PBS looks at Gaye's life
http://www.ohio.com/entertainment/18718449.html?page=all&c=y
5/7/2008
"Excerpt: Friends and relatives describe Gaye's bewilderment over his
father's habit of cross-dressing, and how it affected the younger man
psychologically, spurring him to overcompensate by womanizing and
throwing himself into competitive sports."