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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: emoboi on March 17, 2009, 12:27:38 AM

Title: oh my gosh
Post by: emoboi on March 17, 2009, 12:27:38 AM
so i like two guys my ex bf and this lovely boy named shawn
my ex said he made a mistake and wants to get back with me and i do still like him but i like shawn to lol
i guess u cant really make the decision for me but i just dont know what to do
Title: Re: oh my gosh
Post by: krptcmschfmkr128 on March 17, 2009, 01:05:01 AM
No offense, hun, but I think you need to work on YOU before getting back into any sort of relationship. Otherwise, any relationship you get in likely isn't gonna work and be healthy. And that's for anyone. Male, female, straight, gay, pan, bi...


Just curious, how old are you (if you care to say).
Title: Re: oh my gosh
Post by: emoboi on March 17, 2009, 02:32:33 PM
im not allowed to say  :-X
Title: Re: oh my gosh
Post by: krptcmschfmkr128 on March 17, 2009, 07:11:53 PM
then that leads me to believe you're fairly young, and therefore need to work on your own esteem even more than focus on guys.
Title: Re: oh my gosh
Post by: reno on March 22, 2009, 08:16:15 AM
when in a situation like this, i always remind myself of the very small fact that .. something happened to make the relationship fail, and people cannot change themselves intentionally. ex's are ex's for a reason.
Title: Re: oh my gosh
Post by: Jay on March 22, 2009, 10:04:40 AM
Quote from: reno on March 22, 2009, 08:16:15 AM
when in a situation like this, i always remind myself of the very small fact that .. something happened to make the relationship fail, and people cannot change themselves intentionally. ex's are ex's for a reason.

Extremely true.

I also think you need to work on your self esteem too emoboi.

Jay
Title: Re: oh my gosh
Post by: tekla on March 22, 2009, 02:09:00 PM
ex's are ex's for a reason

True that.  For every person, no matter how wonderful, sexy, or anything else, there is another person who is tired of their crap.
Title: Re: oh my gosh
Post by: Jay on March 22, 2009, 05:53:31 PM
Quote from: tekla on March 22, 2009, 02:09:00 PM
True that.  For every person, no matter how wonderful, sexy, or anything else, there is another person who is tired of their crap.

That is so true. Wise words Tekla. :)

Jay