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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: its just me 919 on September 21, 2009, 11:48:53 AM

Title: has anybody wished....
Post by: its just me 919 on September 21, 2009, 11:48:53 AM
i am womdering if anyone has ever wished  they could trade bodies with someone of the opposite sex. on a temporary basis or long term just to try it out before going thru with any perminate changes....
Title: Re: has anybody wished....
Post by: Jeatyn on September 21, 2009, 12:01:14 PM
Like a loaner body while mine's being fixed up? ;D
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Post by: its just me 919 on September 21, 2009, 12:03:51 PM
yeah i guess you could explain it that way lol.... or even as a trial run before the repairs are started
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Post by: CodyJess on September 21, 2009, 12:04:44 PM
I'll bite on this one...

No. I don't feel like it would do me much good. Changing the body I live in is means to an end for me, not the end itself.

Besides, who knows where that other person's body has been, or what they've been doing with it? Eeew  :laugh:
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Post by: its just me 919 on September 21, 2009, 12:13:30 PM
lol never thought of it that way... but again i did say temporary
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Post by: Lachlann on September 21, 2009, 01:21:36 PM
I haven't, not even temporarily. I've lived my entire life in someone else's body and I don't want to live in another, even if they have the anatomy I want.
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Post by: LivingInGrey on September 21, 2009, 01:43:04 PM
Want to trade one late seventies boxy slighty used but still functional body. Some TLC needed but still has all OEM parts and has served me well as a work horse. Sometimes has a gas problem... still cant figure that one out.

looking for a slighty newer model, smaller and a little more sporty.
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Post by: Zelane on September 21, 2009, 01:48:45 PM
LOL, It wont work with me (for the other person) it will be mostly the same.
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Post by: Lachlann on September 21, 2009, 01:59:52 PM
Quote from: LivingInGrey on September 21, 2009, 01:43:04 PM
Want to trade one late seventies boxy slighty used but still functional body. Some TLC needed but still has all OEM parts and has served me well as a work horse. Sometimes has a gas problem... still cant figure that one out.

looking for a slighty newer model, smaller and a little more sporty.
Haha, sounds like an ad out of a sci-fi flik.
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Post by: Jay on September 21, 2009, 02:38:29 PM
I would have one at no second thought..

Jay
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Post by: GamerJames on September 21, 2009, 03:15:45 PM
I am who I am ("Ehyeh asher ehyeh") in my soul/mind... The rest of this meat, doesn't make who I am or who I'm not.

I would however feel a lot more comfortable in a male body, and would pass *significantly* better as well.

I don't feel that I'd lose any of my "self" by swapping out for a different shell, instead I feel that I'd be able to just *be* myself instead of "a guy in a girl's body". And it would be better than what hormones and surgeries will be able to eventually give me.

So if "body transplants" were possible, I'd be the first to sign up.

That being said, life ain't perfect and I highly doubt body transplants will ever be possible. So I'm perfectly comfortable making do with what God/nature/chaos gave me.

Do I wish I could have a perfectly male body? Yes. But I would rather have a nearly-there model after many years of pain/money/struggle/risk than to be stuck in a clearly and undeniably female body for the rest of my life...
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Post by: thestory on September 21, 2009, 03:28:23 PM
I think I would for temporary purposes for sure. But in the end I would want my body if only just because it is the skin I am used to living in.

I know we are talking about switching bodies, but anyone remember the movie Face-Off?
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Post by: Radar on September 21, 2009, 04:14:54 PM
Oh yes. I'd probably end up keeping it. ;D
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Post by: Calistine on September 21, 2009, 04:34:32 PM
Maybe to try it for a day. But I wouldnt want it permanetly. I just want to be me. I wouldnt want to be a 6'5 bodybuilder man because thats not who I am.
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Post by: GamerJames on September 21, 2009, 04:44:49 PM
Quote from: Kyle :3 on September 21, 2009, 04:34:32 PM
I wouldnt want to be a 6'5 bodybuilder man because thats not who I am.

I wouldn't want to be a 6'5" bodybuilder either, but I'd like to go "body shopping" for a model that *would* suit who I am... Topher Grace would actually be a good candidate. I think I could pull off a Topher Grace body...

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fspectacle.provocateuse.com%2Fimages%2Fspectacles%2Ftopher_grace_01.jpg&hash=422ab495c0daed0e6a0cb6bba8e6d09f30c4cb89)
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Post by: Nero on September 21, 2009, 08:55:22 PM
depends on what it looked like.  :laugh:
seriously though? no, although I might trade butts with someone.  :laugh:
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Post by: Silver on September 22, 2009, 01:09:35 AM
I have definitely in the past. Now. . . still would like to try it out for a bit. It would be better than figuring out, after spending years (and of course the boatload of money) trying to get a male body, figuring out it's just not for me.

Now I don't doubt (significantly) that this is the path I should take but you can never really be certain about things like this until they're finished, now can you?

SilverFang
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Post by: Al James on September 22, 2009, 01:31:56 AM
i've just come out after twenty years of wondering and trying to hide it and the chance to borrow another body would be great just so i know that im not making a mistake
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Post by: Asfsd4214 on September 22, 2009, 03:15:24 AM
I've often wondered, if god came to me and said "alright, I don't usually do this but I'm going to give you a choice, but you have to make it now, and there's no going back, I can change you into a female body, nothing else will change, nothing at all, you will have no way of proving who you used to be... OR I can <insert something positive here>", what would my answer be?

Without fail, in my mind, I have always figured I would pick the former.

So yeah, if we have the technology to swap bodies, I'd do it, temporary or permanent, in a heartbeat.
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Post by: colormyworld on September 22, 2009, 05:14:07 AM
I've had this discussion with my ex before, if only we had the technology to swap bodies, we'd be right in line in a heartbeat! haha But that deal no longer stands now that she's 'ruining' that perfect body with Estrogen!

(Yes, yes, yes, I realize the estrogen is helping to FIX the body, and I'm uber happy she's taking it as she's MUCH more fun to talk to now!) Just had to clarify that it's just that I don't want her body anymore :P
Title: Re: has anybody wished....
Post by: its just me 919 on September 22, 2009, 07:43:40 AM
exactly my thoughts on why i started this topic.... i wish there was a way even if it was just temporary for a month or two or three to experience it, in "real time" an immediate change and live that life for a few months, with the option of returning to myself, no matter what the looks of the other is, to me its more of a test run.  also have the option to stay in that life, but only if both sides agreed. that would i would think would help with the "what has/where has this body been" .... dam that thought lol that sort of ruined the idea for me... but atleast the temporary one would allow time to go to the doctors and find out more information on that lol...
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Post by: tekla on September 22, 2009, 07:49:28 AM
Once upon a time that was the reason for the RLT before any drugs or surgery was performed.
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Post by: Al James on September 22, 2009, 10:09:26 AM
so does that mean these doubts are normal? even tho i KNOW its what ive wanted all these years now ive talked about it to someone and actually gone to the doctor i'm wondering what if?
Title: Re: has anybody wished....
Post by: its just me 919 on September 22, 2009, 11:12:34 AM
doubts are always normal its the wonderful place were we live.... where those who dont understand think its wrong and thats the biggest problem, but i feel and maybe i am wrong, but to me opinions are always right thats what make us who we are,  but if we were just able to try it out first and learn more... maybe even swap back and forth when we decided to, without all the difficulties that are involved in changing who we are on the outside first.