Hi Nero! I always love your posts, thanks :)
WHat I was wondering is....looking at your picture and your profile is two things....
~ You are on the avatar picture and underneath is says that you are ill....what kind of illness? IS it the genderdysphoria that you see as an illness or is it something else?
~ I am sorry that you lost your husband :( Did you feel genderdysphoric when he was still with you , how did he respond...or did it happen after he passed away?
You intrigue me somehow
I hope you dont find me intrusive :-\
Um... perhaps this would be better expressed in a PM?
There may be things he doesn't feel are appropriate for a public forum.
Ohw, sorry...didnt think about that
You can PM me if you want Nero, doesnt have to be here
Sorry :-\
Well the pic is a few years old. I actually look pretty sick now. Which is why I haven't had any taken in a long time. Feel free to pm me for more info if you want.
Get well soon, Nero.
Thanks Dan. :)
Hey Nero, I like your new sig. Congrats!
Z
Thanks Z. :)
I was gonna post about your sig too, Nero. Congratulations, I'm proud of you dude.
Dennis
thanks Den. :)
I think it's safe to say that we all love and adore you, Nero!!! :icon_love: Feel our love!!! (as it lingers outside your house, looking through windows, seeping under the doors, watching you sleep...:icon_suspicious:)
:-*
aww and love you all too Jaimsey. *paranoidly checks door locks*
I also like the new sig, Nero. I know what you are doing is tough. Hang in there :angel:
Keep up the good work, Nero.
You can handle it, fella.
Nikki
Thanks Riven and Nikki. :)
Great Sig Nero!
Best Wishes
Thanks Kate Alice. :)
I've been waiting to hear the news that you were sober for a long time Nero. Don't think I can express how glad I am to see that ticker counting up. Means more to me than my own countdown to hysto, or anyone else's countdowns. Dude, you get tempted and think. I'd give up my next surgery for you to stay sober. You're worth it.
Dennis
Quote from: Dennis on August 19, 2008, 12:40:45 AM
I've been waiting to hear the news that you were sober for a long time Nero. Don't think I can express how glad I am to see that ticker counting up. Means more to me than my own countdown to hysto, or anyone else's countdowns. Dude, you get tempted and think. I'd give up my next surgery for you to stay sober. You're worth it.
Dennis
aww Den. I'm getting all choked up now. Thanks so much for caring. *hug*
I too am always glad to read your posts, Nero. To me you're part of what makes this board the great place it is. :) :) :) I don't know what all it is you're going through but I wish you the best!
aww thanks nerdychick. :)
I got a huge grin on my face when I saw that ticker. I'm proud of you, Nero! :icon_boogy:
Alright. Here's a round of applause for Nero lol. :eusa_clap:
Quote from: PolarBear on August 19, 2008, 02:31:47 AM
I got a huge grin on my face when I saw that ticker. I'm proud of you, Nero! :icon_boogy:
We need to get it to start ticking up. Sobriety is the best thing in the world for you, hon.
Take care, Nero.
Quote from: Nero on August 18, 2008, 07:29:06 PM
aww and love you all too Jaimsey. *paranoidly checks door locks*
As if a lock could keep my love out! *whips out hairpin* ...that's...creepy. :P
:-* :-* :-*
My Dearest Nero,
I have said it to you privately and now I will say it publicly.
I am very, very proud of for three days. One day at a time, my dear.
If you need to talk, blow off stream, and need a shoulder, PM me. I am here.
Janet
Dearest Nero,
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I am really, tremendously, amazingly proud of you! And do call or drop me a note if you ever need to talk.
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I am speechless--not a state that I'm accustomed to. YOU ROCK, NERO.
Want me to help you get an automatic ticker that you only have to change if you fall off the wagon?
I think we need to rename this the "Nero Love Thread!" :icon_booty-nerd:
Quote from: The Elf's Miss Lisbeff on August 20, 2008, 08:40:39 AM
Want me to help you get an automatic ticker that you only have to change if you fall off the wagon?
yes I'd love that! but make it pretty and pastel please, Lizzie. :)
Quote from: Jaimey on August 20, 2008, 06:25:08 PM
I think we need to rename this the "Nero Love Thread!" :icon_booty-nerd:
I don't have a problem with that. :D After all he has taken a great step forward on his Journey. ;D
* Really Big Kiss and Hug * for Nero , My Hero. On Day four.
Much Love,Janet
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PkGDrV_2ehI (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PkGDrV_2ehI)
I love you guys! :-*
Well I'm going to join in with everyone else and say I'm happy for you and what you're doing now :) I know it must be tough, but every time I see another day added on to that ticker, I grin like a fool. :D
Nero, for the last couple of weeks I have been struggling not to drink...a couple of times I actually opened the bottle and took a whiff, but I never actually drank any. The urge is particularly strong tonight, but I keep thinking, "Nero can do it, so maybe I can too."
A lot of times I wish I had stayed in the damned closet, but then I remember that if I had done that, I wouldn't have gotten to know all the terrific people here at Susan's. Especially you.
Chin up. I'm rooting for you and I'm rooting for me.
Yep u go bro :icon_joy: :eusa_dance: to much booze aint good 4 anyone so I'm hella happy 4 u to.
Topic renamed by request ^^ ;D
That is much better. ;D
* Big Hugs, Big Kisses, and Big Love for Nero, My Hero *
Janet
I support this renaming and wish to offer huggiez manly British shoulder-grasps and/or back-slaps as appropriate.
The new thread name is great, but don't you think we should create a whole forum section just for Nero? He deserves it! ;D ;D
Z
lol ok guys i'm seriously red right now. :laugh:
Quote from: Nero on August 20, 2008, 07:31:45 PMhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PkGDrV_2ehI
OMG, I remember this video.... that takes me back!
Quote from: Nero on August 22, 2008, 07:53:35 PM
lol ok guys i'm seriously red right now. :laugh:
Then we're all succeeding. ;D ;D ;D
Nothing is cuter than a guy blushing. * giggles *
Janet
Quote from: Janet Lynn on August 22, 2008, 10:12:46 PM
Nothing is cuter than a guy blushing. * giggles *
Janet
Have to agree ^^
*drool*
*smiles*
You deserve to know how much people love and care about you, honey.
*big hug*
Just for our lovable Nero.
*Big Hug*
Glad things are going well for you.
Alice
Woo Hoo!!!!
Nero has the first week under his belt 8)
I hope for many more weeks for you, bro. You can do it.
Congratulations Nero, I'm really proud of you. And I have to echo a statement made earlier, you really make this board the great place it is. Stay strong because you're worth it hun. :icon_hug: :-*
My best sweetie,
Jenn
Has it been a week already?
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soon you will be counting the weeks.
K
That's great to hear Nero, congrats :) I've found many of your topics and posts to be very interesting and thought-provoking.
Just as an add on... I've seen the sobriety ticker in your signature. I just wanted to say congrats on that dude!!! Stay strong! :icon_hug:
It's a good thing we're doing this online and not in person because our lovely Nero would get crushed (or at least felt up by anonymous groping hands)! :-*
I LOVE MY NERO!!!! :D I'm proud of you!
Hey Nero,
still going strong I see? Way to go!
See Two Weeks hey your doing great!
would you
care for
a sip of
Milk?
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* 2 Weeks *
Way to go Nero, My Hero.
* Big Hug and A Big Kiss *
All My Love,
Janet
Yayyy Nero!! :-*
Quote from: Nero on August 22, 2008, 07:53:35 PM
lol ok guys i'm seriously red right now. :laugh:
Watch out for Joe McCarthy. ;)
:icon_hug:
Nfr
catching up after a far too busy month
Still going, Nero! Hang in there!
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Keep it up buddy boy! *hugs*
Looking good Nero!
Things can only get better Nero, we are all here for you! Camden
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Have faith. You are on your way to glory.
*addz moar :icon_hug: :icon_hug: :icon_hug: :icon_hug: :icon_hug: *
just keep :icon_walk: . Screw the paper details of your life hon... that can change at any time for any reason. You have more people karing about you than you'll ever know, you just inspire that. Can't you tell? :)