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Community Conversation => Non-binary talk => Topic started by: Veetje on August 18, 2008, 03:43:29 PM

Title: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Veetje on August 18, 2008, 03:43:29 PM
Hi Nero! I always love your posts, thanks :)

WHat I was wondering is....looking at your picture and your profile is two things....

~ You are on the avatar picture and underneath is says that you are ill....what kind of illness? IS it the genderdysphoria that you see as an illness or is it something else?

~ I am sorry that you lost your husband :(  Did you feel genderdysphoric when he was still with you , how did he respond...or did it happen after he passed away?

You intrigue me somehow

I hope you dont find me intrusive  :-\
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Sephirah on August 18, 2008, 03:51:54 PM
Um... perhaps this would be better expressed in a PM?

There may be things he doesn't feel are appropriate for a public forum.
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Veetje on August 18, 2008, 03:53:47 PM

Ohw, sorry...didnt think about that

You can PM me if you want Nero, doesnt have to be here

Sorry  :-\
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Nero on August 18, 2008, 03:57:39 PM
Well the pic is a few years old. I actually look pretty sick now. Which is why I haven't had any taken in a long time. Feel free to pm me for more info if you want.
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Elwood on August 18, 2008, 04:01:18 PM
Get well soon, Nero.
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Nero on August 18, 2008, 04:06:14 PM
Thanks Dan.  :)
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Shana A on August 18, 2008, 04:49:15 PM
Hey Nero, I like your new sig. Congrats!

Z
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Nero on August 18, 2008, 04:53:14 PM
Thanks Z.  :)
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Dennis on August 18, 2008, 05:40:33 PM
I was gonna post about your sig too, Nero. Congratulations, I'm proud of you dude.

Dennis
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Nero on August 18, 2008, 05:58:34 PM
thanks Den.  :)
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Jaimey on August 18, 2008, 07:26:18 PM
I think it's safe to say that we all love and adore you, Nero!!!  :icon_love:  Feel our love!!!  (as it lingers outside your house, looking through windows, seeping under the doors, watching you sleep...:icon_suspicious:)

:-*
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Nero on August 18, 2008, 07:29:06 PM
aww and love you all too Jaimsey. *paranoidly checks door locks*
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Eva Marie on August 18, 2008, 09:57:40 PM
I also like the new sig, Nero. I know what you are doing is tough. Hang in there  :angel:
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: NicholeW. on August 18, 2008, 10:55:22 PM
Keep up the good work, Nero.

You can handle it, fella.

Nikki
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Nero on August 18, 2008, 10:56:16 PM
Thanks Riven and Nikki.  :)
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Kate Thomas on August 18, 2008, 11:48:08 PM
Great Sig Nero!

Best Wishes
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Nero on August 18, 2008, 11:57:40 PM
Thanks Kate Alice.  :)
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Dennis on August 19, 2008, 12:40:45 AM
I've been waiting to hear the news that you were sober for a long time Nero. Don't think I can express how glad I am to see that ticker counting up. Means more to me than my own countdown to hysto, or anyone else's countdowns. Dude, you get tempted and think. I'd give up my next surgery for you to stay sober. You're worth it.

Dennis
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Nero on August 19, 2008, 12:45:49 AM
Quote from: Dennis on August 19, 2008, 12:40:45 AM
I've been waiting to hear the news that you were sober for a long time Nero. Don't think I can express how glad I am to see that ticker counting up. Means more to me than my own countdown to hysto, or anyone else's countdowns. Dude, you get tempted and think. I'd give up my next surgery for you to stay sober. You're worth it.

Dennis

aww Den. I'm getting all choked up now. Thanks so much for caring. *hug*
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: umop ap!sdn on August 19, 2008, 01:05:24 AM
I too am always glad to read your posts, Nero. To me you're part of what makes this board the great place it is. :) :) :) I don't know what all it is you're going through but I wish you the best!
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Nero on August 19, 2008, 01:17:18 AM
aww thanks nerdychick. :)
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: PolarBear on August 19, 2008, 02:31:47 AM
I got a huge grin on my face when I saw that ticker. I'm proud of you, Nero!  :icon_boogy:
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: je on August 19, 2008, 12:36:35 PM
 Alright. Here's a round of applause for Nero lol. :eusa_clap:
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Lisbeth on August 19, 2008, 02:05:02 PM
Quote from: PolarBear on August 19, 2008, 02:31:47 AM
I got a huge grin on my face when I saw that ticker. I'm proud of you, Nero!  :icon_boogy:

We need to get it to start ticking up.  Sobriety is the best thing in the world for you, hon.
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Lokaeign on August 19, 2008, 05:23:02 PM
Take care, Nero.
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Jaimey on August 19, 2008, 05:43:17 PM
Quote from: Nero on August 18, 2008, 07:29:06 PM
aww and love you all too Jaimsey. *paranoidly checks door locks*

As if a lock could keep my love out!  *whips out hairpin*  ...that's...creepy.  :P

:-* :-* :-*
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Janet_Girl on August 20, 2008, 12:08:39 AM
My Dearest Nero,

I have said it to you privately and now I will say it publicly.

I am very, very proud of for three days.  One day at a time, my dear.

If you need to talk, blow off stream, and need a shoulder, PM me.  I am here.


Janet
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Suzy on August 20, 2008, 12:16:17 AM
Dearest Nero,

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi218.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fcc218%2Fddrecord%2Fwaytogo.gif&hash=538396dd4c67df8a5921750e2bbf705d83fd2929)

I am really, tremendously, amazingly proud of you!  And do call or drop me a note if you ever need to talk.

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fganjataz.com%2F01smileys%2Fimages%2Fsmileys%2FloopyBlonde-blinking.gif&hash=4545ddf8251cf9c32ae6074d56e48bc34a755857)Kristi
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Arch on August 20, 2008, 01:04:22 AM
I am speechless--not a state that I'm accustomed to. YOU ROCK, NERO.
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Lisbeth on August 20, 2008, 08:40:39 AM
Want me to help you get an automatic ticker that you only have to change if you fall off the wagon?
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Jaimey on August 20, 2008, 06:25:08 PM
I think we need to rename this the "Nero Love Thread!"  :icon_booty-nerd: 
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Nero on August 20, 2008, 06:48:26 PM
Quote from: The Elf's Miss Lisbeff on August 20, 2008, 08:40:39 AM
Want me to help you get an automatic ticker that you only have to change if you fall off the wagon?

yes I'd love that! but make it pretty and pastel please, Lizzie.  :)
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Janet_Girl on August 20, 2008, 07:21:24 PM
Quote from: Jaimey on August 20, 2008, 06:25:08 PM
I think we need to rename this the "Nero Love Thread!"  :icon_booty-nerd: 

I don't have a problem with that.  :D After all he has taken a great step forward on his Journey.  ;D
* Really Big Kiss and Hug * for Nero , My Hero. On Day four.

Much Love,

Janet
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Nero on August 20, 2008, 07:31:45 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PkGDrV_2ehI (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PkGDrV_2ehI)

I love you guys!  :-*
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Lukas-H on August 22, 2008, 01:11:42 AM
Well I'm going to join in with everyone else and say I'm happy for you and what you're doing now :) I know it must be tough, but every time I see another day added on to that ticker, I grin like a fool. :D
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Arch on August 22, 2008, 01:16:48 AM
Nero, for the last couple of weeks I have been struggling not to drink...a couple of times I actually opened the bottle and took a whiff, but I never actually drank any. The urge is particularly strong tonight, but I keep thinking, "Nero can do it, so maybe I can too."

A lot of times I wish I had stayed in the damned closet, but then I remember that if I had done that, I wouldn't have gotten to know all the terrific people here at Susan's. Especially you.

Chin up. I'm rooting for you and I'm rooting for me.
Title: Re: Dear Nero
Post by: Christo on August 22, 2008, 02:02:37 AM
Yep u go bro :icon_joy:  :eusa_dance: to much booze aint good 4 anyone so I'm hella happy 4 u to.
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Veetje on August 22, 2008, 05:52:26 PM

Topic renamed by request ^^  ;D
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Janet_Girl on August 22, 2008, 05:57:47 PM
That is much better.  ;D

* Big Hugs, Big Kisses, and Big Love for Nero, My Hero *

Janet
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Lokaeign on August 22, 2008, 06:45:55 PM
I support this renaming and wish to offer huggiez manly British shoulder-grasps and/or back-slaps as appropriate.
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Shana A on August 22, 2008, 07:30:22 PM
The new thread name is great, but don't you think we should create a whole forum section just for Nero? He deserves it!  ;D  ;D

Z
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Nero on August 22, 2008, 07:53:35 PM
lol ok guys i'm seriously red right now.  :laugh:
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: umop ap!sdn on August 22, 2008, 10:11:01 PM
Quote from: Nero on August 20, 2008, 07:31:45 PMhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PkGDrV_2ehI
OMG, I remember this video.... that takes me back!

Quote from: Nero on August 22, 2008, 07:53:35 PM
lol ok guys i'm seriously red right now.  :laugh:
Then we're all succeeding. ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Janet_Girl on August 22, 2008, 10:12:46 PM
Nothing is cuter than a guy blushing.  * giggles *

Janet
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Veetje on August 22, 2008, 10:18:09 PM
Quote from: Janet Lynn on August 22, 2008, 10:12:46 PM
Nothing is cuter than a guy blushing.  * giggles *

Janet


Have to agree ^^

*drool*
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Sephirah on August 22, 2008, 11:31:39 PM
*smiles*

You deserve to know how much people love and care about you, honey.

*big hug*
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: TheBattler on August 23, 2008, 01:34:12 AM
Just for our lovable Nero.

*Big Hug*

Glad things are going well for you.

Alice


Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Eva Marie on August 23, 2008, 11:37:16 AM
Woo Hoo!!!!

Nero has the first week under his belt  8)

I hope for many more weeks for you, bro. You can do it.
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: fae_reborn on August 23, 2008, 11:59:16 AM
Congratulations Nero, I'm really proud of you.  And I have to echo a statement made earlier, you really make this board the great place it is.  Stay strong because you're worth it hun. :icon_hug:  :-*

My best sweetie,

Jenn
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Kate Thomas on August 23, 2008, 12:08:05 PM
Has it been a week already?

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwwwimage.cbsnews.com%2Fimages%2F2002%2F01%2F25%2Fimage325611x.jpg&hash=174f6dd1a241f96df2301a17e53abc36e69d30d7)

soon you will be counting the weeks.

K
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Ciarquin on August 24, 2008, 03:09:33 AM
That's great to hear Nero, congrats :) I've found many of your topics and posts to be very interesting and thought-provoking.
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: trapthavok on August 24, 2008, 09:08:34 AM
Just as an add on... I've seen the sobriety ticker in your signature. I just wanted to say congrats on that dude!!! Stay strong! :icon_hug:
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Jaimey on August 25, 2008, 08:41:57 PM
It's a good thing we're doing this online and not in person because our lovely Nero would get crushed (or at least felt up by anonymous groping hands)!  :-* 

I LOVE MY NERO!!!!  :D  I'm proud of you! 
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: PolarBear on August 26, 2008, 01:17:29 AM
Hey Nero,

still going strong I see? Way to go!
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Kate Thomas on August 30, 2008, 05:06:39 PM
See Two Weeks hey your doing great!


would you



care for


a sip of


Milk?
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Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Janet_Girl on August 30, 2008, 06:29:05 PM
* 2 Weeks *

Way to go Nero, My Hero.

* Big Hug and A Big Kiss *

All My Love,
Janet
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Veetje on August 31, 2008, 01:37:19 PM

Yayyy Nero!!   :-*
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Seshatneferw on September 02, 2008, 05:34:00 AM
Quote from: Nero on August 22, 2008, 07:53:35 PM
lol ok guys i'm seriously red right now.  :laugh:

Watch out for Joe McCarthy. ;)

:icon_hug:

  Nfr
  catching up after a far too busy month
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Suzy on September 02, 2008, 08:58:55 AM
Still going, Nero!  Hang in there!

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fganjataz.com%2F01smileys%2Fimages%2Fsmileys%2FloopyBlonde-blinking.gif&hash=4545ddf8251cf9c32ae6074d56e48bc34a755857)Kristi
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Jay on September 02, 2008, 09:35:19 AM
Keep it up buddy boy! *hugs*
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: PolarBear on September 03, 2008, 01:08:10 PM
Looking good Nero!
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: Camden on September 05, 2008, 08:22:55 PM
Things can only get better Nero, we are all here for you! Camden
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: RebeccaFog on September 05, 2008, 10:13:38 PM

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.napoleonguide.com%2Fimages%2Fnapgal_alps.jpg&hash=da4fb9b6dc30a65b34dd72987844059d52297348)

Have faith. You are on your way to glory.
Title: Re: Nero Love n Huggiez Thread
Post by: iFindMeHere on September 05, 2008, 11:43:15 PM
*addz moar  :icon_hug: :icon_hug: :icon_hug: :icon_hug: :icon_hug: *

just keep  :icon_walk: . Screw the paper details of your life hon... that can change at any time for any reason. You have more people karing about you than you'll ever know, you just inspire that. Can't you tell? :)