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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Topic started by: annajasmine on February 01, 2008, 06:59:16 PM

Poll
Question: What is your sexual orientation in your dreams? (You can vote 2 times which should cover all the options.)
Option 1: Heterosexual  target gender
Option 2: Homosexual target gender
Option 3: Heterosexual  genetic  gender
Option 4: Homosexual genetic  gender
Option 5: Bisexual genetic  gender
Option 6: Bisexual target gender
Title: Sex in dreams
Post by: annajasmine on February 01, 2008, 06:59:16 PM
The poll was inspired by this post https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,26109.0.html. It got me thinking about my orientation and what a old friend said to me once "You are your true self in dreams" I don't know if this has any truth in it but this is my idea behind this poll. She probably quoted it from a movie. I am a 3 and 6. And lately my dreams has a lot of heterosexual target gender in them. This has me all confused.


Thanks for voting,
Anna
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: NicholeW. on February 01, 2008, 09:08:20 PM
I have sexual dreams sometimes. Not much. I have been myself and been with both males and females in the dreams I have had like that. Bi-sexual "target" gender. :)

Just a small question though, Anna. Is the target gender the one people are shooting at in  my dreams? :laugh:

N~ 
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: tinkerbell on February 01, 2008, 09:24:15 PM
In my dreams I like guys too, but I have had (two or three in my entire life, I think) where I have dreamt that I am with girls (not having sex but naked on the bed)  Eeeewwwww!  :eusa_sick: (no offense to anyone of course; it just isn't my cup of tea  :P)

tink :icon_chick:
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: debbie.j on February 01, 2008, 09:31:46 PM
myself when i have these dreams it tends to be with other girls . and some times guys
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: Sarah on February 02, 2008, 12:47:47 AM
I've had one of some of the most intense orgasms in my life through a dream.
It was pretty real.
Sara
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: Christo on February 02, 2008, 01:59:54 AM
Never been with a dude irl or in a dream :laugh:
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: Berliegh on February 02, 2008, 03:42:32 AM
I never get sexual dreams....I wish I did.....most of my dreams are usually nightmares!
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: Dev on February 02, 2008, 03:46:42 AM
Everytime I do have a dream...sexual or not, if I am in it I am a hetro-male.   I will say the exception to this would be when I was VERY stressed about work and it carried over in a dream where I am who I am now.  But when not stressed and just dealing with normal every day life... my dreams have been right on.
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: annajasmine on February 02, 2008, 07:31:20 AM
The dreams don't have to be having sex or sexual. It could be meeting someone, walking in the park, being torture by friends and family, or saving the world in your dreams. I kind of did a bit of a stretch on the title to get more views. In composition they tell you don't have a boring title no will read your work. Basically I just was a bit curious about your orientation in dreams. If it match with who you really are?

Later,
Anna
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: Sheila on February 02, 2008, 11:48:12 AM
I didn't vote as I didn't understand the subject lines. I have had two dreams that felt very real to me. They were dreams that I was having sex with a guy and like I said they felt real. I have not, in the past, every had sexual dreams, not even wet dreams as a teen. I have heard of them, but for me have never experienced them. I had these two dreams in the last month or so. I don't know what they mean. I felt very happy with them also very validated.
Sheila
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: Patroklos on February 02, 2008, 01:18:16 PM
In all of my dreams I am male, though in some nightmares I have a deformed or dysfunctional penis, and I am homosexual in most of them, though I've had a few in which I have relations with women.
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: Schala on February 02, 2008, 01:20:52 PM
I very rarely have such dreams, and I never see my body in dreams. I voted heterosexual target gender cause I only see myself with my boyfriend if I was post-op (in dreams).
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: alisontaylor on February 02, 2008, 01:29:02 PM
Always a girl in dreams and always with guys
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: Audrey on February 02, 2008, 05:12:06 PM
I can't answer this because I don't seem to ever get lucky, even in my sleep.   :'(

Audrey
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: shanetastic on February 02, 2008, 05:16:55 PM
Quote from: Audrey on February 02, 2008, 05:12:06 PM
I can't answer this because I don't seem to ever get lucky, even in my sleep.   :'(

Audrey

lol.  Neither can I really but because I don't remember a lot of my dreams. . . That or they have nothing to do with sex.
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: Caitlin on February 02, 2008, 05:44:53 PM
i often fight hordes of zombies(or something post apocalyptic), not much sex. I am however, generally female in my dreams.
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: Schala on February 02, 2008, 05:48:48 PM
Since I don't see my body, I know my situation by what happens. I took a nap and just had a dream where I thought I wasn't passing. In real life I hardly worry about it anymore, but I did in the dream. And my dreams are pretty weird, I gave up interpreting them :P I also rarely remember them unless I wake up in the middle or because its a nap (so short; 1 to 3 hours,  and I wake in the middle).
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: gothique11 on February 02, 2008, 06:59:06 PM
Well, pretty much my whole life I've almost always been female in my dreams, and in regards to sexual dreams I'm usually with a woman. I think I've maybe had a couple before where a guy existed, but I can't really recall specific dream.
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: Natasha on February 02, 2008, 08:15:10 PM
i'm female on my dreams.  the sex of my sexual partners are either men or women.
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: ErickaM on February 04, 2008, 06:48:13 PM
When I dream I am for the most part female and sexual partner is a female, mostly my wife; but there are some nights that I dream that I am with a male partner and I am always a female in those dreams.  A dream with a male partner seems to be to most real than the ones with a female. 
Title: Re: Sex in dreams
Post by: Berliegh on February 07, 2008, 06:52:28 AM
For the first time in a long time I had a dream I remembered.......as me as I am now..
but I never have sexual dreams...