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Community Conversation => Crossdresser talk => Topic started by: Anisha on April 24, 2008, 11:10:28 PM

Title: Convincing my sister for hair removal
Post by: Anisha on April 24, 2008, 11:10:28 PM
Hey frnds ,Well recently i am getting high amt of hair in my legs,hands and underarms and i really want to remove it.
when i asked my sister who knows abt my girly behaviour stops me that i can wax or remove hair by other methods she tells waxing,hair removing cream is not for man and men should not use these things .I tried to tell her that i wanted to use it she has strictly formidden me to remove hair by any method.....plzzzzzz help how to convince her......
Title: Re: Convincing my sister for hair removal
Post by: Just Mandy on April 24, 2008, 11:56:35 PM
This is a tough one... I don't know what the culture in India is but here in the US... big
sisters tend to tell little brothers what to do... at least mine did LOL..

I think you have to tell her exactly how you feel. And do it over
and over until she gets it. Do you have anyone else you can talk to?

Amanda
Title: Re: Convincing my sister for hair removal
Post by: Anisha on April 25, 2008, 12:22:43 AM
i hear every thing she says . how shld i tell my sister what i feel .i crossdress in front of her in night but she thinks i do it bcoz of my childish behaviour....how shall i tell her the truth.......
Title: Re: Convincing my sister for hair removal
Post by: cindybc on April 25, 2008, 03:53:15 AM
Hi Anisha, I didn't have any family to stop me from doing anything they were out of the picture by then. All I used was an epilator to remove the body hair and seldom shave the legs it doesn't grow out that much. I found that an epilator which costs around $50.00. After a few months on hormones there won't be a whole lot of body hair left. The facial hair well like in another thread I suggested Vaniqa comes in a tube, one tube is about $65.00  a tube last about a month, It is the more economical way to go until whenever you wish to do a more permanent job then go for electrolysis.

I haven't found any reason to go anything else then an epilator and Vaniqa for the past 8 years I been living full time.

Cindy
Title: Re: Convincing my sister for hair removal
Post by: Just Mandy on April 25, 2008, 09:02:12 AM
Quote.how shall i tell her the truth.......

Just like that.... sit down with her, stay calm and tell her what you are feeling. Find
some web sites that that talk about CD/TS/TG issues and ask her to read them.

I'm sorry sweetie... there is no easy answer, but just be honest and direct with
her and keep telling her.

Amanda
Title: Re: Convincing my sister for hair removal
Post by: Anisha on April 25, 2008, 09:24:27 AM
Can u give me the links of the CD/TS/TG issues  i shld give her to read.???