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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: scarboroughfair on November 15, 2008, 12:37:05 PM

Title: Is it always this hard?
Post by: scarboroughfair on November 15, 2008, 12:37:05 PM
you know, I always wondered if it was tough all the way....


Seems evident thst it is.....
I have come to realize that most folks that are "straight" or don't follow transgender issues, you know, forget it.
I'm so darned scared to post anythingh anymore''' I thought I was a woman, yet I fell sooooo in love with another woman.......
IO guess that makes m,e a loser.......
Title: Re: Is it always this hard?
Post by: Renate on November 15, 2008, 01:24:55 PM
Quote from: scarboroughfair on November 15, 2008, 12:37:05 PM
I thought I was a woman, yet I fell sooooo in love with another woman.......
I guess that makes me a loser.......

Um, it could just make you a lesbian.
Title: Re: Is it always this hard?
Post by: kaitygrl on November 30, 2008, 01:33:31 AM
It can be very difficult for many people. There are no easy answers for most and the journey is never easy. Understand though, that love is truly blind and does not care about race, color, gender, sex, etc. If you love a girl, you love a girl. It doesn't mean that you aren't one. Don't be afraid to post anything because you will never learn anything. You should never be afraid to speak your mind and even less afraid to ask questions. By no means, are you a loser. That mentality and self pity will only hurt you in the future no matter who you are. Have more confidence in who you are and what you say. We all have our doubts and insecurities sweetie. Learn to control them. Don't let them control you.
Title: Re: Is it always this hard?
Post by: Janet_Girl on November 30, 2008, 01:53:57 AM
scarboroughfair,

That is why we are here.  To give and get support, advise and a shoulder to lean on.

Janet

Title: Re: Is it always this hard?
Post by: Mister on November 30, 2008, 02:33:49 AM
Is what hard and stressful?  Transition?  Mine sucked for about ten non-consecutive days. 
Title: Re: Is it always this hard?
Post by: Jeatyn on November 30, 2008, 08:34:38 AM
Sexuality has nothing to do with gender

I see myself as a gay male

It's so strange knowing I'm gay, but appearing straight to the outside world. I thought I was a lesbian for the longest time because that at least fit in with that part of the equation.