Tell me what u think espechrley about my chest
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You look pretty tough. Certainly have attitude. Flat as a board too lol. I'd say you nailed it.
I'd say YES :) I hope this is a complement but any female qualities in your face end up just making you look like a young male. If i passed you on the street there would be no question!!
Adrianna says you look kind of like Eminem :D
It'd be easier to tell whether you pass or not if the pics didn't have such high contrast (especially in the chest area). With a black shirt that's completely washed out it's hard to see if there are any weird lumps or curves in the fabric.
Your body positioning is kinda odd in the first pic. Generally you won't see guys posing with their head to the side and back. Neck tilted backward is pretty common but to the side not so much.
I think you should try positioning your head straight towards the camera, kinda like the first shot of you in the chair. I think that shot and the last pic are the most masculine of the bunch as far as look/body language.
The ones with the white shirt on look the best, but you are definitely a dude!
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Well, my stock answer is, "If you have to ask, you don't," regardless of how you look. Worrying is its own version of failure.
But what I see a boy. With an attitude. Who probably works out and can bench press a lot more than I can. Probably not the nerdy type that you might have found in my small, awkward circle of friends in high school.
Yes you pass, pretty much. The baggy clothing looks good and bulks the body at the expense of highlighting the smaller head size in proportion to the body - that and the female forehead/cranial circumference. That's not too bad though, as was said earlier you look like a young, late teen/very early 20's guy.
Beware with the jeans & sweats though because in the 3rd (all black) pic I can see a distinctly pear-shaped female hip & arse profile lurking beneath the denim. The loose white shirt was hiding that nicely. Are you on T and have you been on it long enough for the fat distribution to start changing to a male pattern?
Yo dude, you are total rockin in the hood. Can an older woman say that? ??? And love the "Life" tat.
Definitely a totally cool lookin dude.
Janet
definitely good on the chest.
even in the beater, but I'd recommend sticking with t-shirts/non-clingy materials because they tend to emphasize the feminine curves in the hip-abdomen area (happens with me too.... drives me nuts.)
One more thing that would help you pass even better (which I hope doesn't turn out to be offensive, as I don't intend it offensively at all) try to bulk up your arms a bit more. I mean, you in no way look weak as a young boy, but what can help to bridge the barrier between looking like a pre-pubescent boy [12-14 yr old] and a pubescent boy [15-17 yr old] is having more visibly well defined muscles.
Really though, I don't want to give the impression that you don't pass because if I passed you on the street I'd most likely just think "dude" but I know if I posted one of these threads I'd want real constructive criticism to work with so I try to focus on that.
Thanks for ur replys. About the hip thing i do have them but since i have been working and walking i have lost a lil waight there i am not on T but people say the way i stand and walk i am deff male even the way i say thing but my voice is a big give away so i tend noy yo talk when im out epecerley in frount of ladys. And i totlly aggry with the young man thing i am 21 and people have said i look somewhat inbertween 14 to 18 depends on the person. But that cuz they look at me and see male (witch is great)
Post Merge: July 11, 2009, 02:51:28 AM
^^^But most 21 year old males have deep voice stubble or gotey ect ect and im sure if i was on T my body musle will stand out more. I lift waights almost every day and i have been walking or riding most plases so i am losing wait i asked about the pics cuz i thin i look better in person the in photo
Post Merge: July 11, 2009, 03:53:11 AM
Quote from: ~Erica~ on July 10, 2009, 09:00:10 PM
I'd say YES :) I hope this is a complement but any female qualities in your face end up just making you look like a young male. If i passed you on the street there would be no question!!
Adrianna says you look kind of like Eminem :D
everyone says that
i don't think you pass. your face is extremely feminine and your hips are very visible, especially in photo three.
Quote from: Alyssa M. on July 11, 2009, 12:02:30 AM
Well, my stock answer is, "If you have to ask, you don't," regardless of how you look. Worrying is its own version of failure.
But what I see a boy. With an attitude. Who probably works out and can bench press a lot more than I can. Probably not the nerdy type that you might have found in my small, awkward circle of friends in high school.
lol thats funny cuz i have no friends and was alway the nerd at school.
Hi Hazard,
I would definitley hold my handbag tighter and move away from you. So yes you look like a tough dude. That's fine but tough dudes usually end up meeting other tough dudes, and that may be a poor mix unless you are on T and built up muscle mass.
In no way Bro do I mean that comment disrespectfully. Just life.
Love
Cindy
I'm going to have to agree with Mister, your face is too feminine right now and in picture number three your hips do stand out. You're also showing off quite a bit of your arms and they look quite feminine compared to a guy who would be around the same size. Thankfully, T should remedy most of your problems(hips, we don't know until it happens, yes? Even so, I know a bio-guy with an hourglass figure.) but that's probably not what you want to hear.
tough dudes usually end up meeting other tough dudes
True that. And getting out of that situation is far more than T and muscle mass, fighting is a highly practiced skill.
Quote from: tekla on July 11, 2009, 09:22:52 AM
tough dudes usually end up meeting other tough dudes
True that. And getting out of that situation is far more than T and muscle mass, fighting is a highly practiced skill.
Muscle mass is overrated. Strength is speed... but that still requires fighting skills.
30 years in the music biz, most of that in bars and nightclubs, I would tend to agree. Most fights last about a second, who ever has the jump off tends to win.
Yup and I've never once - ever - witnessed a fair fight. The Marquess of Queensbury is always away snorting a line in the restroom when the brawling starts.
In the third pic your hips stand out to much to pass, you looked better in the baggy jacket as it hid your curves.
Marquess of Queensbury
Ones for sport, and one's for blood. As Butch Cassidy said, there are no rules for a knife fight.
Quote from: tekla on July 11, 2009, 10:45:12 AM
Marquess of Queensbury
Ones for sport, and one's for blood. As Butch Cassidy said, there are no rules for a knife fight.
There's a vivid autobiographical description of an encounter between a US marine and an insurgent during house clearing - that was no holds barred, sink your teeth in, claw your eyes out, do whatever it takes not to be the dead guy, fighting. I think it was "House to House" by David Bellavia or a similar tome by one of his mates.
There's no glory there. Just adrenaline, terror and pain. Harrowing reading.
hips and arms. other than that, you look good.
Quote from: CindyJames on July 11, 2009, 04:15:12 AM
Hi Hazard,
I would definitley hold my handbag tighter and move away from you. So yes you look like a tough dude. That's fine but tough dudes usually end up meeting other tough dudes, and that may be a poor mix unless you are on T and built up muscle mass.
In no way Bro do I mean that comment disrespectfully. Just life.
Love
Cindy
i ant worryed about metting guys, women r worse fighters lol i rather a punch then a gurl to sratch my eyelids off. well i dont really look tough for real only really when im pissed of, But i dont smile in pics i hate smiling in pics not just cuz me teeth r bad, i tend to now a lot of women who like the tough look, pluss im into hip hop and thats just the style. most of the time i dont now i do it i think it just my face LOL
Post Merge: July 11, 2009, 02:38:31 PM
maybe i try somthing to push in my love handles LOL
Quote from: finewine on July 11, 2009, 10:40:52 AM
Yup and I've never once - ever - witnessed a fair fight. The Marquess of Queensbury is always away snorting a line in the restroom when the brawling starts.
Unless it's some sort of regulated sport and whatnot with rules, that's the way it should be in the real world. 'Honour' or fairness in a real fight is kind of ridiculous to ask for, especially when you consider the motives for attacking or defending.
That said, I've seen some pretty tough women fight.
Of course in the States you run the risk that the other person - male or female - is just going to pull out some heat and put a few caps in your ass.
Quote from: tekla on July 11, 2009, 03:03:20 PM
Of course in the States you run the risk that the other person - male or female - is just going to pull out some heat and put a few caps in your ass.
Exactly. I wouldn't expect someone to fight fairly, I'd expect them to pull a knife or a gun on me or fight dirty in general.
I don't think there is 'dirty' or 'clean' in a street fight, there is only win and lose.
There's also, "not play the game," which is the only real way to win, and sometimes takes the most skill of all.
Of course, that requires a different attitude, and different clothing choices too.
See over there red don't go
Some places red's all they know
Well yes, you do obviously have hips. Will it keep you from passing? It depends. If your voice is low enough, and your face is at least slightly more masculine than feminine, which I think yours is, you're good. When I first got on T, I still had quite a bit of fat on my hips, making them seem wider than they actually are. However, the second my voice dropped into male range, I never again had a problem passing. If your voice is high, well, you may be taken for a very butch lesbian. T will make all the difference.
SD
Yeah, definitely. Chest looks good. You look just like some guy I know, except for the hips. Stick to layers (shirt+jacket, shirt+loose button up shirt) it helps. I think you're very masculine.
Yes you pretty much pass in all your pictures except the first.