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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: Jamie-o on May 23, 2009, 02:38:19 PM

Title: Reasons to Date an FtM
Post by: Jamie-o on May 23, 2009, 02:38:19 PM
It's been pretty dead around here recently, so I thought I'd just start up this thread for fun.  What are some advantages to dating an FtM?  For example:

For women:  Dating a guy who has lived, and therefore completely "gets" the female experience.

Or on a more prurient note:

When you ask, "How big is it?" most FtMs can honestly answer, "How big do you want it to be?"  >:-)
Title: Re: Reasons to Date an FtM
Post by: Miniar on May 23, 2009, 03:36:01 PM
The only "reason" to date any person I can think of...

You honestly like them.
Title: Re: Reasons to Date an FtM
Post by: Mister on May 23, 2009, 05:24:00 PM
Quote from: Miniar on May 23, 2009, 03:36:01 PM
The only "reason" to date any person I can think of...

You honestly like them.

thank you.

though i will add the perk that my lady just chimed in- no birth control.
Title: Re: Reasons to Date an FtM
Post by: Miniar on May 23, 2009, 05:27:52 PM
A friend of mine told me that I'll be quite the catch after I change sex, because I see women as human beings first. But I doubt that has to do with me having been born with the female gear.
Title: Re: Reasons to Date an FtM
Post by: Jamie-o on May 23, 2009, 06:12:41 PM
Quote from: Miniar on May 23, 2009, 03:36:01 PM
The only "reason" to date any person I can think of...

You honestly like them.

Yes, of course that's true.  But that's not the point of this thread.  It's not meant to be serious, just a light-hearted, we-spend-enough-time-bemoaning-our-fate-so-let's-think-about-the-advantages-of-being-a-social-leper kind of thing.
Title: Re: Reasons to Date an FtM
Post by: Mister on May 23, 2009, 06:15:02 PM
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When you ask, "How big is it?" most FtMs can honestly answer, "How big do you want it to be?"  >:-)

Yeah, only dudes who don't want to use their equipment to screw around.  For the rest of us, it's as big as we can grow/modify it to be.

Post Merge: May 23, 2009, 06:16:57 PM

Quote from: Jamie-o on May 23, 2009, 06:12:41 PM
Yes, of course that's true.  But that's not the point of this thread.  It's not meant to be serious, just a light-hearted, we-spend-enough-time-bemoaning-our-fate-so-let's-think-about-the-advantages-of-being-a-social-leper kind of thing.

Ok...   so...   the only difference between myself and a cisguy is that I don't cum everywhere.  So, lack of sperm, which could be + or -.  That's the only difference.
Title: Re: Reasons to Date an FtM
Post by: Christian on May 23, 2009, 06:26:32 PM
What about for gay FTMs?

Why would a gay person rather date an FTM than a bio male? (Besides being in love with their personality or whatever)
Title: Re: Reasons to Date an FtM
Post by: TamTam on May 23, 2009, 06:31:16 PM
This was recently discussed here:

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,57908.0.html (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,57908.0.html)

:)
Title: Re: Reasons to Date an FtM
Post by: Jamie-o on May 23, 2009, 06:39:00 PM
Oh, cool.  I missed that one.