Confessions of a Cross-dresser
http://nymag.com/daily/fashion/2008/03/confessions_of_a_crossdresser.html
03/26/2008
"I don't want to change because I get so much pleasure out of cross-dressing. It complements the sex I have with Samantha, which I don't want to give up either. But nor do I want to keep a secret from the person I love. I'd hate to think that she had secrets from me."
This will not go well. True 'nuff.