What Happens When Your Partner Admits They're Transgendered
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One thing that may shock you is to find out your boyfriend or girlfriend is transgendered. You may certainly feel betrayed or hurt when you find out, along with confused and 'surreal'. How can this be happening to you?! Chances are - even if you think they may have lied to you - they may not even have admitted the fact they were transgendered to themselves until they were ready to accept it themselves.
Just like the stigma that surrounds being gay, there is a stigma that surrounds being transgendered. In some instances, it can be worse. If you are gay (or lesbian) and you go to the emergency room you do not have to mention that you are gay unless you want to. There is very little chance you won't receive treatment - especially if they do not know you are gay.