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Hi
My name is Wendy, 57 years old and I'm from Scotland. Originally born as a boy but from early age I knew I was different.
The mixed emotions through teenage years and early adulthood was as you can imagine very stressful but thankfully the moments of happiness made up for the hard times.
I was born intersex , something that I was diagnosed with when I was 15..you can imagine the stigma for my myself and family in the 1980s (a different time!)
Spent so many years in shadows but now enjoying freedom


Hope to share experiences and make friends
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Quote from: Wendy Lindsay on August 07, 2024, 01:39:26 PMHi
My name is Wendy, 57 years old and I'm from Scotland. Originally born as a boy but from early age I knew I was different.
The mixed emotions through teenage years and early adulthood was as you can imagine very stressful but thankfully the moments of happiness made up for the hard times.

Hope to share experiences and make friends
x

@Wendy Lindsay
Dear Wendy:
I am so very happy to see that you had registered for a member account last month
in July here on Susan's Place and the Forum... and you have just submitted your very first posting.

I wish to give you my Warm WELCOME.

Now that you are a member here, take some time to look at and read many of the
postings and topics from other members.... you will quickly find that you are
not alone with what is going on in your journey.

Your will find this a friendly, safe, and encouraging place to safely share
your thoughts and comments... and as you become more involved with reading
other's postings, submitting your own postings ... and as you feel comfortable
doing, you can exchange your comments and thoughts with other members.
You will most likely find like-minded members here that have your same thoughts
and experiences.

Again, I wish to Welcome you to the Forum.  I am eagerly looking forward to
seeing and reading your future postings.

You should also look at the following LINKS that I have included at the
end of my message to you... you will find information that will help you
to navigate safely around the Forum.
Look closely at the LINKS in RED... there you will find answers to questions
that new members usually ask.

NOTE:  You will not be able to use Forum Messaging and you won't be able to
upload an Avatar/Profile photo until you reach 15 postings.
      If you have questions, please feel free to E-mail me at alaskandanielle@yahoo.com

I will be looking to seeing your around the Forum.
Warmest Regards, and WELCOME
Danielle [Northern Star Girl]
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Welcome Wendy!

Chrissy

@Wendy Lindsay

Hello Wendy,

Welcome to Susan's Place! We have a lot of information here that is available to you. You will find that we have members here who share your experiences. Everyone is unique, so we learn through each other's stories, comments, and insights. We know the UK is in a bit of turmoil at the moment, but you have the support of everyone here. If you need help, feel free to reach out.

Danielle has provided you with some important links that will help you find your way around. Please pay special attention to those marked in RED.

Welcome to Susan's Place. We look forward to seeing you around the Forums.

Lori Dee

Hi Wendy,

Welcome!  Yes, when I grew up gay people had a tough time being accepted.

I live in accepting community.  I can present female and not get hassled when my ID doesn't match up!
I think my neighbors know me as the one who grows all those gorgeous flowers!  They bloom throughout the  Connecticut growing season.  The question they wonder about is what am I going to do to top the flower show they got last year!  Each year the display gets bigger and better!

Marion

Hello Wendy

My name is Sarah B and I would also like to formally, Welcome you to Susan's Place!

I see that other members of Susan's, Lori, Danielle and Marion have also welcomed you as well.

You mention in your post:

Quote from: Wendy Lindsay on August 07, 2024, 01:39:26 PMHi
My name is Wendy, 57 years old and I'm from Scotland. Originally born as a boy but from early age I knew I was different.
The mixed emotions through teenage years and early adulthood was as you can imagine very stressful but thankfully the moments of happiness made up for the hard times.
I was born intersex , something that I was diagnosed with when I was 15..you can imagine the stigma for my myself and family in the 1980s (a different time!)
Spent so many years in shadows but now enjoying freedom

Hope to share experiences and make friends
x

You are not alone in knowing things were different from when you was a young person and I'm no different.  It's good to hear that you have some wonderful memories.

Susan's is a place where you can make friends and gain new experiences, there are members here, who are intersex and can provide insights for you and your condition.

It's also good to hear that you re now enjoying your freedom and I hope that freedom will allow you fulfil your dreams.

Once you feel comfortable here, it would be appreciated if you add a little bit more about yourself in the other forums and threads.  I would appreciate it very much as, I'm always interested in learning something new about new members

In addition members of Susan's will more than likely will discuss problems or issues that are similar to yours as most have experienced these issues as well.

Take care and all the best for the future.

Once again, Welcome to Susan's Place!
Sarah B
Offical Greeter
@LoriDee
@Northern Star Girl
@Wendy Lindsay

Hi Wendy! Welcome to the forums!

It's great to have you here, and thanks for sharing your story.

@Wendy Lindsay

~ Lilis

Hi Wendy,

  Please stay around for awhile and explore the corners of the Susan's Place.  I think you'll find acceptance here as well as knowledge that will be useful to you.  Be not uncertain, but strong in the knowledge of who you are as you discover whom you wish to become.

  Love,  Caroline