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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: JakeGrimm on March 11, 2009, 03:57:57 PM

Title: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: JakeGrimm on March 11, 2009, 03:57:57 PM
So, as the title says, I'm new. Uhm, so, a little about me. My name is Savannah, but I mostly go by Jake online. For the past oh... maybe two, three years, I've been Jake to mostly everyone I meet online. It was just recently that I discovered it was possible to actually become a guy for real, and shortly after that, I told my sister about my desire to change my gender. She helped me do some research about it, and really took it from a neutral position. The next day I told my mom and she is 100% against it. Months later, I told my brother and he tried to be okay with it to my face, but I know it bothers him. He told my dad, because it bothers him, but I've only been brave enough to just hint at it to my dad whenever he's home((he's a long haul truck driver)). The past month or so I've been searching for support groups online and found none until I asked on Y! Answers and was thankfully pointed here. ^.^ 

Because even the thought of going through the change makes me nervous, I wanted to get to know others who are going and have gone through this. To learn what to expect, and so I don't go through this alone, or with people who aren't fully supportive of me.

So, uhm, that's me. Lol. And heres where I don't know what else to say. lol.
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: Osiris on March 11, 2009, 04:09:30 PM
Welcome, Jake. Please be sure to check out the rules and all that jazz.

This is a great site to gather knowledge and stories from our various members. There's a lot of experiences to learn from.

Also check out the wiki, for some basic information. ;)
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: JakeGrimm on March 11, 2009, 04:15:34 PM
Thank you much! I'll read the rules as soon as possible. ^.^
Awesome! That's just what I was hoping for. Thank you again. <3
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: Alyx. on March 11, 2009, 04:22:17 PM
Hi Jake! :D

Hey, I knew a Savannah once. Did you ever live in Minnesota? ...Nah, what are the chances?
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: JakeGrimm on March 11, 2009, 04:40:23 PM
Hey Heartwood!  8)

Lol, nope. I've lived in, Cali, Missouri, Wisconsin, and then back to Cali. So, unfortunately, I doubt it was me. That would be awesome though, wouldn't it?
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: icontact on March 11, 2009, 05:51:13 PM
Woooot, Californian pride!
;D
Heyhey. -fistbumps-
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: Jeatyn on March 11, 2009, 05:53:56 PM
Hey dude ;D konichiwa, welcome, and all that jazz
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: JakeGrimm on March 11, 2009, 05:56:38 PM
to Asher: *fistbumps* Yay! Lol. North or South?

to Jeatyn: Konishiwaaa. Lol, thank you. ^.^
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: Dennis on March 11, 2009, 05:59:13 PM
Welcome to the site. A few of us have been through it and out the other side, and others are in progress. Ask anything you want, and browse through previous posts, you'll get a lot of info here.

Dennis
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: Jay on March 11, 2009, 06:01:47 PM
Welcome Jake to Susans Place.

Make sure you check out the previous posts as Dennis said in our FTM board.. https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,27.0.html (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,27.0.html)

Jay
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: JakeGrimm on March 11, 2009, 06:03:46 PM
Quote from: Dennis on March 11, 2009, 05:59:13 PM
Welcome to the site. A few of us have been through it and out the other side, and others are in progress. Ask anything you want, and browse through previous posts, you'll get a lot of info here.

Dennis

Thank you, Dennis. ^.^

Quote from: Jay on March 11, 2009, 06:01:47 PM
Welcome Jake to Susans Place.

Make sure you check out the previous posts as Dennis said in our FTM board.. https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,27.0.html (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,27.0.html)

Jay

Thank you, Jay. ^.^
I'll check them out soon. ^.^ Where do I find the rules? Lol.
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: myles on March 11, 2009, 06:05:33 PM
Jake welcome!
I am sure you will find some support here. This is the place I also found from Yahoo and have "met" a great group of supportive people here.
Myles
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: Lachlann on March 11, 2009, 06:09:15 PM
Welcome, Jake.

Enjoy your stay.
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: JakeGrimm on March 11, 2009, 06:28:04 PM
Quote from: myles on March 11, 2009, 06:05:33 PM
Jake welcome!
I am sure you will find some support here. This is the place I also found from Yahoo and have "met" a great group of supportive people here.
Myles

Thank you! I love your name! Myles was one of my choices for a name. Lol.
"met"?


Quote from: Monty on March 11, 2009, 06:09:15 PM
Welcome, Jake.

Enjoy your stay.

Thank you ^.^
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: Jay on March 11, 2009, 07:13:55 PM
Jake as requested here are the rule Site Terms of Service and rules to live by

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html]https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html]https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)



Jay
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: shanetastic on March 11, 2009, 07:22:02 PM
Quote from: Jay on March 11, 2009, 07:13:55 PM
Jake as requested here are the rule Site Terms of Service and rules to live by


That sounds scary and intense!  Shouldn't it be rules to abide or something a little easier :]

By the way welcome Jake.  More Cali pride yeahhh!!
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: Jay on March 11, 2009, 07:47:14 PM
Quote from: shanetastic on March 11, 2009, 07:22:02 PM
That sounds scary and intense!  Shouldn't it be rules to abide or something a little easier :]

Susans words not mine :) I am sure its not meant that way bud.

Jay
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: JakeGrimm on March 11, 2009, 07:55:21 PM
Thank you again, Jay. ^.^ I'll look over those now. Lol.




Quote from: shanetastic on March 11, 2009, 07:22:02 PM
By the way welcome Jake.  More Cali pride yeahhh!!

Thank you ^.^
Whoot for Cali! I guess XP
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: Osiris on March 11, 2009, 07:55:50 PM
Nah it doesn't sound that intense. Now if it said "TOS and *cue dramatic music* DUN DUN DUN!!! *action movie announcer voice* RULES TO LIVE BY!" that'd be more intense. :P
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: Jay on March 11, 2009, 07:58:48 PM
Quote from: Osiris on March 11, 2009, 07:55:50 PM
Nah it doesn't sound that intense. Now if it said "TOS and *cue dramatic music* DUN DUN DUN!!! *action movie announcer voice* RULES TO LIVE BY!" that'd be more intense. :P

Hell yeah would it! ;D I think some people would start to listen then.. :P

Jay
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: Osiris on March 11, 2009, 08:17:40 PM
Yeah we could make a whole trailer for the rules.

In them you'll find INFORMATION! *explosion sound effect* DO'S AND DON'TS *woman screaming* And hang on for the ride of your life as you read about NOT POSTING OBSCENE CONTENT *lots of effects as title screen comes up*

THE RULES TO LIVE BY
(coming soon to a computer near you)
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: JakeGrimm on March 11, 2009, 08:21:16 PM
LOL! That would be hilarious.
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: Lachlann on March 11, 2009, 11:06:55 PM
Quote from: Osiris on March 11, 2009, 08:17:40 PM
Yeah we could make a whole trailer for the rules.

In them you'll find INFORMATION! *explosion sound effect* DO'S AND DON'TS *woman screaming* And hang on for the ride of your life as you read about NOT POSTING OBSCENE CONTENT *lots of effects as title screen comes up*

THE RULES TO LIVE BY
(coming soon to a computer near you)

*wide grin* I love it.
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: Janet_Girl on March 11, 2009, 11:52:59 PM
Hi Jake,   :icon_wave:

Welcome to our little family. Over 1900 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion. Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers.  Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now.  And it is always nice to have another brother.   :icon_hug:

Janet

Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: Christo on March 12, 2009, 01:48:16 AM
Welcome bro  :D :D 8) 8)
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: Jay on March 12, 2009, 08:02:58 AM
Quote from: Osiris on March 11, 2009, 08:17:40 PM
Yeah we could make a whole trailer for the rules.

In them you'll find INFORMATION! *explosion sound effect* DO'S AND DON'TS *woman screaming* And hang on for the ride of your life as you read about NOT POSTING OBSCENE CONTENT *lots of effects as title screen comes up*

THE RULES TO LIVE BY
(coming soon to a computer near you)

I think you should put this idea to Susan! ;D
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: JakeGrimm on March 12, 2009, 12:02:41 PM
Quote from: Janet Lynn on March 11, 2009, 11:52:59 PM
Hi Jake,   :icon_wave:

Welcome to our little family. Over 1900 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion. Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers.  Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now.  And it is always nice to have another brother.   :icon_hug:

Janet

*hugs* Thank you! Lol, It'd be a fun reunion ^.^
Whoot for family! That's good to hear, lol. Thank you, Janet <3




Quote from: Chris on March 12, 2009, 01:48:16 AM
Welcome bro  :D :D 8) 8)

Thank you!
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: Ashton28 on March 14, 2009, 10:58:34 PM
Well, you're way ahead of me in telling family Jake. Good job on that. I could probably tell my dad, as I never see him anyway. It'd likely be a lot easier lol. But I'm in the same boat. Support is a plus, and these guys help a lot ^_^
Title: Re: I'm Newww. lol.
Post by: JakeGrimm on March 14, 2009, 11:16:23 PM
lol, I thought my sister and mom would support me. So that's why I told them first. XP
That and I figured the sooner the better. That way I wasn't too nervous when I told them. Since that would have made them more nervous. Lol.

Good luck telling your family. ^.^