color, and material?

Title: Re: Have you bought or acquired a handbag / purse, or a tote recently?
Post by: ChrissyRyan on January 17, 2024, 09:05:26 PM
I received one for Christmas but I have avoided the temptations to look at any others.


Chrissy
Title: Re: Have you bought or acquired a handbag / purse, or a tote recently?
Post by: Paulie on January 17, 2024, 10:49:50 PM
I picked one up about 6 months ago or so.  Smaller medium sized satchel style with a shoulder strap.  Never had the opportunity to use it till last week since I present primarily male.  Last week I was sent out of town for work.  Since I was checking my bags, I needed something a little more than my pockets to carry my travel paper plus a paperback and tablet.

I liked carrying a purse.  It felt good.  Affirming.  It came in pretty handy too. 

Paulie
Title: Re: Have you bought or acquired a handbag / purse, or a tote recently?
Post by: Iztaccihuatl on January 18, 2024, 12:03:01 AM
Last week I couldn't resist the temptations of their sale anymore and got myself a Kate Spade medium sized black shoulder bag at a really good price. I used it last Saturday when I attended my monthly social / support group meeting.

Hugs,

Heidemarie
Title: Re: Have you bought or acquired a handbag / purse, or a tote recently?
Post by: Moonflower on January 18, 2024, 05:08:45 AM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on January 14, 2024, 06:01:49 PMHave you bought or acquired a handbag / purse, or a tote recently?

If so, what style, color, and material?

...and what's in it?

I'm thinking of a friend who carries a change of clothes and a sewing kit.
One of my kids carries a huge collection of cosmetics.
I carry my wallet, keys, cell phone, a few pills, tissues (for my nose and toilet paper emergencies), N95 masks, sunglasses, pens, salve, hair ties, sometimes a snack.
My sweetheart carries a thick math textbook, notebooks, pens, large corded headphones, wallet, keys, and many odds and ends.

My sweetheart bought my latest purse for me 4 years ago. It's rugged heavy leather, well-crafted by an artisan.

My daughters bought me my previous one, nearly 10 years ago. It was from a Coach factory outlet clearance sale, black leather (when my main clothing color was black), with a flap and lots of pockets, big enough to hold my Planner.
Title: Re: Have you bought or acquired a handbag / purse, or a tote recently?
Post by: Iztaccihuatl on January 19, 2024, 10:10:00 AM
Quote from: Moonflower on January 18, 2024, 05:08:45 AM...and what's in it?

Just the essentials: wallet, car & house keys, iPhone, reading glasses, pen, tissues, pocket mirror, lipstick, hairbrush.
Title: Have you bought or acquired a handbag / purse, or a tote recently?
Post by: ChrissyRyan on February 06, 2024, 09:44:09 PM
Have you ever bought or got an unusual or extraordinary handbag?  Perhaps it is the style or material or colors etc., that made it unusual or extraordinary.


Chrissy
Title: Re: Have you bought or acquired a handbag / purse, or a tote recently?
Post by: ChrissyRyan on November 12, 2024, 08:33:31 PM
I saw a round purse.  Somewhat unusual to see but cute.
Title: Re: Have you bought or acquired a handbag / purse, or a tote recently?
Post by: Camille58S on December 23, 2024, 07:38:13 PM
I just purchased a purse yesterday! I have always carried a bag. But, it is a big Filson bag that screams alfa male! But, it is big and heavy. I started developing shoulder problems that the strap from that bag was aggravating. I  looked for smaller bags, but just couldn't find one that I liked. My wife told me that I should try a smaller, lighter, purse. I have to admit, it is an adjustment going from that bag to a purse! But I like it! I feel like I'm expressing my truth. Like I'm taking all of me everywhere.
Title: Re: Have you bought or acquired a handbag / purse, or a tote recently?
Post by: ChrissyRyan on December 23, 2024, 10:13:50 PM
Quote from: Camille58S on December 23, 2024, 07:38:13 PMI just purchased a purse yesterday! I have always carried a bag. But, it is a big Filson bag that screams alfa male! But, it is big and heavy. I started developing shoulder problems that the strap from that bag was aggravating. I  looked for smaller bags, but just couldn't find one that I liked. My wife told me that I should try a smaller, lighter, purse. I have to admit, it is an adjustment going from that bag to a purse! But I like it! I feel like I'm expressing my truth. Like I'm taking all of me everywhere.

Big bags and totes are way different than a purse.
However I have found that you can load up an average size purse with all kinds of things and could use one loaded like that for weight lifting.

So I try to be practical and just have the essentials in a purse.

Chrissy
Title: Re: Have you bought or acquired a handbag / purse, or a tote recently?
Post by: ChrissyRyan on January 26, 2025, 08:16:28 PM
Nope.  Was tempted but I said no.  I like what I have.
Title: Re: Have you bought or acquired a handbag / purse, or a tote recently?
Post by: Northern Star Girl on January 26, 2025, 08:30:47 PM
Last week I purchase a small cross-body bag that is just big enough for my phone,
keys, wallet, and a few essentials like lip gloss, hair brush, nail file, tissues,
and a few other small essential items. 

I like the freedom of not packing around a lot stuff I don't usually need.
Living in a small town, my home only 2 miles away from my office and the
town center, makes this a smart choice for my needs.

HUGS, Danielle
Title: Re: Have you bought or acquired a handbag / purse, or a tote recently?
Post by: ChrissyRyan on January 26, 2025, 08:35:21 PM
Quote from: Northern Star Girl on January 26, 2025, 08:30:47 PMLast week I purchase a small cross-body bag that is just big enough for my phone,
keys, wallet, and a few essentials like lip gloss, hair brush, nail file, tissues,
and a few other small essential items. 

I like the freedom of not packing around a lot stuff I don't usually need.
Living in a small town, my home only 2 miles away from my office and the
town center, makes this a smart choice for my needs.

HUGS, Danielle



That sounds like one style that I have.  It works out well.

Chrissy
Title: Re: Have you bought or acquired a handbag / purse, or a tote recently?
Post by: Lori Dee on January 26, 2025, 10:39:10 PM
This is mine. It isn't very big but it has TEN POCKETS!

https://www.amazon.com/ELDA-Pockets-Crossbody-Pocketbooks-Shoulder/dp/B0BGBRHH8R?source=ps-sl-shoppingads-lpcontext&ref_=fplfs&smid=A1VS7A18B4YFNG&gQT=1&th=1
Title: Re: Have you bought or acquired a handbag / purse, or a tote recently?
Post by: Lilis on January 27, 2025, 01:55:21 AM
Quote from: Lori Dee on January 26, 2025, 10:39:10 PMThis is mine. It isn't very big but it has TEN POCKETS!

https://www.amazon.com/ELDA-Pockets-Crossbody-Pocketbooks-Shoulder/dp/B0BGBRHH8R?source=ps-sl-shoppingads-lpcontext&ref_=fplfs&smid=A1VS7A18B4YFNG&gQT=1&th=1
Nice 👌
Title: Re: Have you bought or acquired a handbag / purse, or a tote recently?
Post by: ChrissyRyan on January 27, 2025, 10:23:11 AM
Sometimes handbags come with more than one set of straps, and that gives you flexibility on how to carry it, that is, crossbody, on shoulder, or in hand.