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Title: Hello Everyone.
Post by: Reluctant Kim on October 24, 2008, 07:10:04 PM
Hello from the great (soon to be white) North.  I was active in San Diego in one of the TransGender groups there about 15 years ago, but when I got out of the Navy I came home to Michigan and put the cloths away.  When I met my wife, I made sure she knew everything about me before we got serious, and she stuck with me.  We've been happily married ever since, and she lets me dress up whenever it's convienient (read - NO KIDS in the house).  I decided to look around the Net for a support forum for TG's and it appears that I have found one.  This looks to be a great place full of friendly, decent people.  I probably won't be posting a lot, but I will certainly be taking in what every here has to say.

Thanks for being here.

Kim
Title: Re: Hello Everyone.
Post by: Kristen on October 25, 2008, 03:51:48 AM
Welcome Kim!

I am new here too. Just like you have, I may even introduce myself one day. Until then, I'll be reading through all the old threads, posting comments, and resurrecting dead threads on my own. I look forward to hearing more from you. See you around!
Title: Re: Hello Everyone.
Post by: Chrissty on October 25, 2008, 07:49:43 AM
Hi Kim,

Welcome to Susan's from the UK...Soon to be Mostly Wet.. ::)

I've been here for a few months now, and I think you will find you have made an excellent choice!..

..The only real problem is keeping up..... with so much going on....

:icon_hug:

Chrissty
Title: Re: Hello Everyone.
Post by: Jay on October 25, 2008, 09:45:18 AM
Welcome Kim to Susans Place!
Title: Re: Hello Everyone.
Post by: Reluctant Kim on October 25, 2008, 10:27:40 AM
Thanks everyone.  You are all so nice. Since leaving San Diego for Hicksville, I really miss having CD friendly clubs to go to, or groups to get involved with.  There was supposedly a group in this area, but my eMails have gone unanswered dispite my best attempts to show sincerity.  I might have to look outside the local area and get a hotel room with the wife some weekend if I can find a place or a group to visit.

But I look forward to (virtually) meeting you all.  Again, this looks like a great place.  Thanks for the warm welcomes.
Title: Re: Hello Everyone.
Post by: Chrissty on October 25, 2008, 10:33:36 AM
Ow heck....

...I'm going to ask.....

..Why "Reluctant?"...

Sorry   :icon_bunch:...It's just making me more curious the more I think about it!

Chrissty
Title: Re: Hello Everyone.
Post by: Reluctant Kim on October 25, 2008, 02:28:42 PM
Reluctant to get active again after 15 years.  I had purged, to some extent when I got married and became a step-dad to three.  I felt it better to do away with the things that might be discovered and cause problems, not only within the house-hold, but with the wife's ex that might find out.  It wasn't because I had quit, just that it was a matter of necessity at the time.  Now that the step kids are grown and out of the house, the two of my own aren't quite the same situation, and we live in a house that allows me a little more privacy in how I can pack my things away.

Reluctant in that now I am not as thin as I was 15 years ago and will have a much tougher time passing than I did back then, and even then I would pull off everything I needed to "disguise" except my face, which was marginal at best.

Reluctant to get so engrosed in this again that it may impact my life in a negative way.  Lots of those old fears coming back.  But at least I have an understanding and supportive wife, and an encouraging one at that.

Thanks for asking.
Title: Re: Hello Everyone.
Post by: Chrissty on October 25, 2008, 03:11:03 PM
Hey Kim

Thank you for replying  :icon_bunch: :icon_bunch:

I wasn't sure whether I should ask...

...but as we seem to share similar issues, I better consider changing my name too...

*big hug* :icon_hug:

Reluctant Chrissty
Title: Re: Hello Everyone.
Post by: Reluctant Kim on October 25, 2008, 03:50:34 PM
I guess I will be bold and post the only two pictures I have of myself today.  My wife did my makeup and hair, and she was wonderful about it.  We went out to our camper that is located at a local campground perminantly (we know the owners), so I appoligize for the messy camper.  It's a work in progress, and as you can see it needs a lot of work (as do I).  I hope this doesn't offend anyone...

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Ffarm4.static.flickr.com%2F3224%2F2962387701_f750260e35.jpg&hash=939e10efd96aa870b1aa3bd71af101630f6f6cc8)

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Ffarm4.static.flickr.com%2F3236%2F2963248868_513151c4f0.jpg&hash=3ac9832a6034ab575b092ce966166b8b3e7c976e)
Title: Re: Hello Everyone.
Post by: tinkerbell on October 26, 2008, 04:36:15 PM
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Hello Kim and welcome to Susan's!

Thanks so much for introducing yourself.  Please take a few moments to get familiar with all the boards of the site, review the site rules  (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)before posting, and take advantage of our many resources such as the wiki (https://www.susans.org/wiki/Main_Page), chat (https://www.susans.org/chat/index.html), and the links listed at the main page. (https://www.susans.org/index.html)  We look forward to your future posts and participation.  Enjoy your stay :)

tink :icon_chick:
Title: Re: Hello Everyone.
Post by: debbie j on October 27, 2008, 06:29:03 PM
hiyea kim iam from the great soon to be very white north too. there is a lot of good people here and lots of good information too at

susans . :). and i hope to see you around the forums  8)