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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: Hazard "AJ" on April 17, 2009, 09:54:28 AM

Title: lil nerves
Post by: Hazard "AJ" on April 17, 2009, 09:54:28 AM
I see a psychiatrist on tusday. im a lil nerves and dont now what to expect, what to say.. anyone got any advice
Title: Re: lil nerves
Post by: Jay on April 17, 2009, 01:14:35 PM
Just say what you feel mate thats all. The only bit of advice I can offer you is be yourself open and honest and everything should go well :)

Don't forget to let us know how it goes.

Jay
Title: Re: lil nerves
Post by: jet3 on April 17, 2009, 02:06:57 PM
hey good luck man! hope it goes well
Title: Re: lil nerves
Post by: kody2011 on April 18, 2009, 09:51:38 PM
just say what you feel....and what you feel needs to be said. good luck. tell us all about it.
Title: Re: lil nerves
Post by: Cindy on April 19, 2009, 03:31:46 AM
Be totally honest. The Psych is there to help you. Lies and Bull->-bleeped-<- are easily identified. Just be your true self.

And good luck
I think you need a kiss  :-*, I like kissing my Bros on this site

Cindy James
Title: Re: lil nerves
Post by: Miniar on April 19, 2009, 09:48:50 AM
Take a deep breath, relax, and remember that he can't take what you say any further. It's almost as safe as talking to yourself.
And just be honest.
Title: Re: lil nerves
Post by: Hazard "AJ" on April 21, 2009, 08:39:21 AM
It went ok but im not sure if it went well or not there was so much more i wanted to say he asked the Qs my life besicley and my mentle health asking if i take meds ect ect witch was all no then he said maybe i should take anti depresent for some reson i dont want to go onto them i fill  like that will only hide my prob from myself and i need to face it i dunno he will be sending what he fill s about me to charing cross and in about 2mths i will hear back from then for some reson i fill like nothing is goin

Post Merge: April 21, 2009, 08:41:24 AM

-to happen and i be stuck like this for good. Every time i think of that i fill  like whats the point i dunno did anyone else fill  like this
Title: Re: lil nerves
Post by: Jay on April 21, 2009, 08:43:08 AM
Okay.. I don't really understand what you said. Is he referring you to Charing Cross or do you have to see him for a further 2 months.. then get there..!??!

Glad it went okay :)

I think they have to take the rough off you first. Find out every thing about you before getting down to the real business eh?

Jay
Title: Re: lil nerves
Post by: Hazard "AJ" on April 21, 2009, 09:02:50 AM
No he said he will talk with charing cross or send what i have talked about to him and i will get a letter saying if i will  be going to charing cross and take it frm there for some reson i fill  like  they will tern me down it fill s like your life is in there hands its scary
Title: Re: lil nerves
Post by: Jay on April 21, 2009, 10:13:00 AM
Yeah I know what you are talking about. Its there desision to make. The meeting was it with a gender consillor?  I am sure they wont buddy.  Chin up :)

Jay
Title: Re: lil nerves
Post by: Hazard "AJ" on April 21, 2009, 10:20:59 AM
Im sure he was cuz he was talking of some othere people he works with i think he has conections with charing cross

Post Merge: April 21, 2009, 10:26:22 AM

He also gave me a slip with my name and says PCT - Charing chase then it has funding - 1 2 1/2 wich im sure he said was the mths it should take for a reply

Post Merge: April 21, 2009, 11:27:47 AM

Title: Re: lil nerves
Post by: Jay on April 21, 2009, 04:11:54 PM
Good well if he told you about getting a reply then all sounds good. He has obviously referred you. )

You could always wait a week and then call Charing Cross and see if you have be put on a list?

Jay