I guess this thread relates to a locked one, I wasn't here to put in my two cents.
I took this cheesy online quiz about my traits to prove I was a transgender.
One question that remains in my head.
"If you could take a magic wand and make your feelings disappear and live the life you were physically born as, would you?"
My immediate answer was "YES"
I would love to live a traditional family life.
I want my mind to match my body, but I can't make that happen.
I'm fairly stable now, so I'll keep pulling for positive change. ooxx
No
I have worked to hard on this and I am sure I have enough points chalked up in my Kharma log that I can chose to come back as a natal woman next time.
I would not change anything. Well, except maybe that I would a bio woman. As for the typical family life thet is no such thing. Every family has problems and issues. It is just one of many.
Janet
Quote from: Janet Lynn on March 03, 2009, 01:35:48 PM
I would not change anything. Well, except maybe that I would a bio woman. As for the typical family life thet is no such thing. Every family has problems and issues. It is just one of many.
Janet
Very, very, well said :)
Once upon a time, yes. I was young and finding my place in the world and wracked by shame, and I was trying hard to get rid of "those feelings" by ignoring them or trying to "be better" at "being a guy," whatever that means. I figured that being a guy was like golf or snowboarding or the mandolin or something, that it was a chore until you got the hang of it. Eventually I got the hang of it, more or less, and realized I was wrong.
But I always wished I could have just been born a girl without any complications about it.
~Alyssa
Yes, I would love to have been born with a male mind. I wouldn`t be me but I would not have this problem that i never asked for. And more so be born female with my mind i have now.
"If you could take a magic wand and make your feelings disappear and live the life you were physically born as, would you?"
No, absolutely no.
Im also with Janet
i would not change anything even the upset, i have worked hard to make my journey an enjoyable one and i would never give that up. Being born a bio girl would of helped save some time though :)
Definitely would not want to change the past. Things have happened I regret but all the good outweighs the bad by far. And there is th learning process, sort like maturing I beleive is good for me.
I would change nothing. I like my life the way it is. It isn't perfect, but it's mine. There are so many things I am so happy and grateful for in my life (mostly my wife) and had I been born any differently, those things would not have been possible.
Quote from: Janet Lynn on March 03, 2009, 01:35:48 PM
I would not change anything. Well, except maybe that I would a bio woman. As for the typical family life thet is no such thing. Every family has problems and issues. It is just one of many.
Janet
in my family its the biggest problem and by far the worst possible problem to ever occur to them
Quote from: Elizabeth K on March 03, 2009, 01:16:39 PM
No
I have worked to hard on this and I am sure I have enough points chalked up in my Kharma log that I can chose to come back as a natal woman next time.
Seconded. I wouldn't change a thing, even if there was a magic wand, because there isn't. One quote I keep reminding myself of: "Women aren't born, they're made."
I've worked very hard to become the woman I am today. :)