A guide for teens on coming out to parents
http://www.examiner.com/x-13512-Milwaukee-Gay-Community-Examiner~y2009m7d17-A-guide-for-teens-on-coming-out-to-parents (http://www.examiner.com/x-13512-Milwaukee-Gay-Community-Examiner~y2009m7d17-A-guide-for-teens-on-coming-out-to-parents)
Cylest Brooks
7/17/09
*A note about language: Even within the queer community, there is debate as to how best define ourselves on paper. Currently, the most popular terminology is LGBT, (lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender)... but even this term is limiting. What about pansexual? Allies? Intersex peoples? For this reason, I have chosen to use the word "queer", which encompasses all those whose sexual orientation and/or gender identity sit outside of the societal norm. I understand that there are some people who have been discriminated against using this very term and find it somewhat offensive. Let me be clear in saying that I use the word only with love and understanding, and I do so in an attempt to be inclusive, as well as succinct.*
Coming out of the closet as a queer person can be emotionally exhausting. The fear, concern, and worry that a queer person feels while beginning on the "coming out" journey is overwhelming. But hardest of all, perhaps, is the decision to come out to parents. For that reason, I have written a little guide to help answer some of the questions you may have as you venture out of the closet.