ok i am still a new crossdresser and need some advise i need to find a way to buy some clothes for myself and a way to hide them and note my mother and brother snoop about. also i need some money tips on where to buy.
[edit]Kimberly: A wee blotting.[/edit]
gamerjr;
Hi, it might help if you post an introduction so that we might know more about you. It would be easier to offer advise if we knew more about you, how old are you, how long have you dressed, ect [sounds like you still live at home]...
Look around, I think you'll find plenty of help and advice here...
It all depends on what you are shopping for, but I like to shop at Kohl's and the big department stores and look for sales and clearance items. It is nice to find a good quality item at 75% off or better. As far as hiding stuff you'd have to determine where a safe place was. Sometimes, in plain sight is good. I love looking at my femme clothes hanging next to my drab clothes.
One thing you NEVER should do is throw away your femme clothes [purge] in shame. That gets really expensive over time. When you get those feelings just hide them away because no matter how you feel at the momemt you'll want them in the future.
Good luck and enjoy ;D
Lynn
Quote from: lynn on July 21, 2006, 07:07:24 AM...
how old are you
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Not in this case ;) (That was my blotting); Go with young and leave it at that (=
gamerjr:
If you are still a minor, read to me like you intend to come across so.
Please read the posts around and consider taking care of yourself with some proffesional help. Psycologists and Psychiatrists and certified counselors with a Bachelors degree will keep your confidentiality, if you fear ridicule, that is understandable.
Ask your parents for help with a proffessional, if money is an issue and hard to come by, perhaps your school counselor can refer you to a community center or Catholic outreach program.
You can successfuly do this by saying that "I need help with a serious issue, please help me". Is important that you find someone to talk All of us did and we know that is the best way by far
Avoid any help that disrespect your parents ...they will also disrespect you, how can that make them your friends? i found this after years of hardship.
Now, This is not a game, gamerjr ...
if you are an adult please forgive me that I do not laugh at your prank. we do not fall 4 it. ...
we are not predators, is transparent ...have a great day, Sir.
Cordially, Sh18