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Title: Only one wish.......
Post by: Chynna on June 19, 2006, 12:31:37 PM
If someone where to grant you one wish what would that be?
**One exception they cannot change your gender!****

You can change aspects of your body Example I wish for pecks or a 36D chest But not you biological MAIN sex organ
CHYNNA
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Kate on June 19, 2006, 12:42:18 PM
Quote from: Chynna on June 19, 2006, 12:31:37 PM
**One exception they cannot change your gender!****

You mean I can't change my gender (mental, spiritual sex) or my physical sex (body)?
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Melissa on June 19, 2006, 12:43:37 PM
More wishes!!!  ;D

Melissa
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Nero on June 19, 2006, 12:50:00 PM
I'd wish to be as musically gifted as my mother.

Nero
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Melissa on June 19, 2006, 12:57:01 PM
Ok, a better answer than my previous.  I wish that nobody ever discriminated against anybody else ever again.  Everyone would be accepted for who they were by everyone else (kind of like here on Susans).

Melissa
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: heatherrose on June 19, 2006, 01:01:19 PM
I would wish that individuals in society would learn to concentrate on eliminating their own faults instead of digging up, displaying and ridiculing the short comings and differences of others.
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Kate on June 19, 2006, 01:10:34 PM
I'd give the wish back. Or perhaps hand it over to someone wiser than I.

Wishing... such a dangerous business it is.
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: HelenW on June 19, 2006, 06:50:37 PM
I would wish for my wife to stay with me even if I transitioned all the way.

h
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Post by: tinkerbell on June 19, 2006, 07:15:37 PM
tink :icon_chick:
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: heatherrose on June 19, 2006, 07:42:24 PM
I would wish that Helen's wish would come true.
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Kate on June 19, 2006, 08:34:59 PM
Quote from: heatherrose on June 19, 2006, 07:42:24 PM
I would wish that Helen's wish would come true.

I would wish that Heather's wish would come true :)
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: wolfie on June 19, 2006, 08:58:32 PM
this maybe shallow, but i would wish for a never ending supply of money. i would use that to take care of my wife and step daughter, making sure they have everything they need and want. that way i could also stay at home and cook and take care of them in that way in addition to financially.

i could then have all of my surgeries without waiting for medical coverage and be able to pay for our perfect wedding and honeymoon.

-tino-
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Nero on June 19, 2006, 09:11:58 PM
Wanting to provide for and care for your wife and child is not shallow, Tino.
I hope the wait for medical coverage isn't too long, so you can feel complete and I hope you can have that perfect wedding and honeymoon.
I wish you all the best.

Nero
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Melissa on June 19, 2006, 09:14:58 PM
Quote from: wolfie on June 19, 2006, 08:58:32 PM
this maybe shallow, but i would wish for a never ending supply of money.

That depends. Would you give us all some money too?  :icon_joy:

Melissa
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Jillieann Rose on June 19, 2006, 10:00:48 PM
I would wish for world peace. Oh wait, that was Miss Congeniality. ;D
Really I like Helen's wish. So I wish that to for her and myself any other with loving SO's.
:)
Jillieann
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Kaitlyn on June 20, 2006, 01:01:21 AM
Wishes... tough choice. >.<

I think I would wish that everyone in the world would be able to find someone to truly love. And maybe, just maybe, a little more love would make the world a better place.
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Kimberly on June 20, 2006, 06:04:03 AM
A wish with limits is not a wish.
I pass.

But that is a boring answer.
World peace! (actually just an arrangement so everyone has everything they want.)

But I doubt that is what you wanted, so how about rewind the clock 20 years, but keep the memories.
Title: Only one wish.......
Post by: Chynna on June 20, 2006, 08:01:32 AM
I'll answer my own question with a selfish answer:

To have never existed....

:eusa_shifty:

Don't ask just accept the answer for its complexity

Chynna White
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Nero on June 20, 2006, 08:08:00 AM
We'll try to accept it, Chynna, but I hope you don't really mean it.
The universe just wouldn't be the same without Chynna and you know it.

Nero
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: jaded on June 20, 2006, 08:41:39 AM
i wish i had proof that god loves all of us ,so i can show the world that if he does why shouldnt they
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Chynna on June 20, 2006, 09:04:13 AM
Quote from: jaded on June 20, 2006, 08:41:39 AM
i wish i had proof that god loves all of us ,so i can show the world that if he does why shouldnt they

Sorry this is my native american heritage coming out here...

The proof is all around us with every breath you breath to every beautiful aspect of life you see visually..
it only takes one "society" to open ones eyes and stoping to see and appreciate it!


I believe that what my father would say to me and that wish
But I definitly feel the VIBE Baby a Wish well spent.

Chynna
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: jaded on June 20, 2006, 09:27:56 AM
thanx chynna  i mean proof that is visible to those that dont see it now
i know that if god is then he must love us. but to many ppl dont see it
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Terra on June 26, 2006, 07:27:32 AM
Might be being a little bit geeky but...

I'd wish to be an interdimensional capable shifter. ;)

To those who don't know what a shifter is, it is someone capable of changing into ANYTHING, real or fantasy. Infact, the only constent about them is their very soul. This way I can bypass that pesky little limitation on my wish! ;D I'd also get eternal youth, endless adventure, and never have to go to a hair styalist or tanning salon again. Not to mention the ability to explore the multiverse and gain wisdom and experience to help those in need.
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: jaded on June 27, 2006, 08:56:58 AM
i wish to never see my grandfather pass
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: tinkerbell on June 30, 2006, 01:34:05 AM
tink :icon_chick:
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Kate on June 30, 2006, 08:47:30 AM
Quote from: Luana on June 26, 2006, 07:27:32 AM
I'd wish to be an interdimensional capable shifter. ;)

To those who don't know what a shifter is, it is someone capable of changing into ANYTHING, real or fantasy. Infact, the only constent about them is their very soul. This way I can bypass that pesky little limitation on my wish! ;D I'd also get eternal youth, endless adventure, and never have to go to a hair styalist or tanning salon again. Not to mention the ability to explore the multiverse and gain wisdom and experience to help those in need.

How do you know that you're not *already* one of these?

Perhaps you've just (intentionally) forgetten who you really are... a necessary, temporary "evil" in order to truly appreciate your current experience.
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: LynnER on July 01, 2006, 03:31:48 AM
Only one wish......?

Well if I were greedy and totaly self centered Id wish for my love to come back to me with open arms and an open heart and for her to never let go again.... but I wouldnt change a person for personal gain in that way...

What I would wish for though is for everyone in the worlld... and those to come into our world to have the strenght of charactor, the self confidence, the intestinal fortitude to be who they each want to be and for them to accept everyone else for who and or what they are... no fighting, no wars, just understanding and accomplishment...

If everyone had the personal strenght necicary in life imagin what we as the human race could accomplish and how quickly it all could actualy happen.....
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Annie Social on July 01, 2006, 08:21:12 PM
To be eighteen again, knowing what I know now.
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: jaded on July 01, 2006, 08:50:00 PM
i like that one  annie lol im 20
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: tinkerbell on July 08, 2006, 06:58:43 PM
tink :icon_chick:
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Chynna on July 08, 2006, 08:04:41 PM
WOW BABY!!!

thats deep......Does she realize now you didnt kill her son because you are inside the same person you've always been....I can see you've always been "TINKERBELL" regardless of the wrapper!!
And Im sure she does to Chica!

Chynna
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: tinkerbell on July 08, 2006, 08:38:39 PM
tink :icon_chick:
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: NightAngel on July 08, 2006, 10:06:10 PM

A society that accepts every individual no matter their gender, orientation, beliefs or anything else at all.

or

To be a woman so that I can finaly find the love and the happyness that i'm missing in my current mortal shell.Lol okay I know you said nothing about changing into woman I just couldn't resist, so I guess the first one ...

While we already speaking about wishes ...

         
                                          Three wishes

Three guys... an Irishman, a Scotsman and a Englishman are out walking along the beach together one day.

They come across a lantern and a genie pops out of it. "I will give you each one wish" says the genie.

The Scot says, "I am a farmer, my dad was a farmer, and my son will also farm. I want the land to be forever fertile in Scotland."

With a blink of the genie's eye, 'FOOM' - the land in Scotland was forever made fertile for farming.

The Englishman was amazed, so he said, "I want a wall around England, so that no one can come into our precious country.

Again, with a blink of the Genie's eye, 'POOF' - there was a huge wall around England.

The Irishman asks, "I'm very curious. Please tell me more about this wall."

The Genie explains, "Well, it's about 150 feet high, 50 feet thick and nothing can get in or out."

The Irishman says... "Fill it with water."  :)




                                           Three wishes 2

A man is walking down the beach and comes across an old bottle. He picks it up, pulls out the cork and out pops a genie.
The genie says, "Thank you for freeing me from the bottle. In return I will grant you three wishes."

The man cheers, "Great! I always dreamed of this and I know exactly what I want.

First, I want one billion dollars in a Swiss bank account." Poof! There is a flash of light and a piece of paper with account numbers appears in his hand.

He continues, "Next, I want a brand new red Ferrari right here." Poof! There is a flash of light and a bright red brand-new Ferrari appears right next to him.

He continues,"Finally, I want to be irresistible to women." Poof! There is a flash of light and he turns into a box of chocolates.  :)


* :icon_hug:*
Michelle

Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Leigh on July 09, 2006, 12:28:29 AM
Quote from: tinkerbell on July 08, 2006, 06:58:43 PM

"I'll never forgive you for killing my son; 



I'm not sure which is worse, your experience or the mother who killed her son.

The mother had an obituary published in the local paper stating her son died on an overseas vacation which was not even close to the truth.

Another woman here passed away shortly after her surgery was completed.  Even with a legal name and gender change the parents <<poor choice of words-- had her buried under the birth name.

I have made out a power of attorney and one of the stipulations is my name and no can change that.  Even what goes on the stone is written down.

Just another part of the paper trail that needs taken care of.

Leigh
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: wolfie on July 09, 2006, 04:51:14 AM
Quote from: tinkerbell on July 08, 2006, 08:38:39 PM
I guess she just thought that eventually I'd admit I'd made a mistake, and when she realized that wasn't happening, well.. I think that she knew then that I was for real.
Nowadays she is my best friend, she's come a very long way, I'd say....but still...I can't forget what she said years ago; it seems as if her words marked my life for good.


your friend,

tinkerbell :icon_chick:

Auntie Tink,

I could never see you being my "uncle tinkerbell"! And your story continues to give me hope for my family. You are always looking on the bright side of things and that is very encouraging to me. I am glad that you and your mom are bestfriends, mothers and daughters I believe should be.

your nephew,

    Tino
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Chynna on July 10, 2006, 08:06:52 AM
Quote from: tinkerbell on July 08, 2006, 08:38:39 PM
Hi Chynna Doll:

but still...I can't forget what she said years ago; it seems as if her words marked my life for good.

your friend,

tinkerbell :icon_chick:

You know what I do when I tend to think of the words and actions my mother
(sorry the woman who gave birth to me!)LOL
has said to hurt my feeling and emotional scare me....
I tend to think of the stuff I MYSELF have done to her that emotionally scared and marked her in her life
We all intentionally and unintentionally hurt the one we love in life more than we know because for each individual its different things that stick\scare them
so I think of it as karma so it balances out.

As for death hey I don't give a crap what they call me im dead! even if they do use my male name during the funeral everybody will be like "WHO??" "WHO THE HELL IS THAT!?"
LOL


Chynna White
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: stephanie_craxford on July 10, 2006, 10:12:53 AM
Quote from: Chynna on July 10, 2006, 08:06:52 AM
...

As for death hey I don't give a crap what they call me im dead! even if they do use my male name during the funeral everybody will be like "WHO??" "WHO THE HELL IS THAT!?"
LOL

Chynna White[/color]

As long as they don't dig you back up thinking that they buried the wrong person :D

Steph
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Chynna on July 10, 2006, 11:20:03 AM
Ah good point !!! :eusa_think:

Thats Why I want to be cremated !!!
WOW this is a morbid conversation!

LMAO

Chynna
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: stephanie_craxford on July 10, 2006, 01:35:18 PM
Quote from: Chynna on July 10, 2006, 11:20:03 AM
Ah good point !!! :eusa_think:

Thats Why I want to be cremated !!!
WOW this is a morbid conversation!

LMAO

Chynna

Yep sure is... There you are in your pot of gold, just don't ask for them to be scatered anywhere :) knowing my luck they would toss them into the air and they would blow back all over the crowd :)

Steph
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: tinkerbell on July 10, 2006, 05:54:26 PM
tink :icon_chick:
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Victoria L. on July 11, 2006, 02:06:28 PM
I'd wish to be as musically talented as Mozart was.
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Chynna on July 11, 2006, 02:31:31 PM
Hi Victoria one of my best friends is named TORIE...cutiest lil petite thing you ever saw.....

Sorry just your the first person I saw use that name besides her

Chynna
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: tinkerbell on October 11, 2006, 02:33:19 AM
tink :icon_chick:
Title: Re: Only one wish.......
Post by: Debbie_Anne on October 11, 2006, 04:39:31 AM
If I had only one wish, I think that I would wish that I wasn't transgendered, that I never would have had to have gone through all the pain and confusion that slowly discovering and learning to accept this part of myself has caused both me and my family (not to mention the expense of all this therapy and medications and moving...).  I will not deny that I am in a much better state of mind now than I ever have been in my entire life, but I honestly would NEVER want to go through all this again if I didn't have to.  But then again, thinking about it as I write this, I feel that there has to be a reason that I've had to go through all this...I may not know what it is yet, but there has to be something that I am to learn from taking this difficult path in life.  Maybe I'd just wish for enough money to take care of my needs (both transgender-related and not), and the needs of my family and friends, and to be able live comfortably for the rest of my life.