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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Cindy on December 25, 2008, 12:37:53 AM

Title: Stepping Right Out
Post by: Cindy on December 25, 2008, 12:37:53 AM
Hi
A female friend (leigh) called. "i've got about a dozen people over for drinks, want to come over?" "I'm dressed as Cindy"  "Your call" I went, called a taxi -first time as Cindy - nice driver treated me totally different than I ever have been dressed in male clothes. Got to Leigh's. "You look nice" "I've told everyone your a new TG and very brave and you are my friend" What a noght everyone was sooo friendly, some of the guys were reseved but all said hello Cindy and Good night when they left. I was treated just like one of the girls. Syaayed the night in the spare bed, got a taxi in the morning, really nice driver again.
I'm still floating. YES I CAN DO IT

Love
Cindy
Title: Re: Stepping Right Out
Post by: Pneumonica on December 25, 2008, 01:14:22 AM
Outstanding!  Confidence is the best beauty cream.  Congratulations!
Title: Re: Stepping Right Out
Post by: Cindy on December 25, 2008, 01:35:12 AM
Thanks Honey
Have a beautiful festive
All I want for Christmas is a new V! ;)
Balls and tackle available on E-Bay
Title: Re: Stepping Right Out
Post by: sarahb on December 25, 2008, 02:00:51 AM
Ya, a night like that does wonders for someone's confidence. Glad to hear you had a good time and Merry Christmas!
Title: Re: Stepping Right Out
Post by: katiekins on December 25, 2008, 02:15:30 AM
Congrats Cindy, I'm so happy to hear it went well :-)
Title: Re: Stepping Right Out
Post by: Janet_Girl on December 25, 2008, 02:31:06 AM
It is amazing how something so simple can make so big a difference.. You go, Girl

Janet

Title: Re: Stepping Right Out
Post by: Diane on December 25, 2008, 03:30:43 AM
Thats great to hear Cindy.
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Post by: Rita Irene on December 25, 2008, 04:17:21 AM
Thats awesome! Good for you ;D
Title: Re: Stepping Right Out
Post by: Jamie_B on December 25, 2008, 08:54:43 PM
Super proud of you...very nice.  I can hardly wait myself :0)
Title: Re: Stepping Right Out
Post by: lizbeth on December 26, 2008, 01:05:23 AM
great to hear, cindy! I"m so proud of you  :icon_hug:
Title: Re: Stepping Right Out
Post by: Cindy on December 26, 2008, 01:16:53 AM
Thanks to All
Now the Xmas sales are on, do I have the ability to go out in track pants T shirt and sandals ( plus of course the make up) and join the cisclan hoard.
MMM
LOL to all of you
Cindy James
Title: Re: Stepping Right Out
Post by: Wendy C on December 26, 2008, 04:51:06 PM
Great feeling isnt it. You go girl and hugs.

Wendy
Title: Re: Stepping Right Out
Post by: Cindy on December 27, 2008, 01:10:30 AM
OH I did it
A packed Westfield shopping Mall. First day of sales. THOUSANDS of people. Had to park ~1Km away. No one had a problem Bought a skirt - and tried it on in the change room (a first). And two pairs of shoes. That now makes 30 (plus) pair of shoes for Cindy and one pair for himself ( it has to go to work as a him)

Cindy James
Title: Re: Stepping Right Out
Post by: lizbeth on December 27, 2008, 01:17:04 AM
yay! congrats, cindy!
Title: Re: Stepping Right Out
Post by: katherine on December 27, 2008, 05:51:43 AM
Congratulations Cindy!  That takes some pretty big ovaries!  Looks like this might become a habit...
Title: Re: Stepping Right Out
Post by: MarySue on December 27, 2008, 10:15:55 AM
Quote from: CindyJames on December 27, 2008, 01:10:30 AM
That now makes 30 (plus) pair of shoes for Cindy and one pair for himself

Sounds like a typical married couple's closet!

Sorry -- I couldn't resist that. But I'm sure you're not the only person here with that sort of ratio (she says after looking in her closet).
Title: Re: Stepping Right Out
Post by: tekla on December 27, 2008, 10:18:29 AM
3 pair of woman's shoes, kinky heels, sensible flats, fancy heels - one pair of work boots, one Converse skater shoe, and one xtrainer.   Miss Marcos I'm not.
Title: Re: Stepping Right Out
Post by: Alyx. on December 27, 2008, 10:18:51 AM
Quote from: Katherine on December 27, 2008, 05:51:43 AM
Congratulations Cindy!  That takes some pretty big ovaries!  Looks like this might become a habit...
Yeah, MASSIVE ovaries! :P

I might have to adopt that saying. :P
Title: Re: Stepping Right Out
Post by: tekla on December 27, 2008, 10:21:08 AM
Though I think that it a moment that for the people who have done it, well, everyone is brave at that moment.  However, 95% of that bravery is getting over yourself really.  The world at large (as opposed to those close to us) doesn't care as much as we think it does.
Title: Re: Stepping Right Out
Post by: MarySue on December 27, 2008, 02:06:36 PM
Quote from: tekla on December 27, 2008, 10:21:08 AM
... The world at large (as opposed to those close to us) doesn't care as much as we think it does.

That's been my experience. And I'll take it one step further: Thinking that the rest of the world does care is very narcissistic and self-absorbed.

And, yes, I will be the first to admit that I've fallen into that trap.