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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Blaire on May 20, 2009, 07:57:55 AM

Title: a new experience..........for me anyway
Post by: Blaire on May 20, 2009, 07:57:55 AM
something happened to me this week that has never happened before, so i wanted to share it with all of you.
but first let me tell you that growing up i was attracted to girls, only girls, but they never found me attractive. not because of the way i looked but more that way i was. i was told many times that i was too Feminine, however every girl i approached wanted to be my friend.
so now i'm on hormones and my attraction has changed, no longer are girls appealing to me but the guys oh my gawd.

ok so here's what happened. monday night i went to the clinic to give blood for my hormone panel and afterwards i walked over to the resource center to visit a friend who works there. so here i am walking back to the bus stop when these two guys walk past. one was very cute and the other way too tall(lol). the cute one says hi so i said hi back. he then stopped and called out Gail! i stopped turned around and said excuse me? he then saked me if my name was Gail and i said no. so we talked for a short time and exchanged names at which time he saked for my phone number.before i realized what i was doing i had given him my cell number.

well he called me the next day and we talked for almost an hour! he told me he wasn't looking for a "relationship" or quick sex or anything like that. he said he had seen me around the gayborhood and wanted to get to know me. seems he likes transwomen and wants to go real slow and see if we like each other. he's gonna call this evening.

never in my life has someone showed me they were interested in me! so what do you think, does this sound promising?
Title: Re: a new experience..........for me anyway
Post by: Jaimey on May 20, 2009, 11:46:00 PM
Aw...congrats! 

All I can say is use your best judgment.  :)  The easiest thing to do is meet in public places, if you're planning on hanging out, at least until you know him better. 

But that's really awesome!
Title: Re: a new experience..........for me anyway
Post by: Blaire on May 21, 2009, 06:26:42 AM
thanks Jaimey :)