I am getting close to 60, 34 years since transition (MtF), and have an awful time with 'normal' guys - they get all bent out of shape when I tell them about my childhood (and I am not about to be dishonest or secretive). Soooooo I was thinking (which usually gets me in trouble) that a T-guy would probably not have the same hang-ups - am I right or wrong?
If I am right, how the heck would I go about "running into" T-guys? At the auto parts store? The building centre?
I don't imagine they would be hanging at the Gay bars or Lesbian bars, would they?
Where do you guys go 'cruising' ?
****baiting my hook for a special man ;D ****
I'm too busy living to hang out anywhere, LOL. I can be found traveling in my RV, working, or having fun with my kids. I don't do bars; and I hope to start some new hobbies after my surgeries (biking and training for a century ride, acoustic guitar, and martial arts).
I hope to meet a nice lady somewhere along the way, someone who loves to travel, isn't married to material things, who isn't afraid of a little dog hair or getting her hands dirty, is intelligent with a great sense of humor, is low maintenance, and an optimist and happy with life thus far.
Jay
Maybe try TG support groups and such. And yes you're likely to find quite a few hanging around lesbian joints.
I suggest support groups to find what you define.