Hello... like most of you, I'm having trouble with my gender idenity. The big problem is, I can't tell weither if it's just some sorta fetish or if I really want to well.. become a girl. I've been stuck with the feelings on and off for the past five years. I'm not sure if it started that recently, because there're actually a picture of me in a dress as a 3 year old. My dad has found edvidance of me crossdressing and and told me repeatingly it was wrong. The feelings have died down lately. I'm been thinking "What's to gain?". I mean if I really became a girl, what speical things would I do? And as a purely hetrosexual person I would have trouble with love relationships...
Quote from: lostandconfused on March 08, 2008, 12:25:33 PM
Hello... like most of you, I'm having trouble with my gender idenity. The big problem is, I can't tell weither if it's just some sorta fetish or if I really want to well.. become a girl. I've been stuck with the feelings on and off for the past five years. I'm not sure if it started that recently, because there're actually a picture of me in a dress as a 3 year old. My dad has found edvidance of me crossdressing and and told me repeatingly it was wrong. The feelings have died down lately. I'm been thinking "What's to gain?". I mean if I really became a girl, what speical things would I do? And as a purely hetrosexual person I would have trouble with love relationships...
If you believe you have gender issues, then why not stick around and read a few posts here? Our stories are usually pretty similar in how we came to discover our transgender condition and I'm sure you'll find things that will ring a bell if you truly feel this (which you seem to).
A gender therapist is another thing a lot of us have seeked early on as well for help with this, they usually know what to listen for and how to guide you on your trans path should you decide to walk it.
confused, yes. lost, no. you're among friends, talk to us :)
Hi,
Welcome to Susan's.
Take your time figuring yourself out. There's no rush. You certainly can get a sense of how it is for others by spending some time here. You can ask any question you like. We all respect what you're going through and the decisions you may be making in the future.
I wish you well,
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Welcome to Susan's, lostandconfused,
Read and learn, talk and share. You won't be lost or confused for very long. There are some good, caring people posting here.
Wing Walker
Welcome to the site. Fell free to post here about anything because we are here to help. Whatever you feel about yourself, go with it. don't be afraid but look at as an opportunity to discover who you are.
Gennee
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Thanks guys, I sure hope this is where I'll find myself. I'm sorry I can't reply as quickly and frequently since I have to visit this site sercety.