1st of all sorry about my inabilaty to find topic proper names
2nd of all sorry about my misspelling
now
for my issue
I'm still a teen living with my parents and i have accepted to be a crossdresser. i can only crossdress when i'm home alone but my favorite clothes are hardly available...
but that's not why i'm asking you for help
so in order to feel better about myself i started think of somethink i could bring to my room that was subtle but made me feel good about myself.
so in the first days i went to the living room, "stole" a top from my mom and hid it below all the clothes in my bedroom, which by the way is a complete caos ^^. And for the first days that worked before i went to bed i would always dress that top and undress imediatly afterwards. It wasn't perfect but it kept the job done.
But then...
My dad cleaned my room and i was forced to subtly remove the top. Now my room is so tidy i can't hide any piece of clothing (<--- this is weird, i know)
So i "stole" a ring from my mom.
but that's not nearly enough
i want more!
Any Ideas???
thanks for all the help u try to give me ^^
Hi Daniela,
Slow down honey. Take a few deep breaths. You are among friends here. If you are MtF or a CD or just someone who wants to experiment; take your time. You don't put much information in that can help us help you. How old are you? What genetic gender are you? Are you interested in CD or are you worried about your gender identity, it may be the same but guess what! It may be a completley different. MANY young men a get a big thrill of wearing some female apparel. It often leads to sexual stimulation. It also happens happily in married life. There is nothing odd about this. This is part of "straight life" life. If you have an otherwhelming desire to identify as your your none genetic sex; well that's another set of cook books. Many of us on this site have long term issues and need to change our external physical sex to our mental sex. Many others do not. And there is a spectrum between.
Calmn down. Don't be frightened. Ask some questions.
Love.
You're family now honey :-*
Cindy, a new big sister
I agree with Cindy. Take you time and figure out what you truly desire or need. Is it arrousal or a need to be feminine? If you feel truly feminine then maybe you should come out to your parents and simplify everything.
Welcome!
I think that "borrowing" stuff from your mom is going to get you caught red handed sooner or later, and is a dangerous long term strategy. Parents are smarter than we think, and she'll eventually notice that things are missing and wonder why.
Also, hiding things in your room may be dangerous as well, especially with your dad poking around.
I don't know what the answer is for you. As Cindy said, slow down a little and maybe we can help you.
Hi Daniela, :icon_wave:
Welcome to our little family. Over 3100 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
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But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another sister. :icon_hug:
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Blessed Be.
Janet
Daniela, I second the thoughts of these ladies. Discussing this with your parents is a good idea, though scary until it's over. Just know you always have friends here that are willing to listen and help. Do some research. The Wiki site here is really good. Take care and slow down.