what was the worst male treatment you've ever gotten before transitioning? i hate getting called certain names and such.
well im beginning transition soon so I guess i can answer unles sin a few months i get a worse one,
Ide have to say just general society treatment, always being treated for what you are not, always having to see "do this because your a guy, the girls don't have to" and other such things, then die a little inside as your forced time after time to be reminded of what you are not and how miserable it makes you feel.
"..treatment" ?? I'm not sure I've got the correct sense of your question, but......
Being cajoled into male sports that I hadn't the least interest in participating in, let alone competing to win.
Being pressed into fights that I did not want to have.
Being made to be a husband, lover, provider and Father. I would have rather been a wife, lover, home care provider and Mother.
Don't get me wrong I love my children, I just wish I was their Mother.
Janet
I would have rather been a girl. But was forced to live as a boy and had to put up with everything that goes with that. I am glad to finally be starting to shed that skin
Everything.
I totally hate being male. Always have, always will.
The only good part is being totally sterile so the stuff down there doesn't work.
The only good part was meeting my wife Rebecca, and she has always accepted me as Cindy.
HATE being left out of girl talk at work. HATE being included in the boy talk.
Cindy James
Being consider a man, and feeling an alien being so.
Being called "he", "him" & by that "male" name that shall not be mentioned.
For me the worst was being assumed to be "a fairy", Gay - I simply couldn't pass as a guy so I got all the ignorant remarks of the time (1950's & 60's). If my birth certificate had said "F" and I had been raised as a girl, no one would have noticed anything odd. As it was, I was nothing but "odd"! ::)
I hate the word fairy, even though I was never called that or any gay remarks in my whole life.
All I could think of are grown masculine men in drag, prancing around and picking flowers, and flipping hands and screaming "Oh darling you are beautiful hehehehe". Skinny, and acting all ultra feminine like they are waving pixy dust.
Quote from: Paulina on April 18, 2009, 04:04:36 AM
Being consider a man, and feeling an alien being so.
100% agreed, such a horrible feeling bleh. We think alot alike ha :)