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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Myself on September 04, 2009, 03:02:39 PM

Title: I wore proper cloths out pretty much the first time ever!!!
Post by: Myself on September 04, 2009, 03:02:39 PM
That was new!
It was fun too :)

A guy sort of flirted with me! :O

I tried few cloths before but always hated my look in them, this is the first time I felt I look good ^^

Feeling a bit anxious about posting pictures.. *rolls eyes*
Was fun being out completely though!
Title: Re: I wore proper cloths out pretty much the first time ever!!!
Post by: Myself on September 04, 2009, 04:03:58 PM
I actually don't have pictures from the day I was going out (when I actually wore proper pants and purple top instead of the one in the pictures)
This is from when I tried them and showed them to my boyfriend I think :)

bra is peeking!

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1003.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Faf154%2FSNishry%2Fboo01.jpg&hash=1ba8957167f6137cf2fc34c615eca463d7c82a85)

Still losing weight! most of my weight is in my mid section still, 61-62kg (lost about 4-6 more this month)
Title: Re: I wore proper cloths out pretty much the first time ever!!!
Post by: Hannah on September 04, 2009, 04:08:22 PM
So pwetty. That's a good color and look for you.
Title: Re: I wore proper cloths out pretty much the first time ever!!!
Post by: Wendy1974 on September 04, 2009, 04:20:31 PM
Yup it's official; I hate you!

You look fantastic it's no wonder that a guy flirted with you.
Title: Re: I wore proper cloths out pretty much the first time ever!!!
Post by: Myself on September 04, 2009, 04:45:13 PM
Don't hate me ^^ I hate those who have it all.. well don't hate anyone..

I am going to try and start being full time soon I hope.. depends if I can change the ID (will ask my doctor soon)..

I also want to try and get a job again.. and join a D&D group.. I hid from social life for way too long! I am losing my sanity (if not already lost)

I need cloths! I have only one pair of pants and it's too small as I lost about 5-6kg since I bought it O_o

Btw.. the guy who flirted with me was an ftm.. hihi ^^ I am not sure what it means..
Title: Re: I wore proper cloths out pretty much the first time ever!!!
Post by: Hannah on September 04, 2009, 07:37:05 PM
Quote from: Laura91 on September 04, 2009, 04:40:46 PM
But why not have a girlfriend instead of a boyfriend?


Boys are muy yummy. They stay out of your nail polish, don't steal your clothes, are generally taller than you are (a huge plus in my book), even when they smell bad it's delightful on some unexplainable level. They can save you and protect you and nothing beats the feeling of a pair of nice strong arms wrapped around you saying hello or goodbye. *shiver*
Don't knock it until you try it!
Title: Re: I wore proper cloths out pretty much the first time ever!!!
Post by: shanetastic on September 04, 2009, 07:52:37 PM
Hey there Myself

Congrats on the step and especially with the boy :]

You're going to do great when ever you decide to go fulltime so don't worry!

And Becca,
Not very many men can beat my height!!! but I guess when generalizing I'm not part of that inclusion :D Haha. . . IM SPECIAL!! :p
Title: Re: I wore proper cloths out pretty much the first time ever!!!
Post by: Marie on September 04, 2009, 08:14:10 PM
Myself, you are looking great.  Do not be ashamed or worried about anything.  I know pictures can hide details and the like but it's clear to me your going to be fine.  Give it time and relax.  I hope your boyfriend is cuter than the gut I mean guy I went out with today.

Hugs girl,

By the way I love the pose.
Title: Re: I wore proper cloths out pretty much the first time ever!!!
Post by: Suzy on September 04, 2009, 08:23:44 PM
Myself, doesn't it feel great?  Way to go, girl!

You have a really cute figure.  Don't let anyone convince you otherwise.  You are on your way.  Enjoy this!

Kristi
Title: Re: I wore proper cloths out pretty much the first time ever!!!
Post by: Cadence Jean on September 06, 2009, 01:02:06 PM
You look lovely!  Keep that chin up and strut your stuff, girl!
Title: Re: I wore proper cloths out pretty much the first time ever!!!
Post by: Firelight on September 06, 2009, 01:31:07 PM
Geez... this was only your first time...? I've seen your avatar a few times and assumed that you'd been transitioning for quite awhile.

Take my advice: GO FEMME WHENEVER POSSIBLE.

It's perfect for you.
Title: Re: I wore proper cloths out pretty much the first time ever!!!
Post by: Danya on September 13, 2009, 04:04:23 AM
Myself, judging from the pics I think you can be full-time with no problem. Go for it! Don't waste another day!
Title: Re: I wore proper cloths out pretty much the first time ever!!!
Post by: heatherrose on September 13, 2009, 05:20:40 AM



Quote from: Myself on September 04, 2009, 04:03:58 PMStill losing weight! most of my weight is in my mid section still, 61-62kg/136lb. (lost about 4-6 more this month)


You need not worry about losing anymore weight.
Don't allow chasing your weight to develop into a
problem. You have enough to worry about if you
are going to transition. You are very pretty and
you have nothing to worry about weightwise.



Title: Re: I wore proper cloths out pretty much the first time ever!!!
Post by: Cadence Jean on September 13, 2009, 01:09:25 PM
Yeah - what Heather said.  Losing weight should be about maintaining a healthy weight, not an attractive one.  I've conducted a fair amount of research on eating disorders and the issue becomes when one ties their self-worth to their weight.  I keep telling my girlfriend that weight should be about being healthy, not attractive - once you reach that healthy weight, you will find that it is likely an attractive weight as well.  Bonus!
Title: Re: I wore proper cloths out pretty much the first time ever!!!
Post by: Steph2003 on September 13, 2009, 02:28:58 PM
Myself – you look beautiful!

Congrats on the flirting – it definitely won't be the last time!
;)
Title: Re: I wore proper cloths out pretty much the first time ever!!!
Post by: maidenprincess on September 13, 2009, 02:36:00 PM
Go for it, girl.  You're gonna be just fine.