My last relationship w/w a wonderful Thia lady. i dearly treasure our time together, but it would seem to me that because of her culture, that i had to expirience sex sat. b4 she would alow herself to. if u think about this just a little & let ur mind go wherever, it will arrive at it's own destination, upon which u gotta laugh at someone. i just wanna know, is it possible to have an intimate realationship w/o involving my wrong parts? i just want to be close/w someone & will gladly pleasure them as long as it doesn't have to involve the wrong parts of me. ty, Isabella
I'll go out with you, but be warned I'm still pretty hung up on my ex. I woke up this morning dreaming about biting his neck, lol.
It is very possible and even probable. I used to think that no one would want me because of my currant anatomical state but I have been shown other wise. I have recently met two people who are perfectly OK with how I am now and how I will be later.... which to choose, which to choose?
Is there a place on the relationship spectrum for someone like me?
I was wondering the same thing myself. If it wasn't for botching relationships I probably wouldn't be good at anything. I just botched a relationship with a guy over the last weekend. He was willing and able to help me with a complete transition. We had never had sex and he was very respectful of me.
All he wanted to do was hold me and kiss my neck. I could not let anything interrupt my morning routine. Plus I didn't want to leave my animals for so long to go to another state without prior notice and proper care for my animals.
Anyway, he left looking a bit sniffy and saying he was late. I don't know if he'll be back or not
Quote from: Virginia Marie on September 17, 2009, 01:20:42 AM
All he wanted to do was hold me and kiss my neck
Oh god honey, chase that one down!
Quote from: Virginia Marie on September 17, 2009, 01:20:42 AM
Is there a place on the relationship spectrum for someone like me?
I was wondering the same thing myself. If it wasn't for botching relationships I probably wouldn't be good at anything. I just botched a relationship with a guy over the last weekend. He was willing and able to help me with a complete transition. We had never had sex and he was very respectful of me.
All he wanted to do was hold me and kiss my neck. I could not let anything interrupt my morning routine. Plus I didn't want to leave my animals for so long to go to another state without prior notice and proper care for my animals.
Anyway, he left looking a bit sniffy and saying he was late. I don't know if he'll be back or not
Oh that's it, now i'm just jealous! I want to take of some ugly, cute, or whatever kind of animals! pretty hard to find one of them that makes judgments huh! & if they do, i'll trust theirs before anyone alse!
Bellaon7 i love your little quote i really cant comment to much on this thread unless you count 20 years of marriage to the wrong sex whew talk about botching a relationship i think you should call him back. Anyone that can understand this confusion and still wants to stick around and even help no less.... is worth bounding out the door in your slippers after.
jessie
Don't worry, I think I already screwed it up :-\
im sorry hun well theres always Dove dark chocolate for these times .....
jessie
Quote from: Virginia Marie on September 17, 2009, 01:20:42 AM
Is there a place on the relationship spectrum for someone like me?
I was wondering the same thing myself. If it wasn't for botching relationships I probably wouldn't be good at anything. I just botched a relationship with a guy over the last weekend. He was willing and able to help me with a complete transition. We had never had sex and he was very respectful of me.
All he wanted to do was hold me and kiss my neck. I could not let anything interrupt my morning routine. Plus I didn't want to leave my animals for so long to go to another state without prior notice and proper care for my animals.
Anyway, he left looking a bit sniffy and saying he was late. I don't know if he'll be back or not
A guy like that would be perfect match for me in my current situation, just that I don't seem to be able to find him...
Yeah, I probably screwed up big time
Quote from: Virginia Marie on September 17, 2009, 04:23:32 AM
Yeah, I probably screwed up big time
please don' beat urself up over this! ur obviously a very sweet & carring person & of course u can't just brush ur feelings aside like nothing ever happened, but please don't pine away about w/if forever. i probably would find a way to screw up anything good in this area, but i beleive there's much hope for others, so please don't give up on luv. (((huggs))), Isabella
Quote from: Mari on September 17, 2009, 03:51:29 AM
A guy like that would be perfect match for me in my current situation, just that I don't seem to be able to find him...
I found him, but find myself all of the sudden seeing him as a friend, and wanting a guy who is a little less sensitive and cautious, cuz the opposite is kind of un-sexy and boring -_- *snooore*