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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: xsarahx on September 24, 2009, 09:54:44 AM

Title: srs question
Post by: xsarahx on September 24, 2009, 09:54:44 AM
Does srs hurt really bad? i never knew this but a girlfriend of mine said that it will hurt like hell for about 3 weeks after.
I can stand pain but i dont know how much.

Iv had hernia operation before and that was just sore but thats nothing like srs.
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: ceili on September 24, 2009, 11:08:19 AM
I'm 5 weeks post-op and yeah it hurts. Not terrible, but it's certainly not comfy either. I also have the added complication of already having had surgery down there to remove a baseball sized infection, so I may be experiencing more pain and a harder recovery than most.

Even so, I wouldn't let that stop me. Beats the hell out of torturing myself with gaffs and such, not to mention the many other benefits of being post-op, IMO. YMMV.
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: sarahb on September 24, 2009, 11:17:01 AM
The pain is temporary. The relief is life long.

~Sarah
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: ceili on September 24, 2009, 11:18:49 AM
Quote from: SarahR on September 24, 2009, 11:17:01 AM
The pain is temporary. The relief is life long.

~Sarah

Nice! I likie and very true.  :laugh:
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: Rebecca Liz on September 24, 2009, 12:05:06 PM
I'm 4.5 months postop now. Yes, it hurts, but I found it to be more of an extreme tenderness than an actual pain. It's difficult to find a comfortable position to sit, stand, lie down. But each day gets a little easier, and faster than you would think. Suddenly one day (for me about 8 weeks out) you realize there is no discomfort anymore. And yes, the relief is amazing and instantaneous (at least for me.)
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: xsarahx on September 24, 2009, 12:09:51 PM
Im just not sure if its as painfull as my friend was making it out too be. The way she was making out was ,taht its worse then giving birth kind of pains.

Strange i know since she never has given birth but i dunno.
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: ceili on September 24, 2009, 12:16:38 PM
Quote from: xsarahx on September 24, 2009, 12:09:51 PM
Im just not sure if its as painfull as my friend was making it out too be. The way she was making out was ,taht its worse then giving birth kind of pains.

Strange i know since she never has given birth but i dunno.

Sounds pretty melodramatic, no offense intended. I have children and have watched women in childbirth up close and personal. This is nothing like childbirth.
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: Rebecca Liz on September 24, 2009, 12:18:41 PM
Well, I've had bad kidney stones, which persons in the medical field have told me is as painful as childbirth. SRS was nowhere near as painful as that!! Seriously!
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: xsarahx on September 24, 2009, 12:31:04 PM
Quote from: ceili on September 24, 2009, 12:16:38 PM
Sounds pretty melodramatic, no offense intended. I have children and have watched women in childbirth up close and personal. This is nothing like childbirth.

I agree with you there that it does sounds pretty melodramatic
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: MMarieN on September 24, 2009, 12:45:46 PM
I've had hernia surgery as well as srs. The pain is similar. But there is much more satisfaction from the srs.
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: Northern Jane on September 24, 2009, 12:48:12 PM
Well I certainly wouldn't promise anything since everyone has different pain threshold but I had surgery on a Monday morning, was off the pain-killers by Tuesday afternoon, and was out shopping by Friday. I don't honestly remember any pain after the second day although it was a little tender to sit down for maybe a week.
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: Hannah on September 24, 2009, 01:14:22 PM
I would imagine the narcotics flow pretty freely if you need them in the case of this operation. I can't see any gp with a heart really questioning your vicodin refill.
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: xsarahx on September 24, 2009, 02:16:54 PM
Quote from: MMarieN on September 24, 2009, 12:45:46 PM
I've had hernia surgery as well as srs. The pain is similar. But there is much more satisfaction from the srs.

Thats what i was wondering. I had a hernia for 20 years which ruptured and the pain from that was well bearable but not good. Morphine helped the pain but after that op
i was in pain for the first 12 hours morphine again helped ease the pain so i could sleep
the next day i was walking around and i was sore for about a month.
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: Sandy on September 24, 2009, 06:46:26 PM
It's not a walk in the park, but it's not a kick in the n*tz either (those'll be gone!)

It's uncomfortable, but quite tolerable. 

-Sandy
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: FairyGirl on September 24, 2009, 07:49:12 PM
Quote from: Sandy on September 24, 2009, 06:46:26 PMit's not a kick in the n*tz either (those'll be gone!)

thank gawd :laugh:
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: justme19 on September 25, 2009, 03:08:48 AM
Quote from: Sandy on September 24, 2009, 06:46:26 PM
but it's not a kick in the n*tz either (those'll be gone!)

I was laughing so hard when i read this comment, it made my day  ;D

I had a hernia op before as well, it was back about 1 yr ago and i can't really even having alot of pain after surgery.
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: ceili on September 25, 2009, 09:51:17 AM
Quote from: Becca on September 24, 2009, 01:14:22 PM
I would imagine the narcotics flow pretty freely if you need them in the case of this operation. I can't see any gp with a heart really questioning your vicodin refill.

At Yanhee I had an on-demand morphine drip. I only used it for three days and the last day it was more about wanting to get decent sleep than pain. After that I took pain pills before dilating and that was it. I still usually take Tylenol before dilating only because things are still a bit swelled up and dilation is pretty much like trying to drive a 13 foot high truck under a 10 foot overpass.

I could do without the Tylenol but I choose comfort because I have the option.
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: Hannah on September 25, 2009, 10:55:42 AM
mmmmm on demand morphine, come to momma. I admit it, narcotics are a guilty pleasure. Hey don't judge, some people like chocolate some like hydrocodone  :police:

Title: Re: srs question
Post by: Rebecca Liz on September 25, 2009, 11:29:30 AM
I had morphine for like the first day, I think. Toradol (a smoothe muscle relaxer) was my blessing, as it calmed the bladder convulsions, which were about 90% of my pain. Even that was only given for 2 days, I believe. After that, oral percoset, which I quit after a day I believe. Seriously, it was tender, but really not as awful as one would think... I do have a high pain tolerance, though.
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: sarahb on September 25, 2009, 12:12:37 PM
Uggghh, all this talk about SRS is really making me sad that I still have to wait 13 months until I get it done :( I'd take the pain in a heartbeat if I could have it done now.

~Sarah
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: ceili on September 25, 2009, 12:28:40 PM
Quote from: SarahR on September 25, 2009, 12:12:37 PM
Uggghh, all this talk about SRS is really making me sad that I still have to wait 13 months until I get it done :( I'd take the pain in a heartbeat if I could have it done now.

~Sarah

Believe me I know how you feel. As I said before, I was a ticking time bomb, wondering if I was going to be able to afford SRS before my cardiomyopathy made me medically ineligible. Finally getting on that plane and flying to Thailand was surreal. I never thought it would ever happen. And now it's done and over. You'll get there too  :)
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: MMarieN on September 25, 2009, 08:20:59 PM
My morphine pump was my best friend for the first 24 hours post SRS.
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: Sandy on September 26, 2009, 07:58:22 AM
Quote from: MMarieN on September 25, 2009, 08:20:59 PM
My morphine pump was my best friend for the first 24 hours post SRS.


Mmmmmm  morphine....
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: katherine on September 26, 2009, 08:51:12 AM
I would think that in the end, it really doesn't matter how much it hurts...
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: Cadence Jean on September 26, 2009, 12:31:49 PM
Haven't had SRS, but I did have a vasectomy.  And that hurt like hell.  For two weeks afterward.  Granted, I was a dummy and didn't call my doctor for any pain meds.  I could have used them.  Really, it varies for each individual.  Some bodies are more reactive to trauma than others.  I know I swell and bruise terrible after surgery.  Other people, after a couple days, it's like it never happened.  I'm basing my pain and swelling expectations on the reaction to my past surgeries.
Title: Re: srs question
Post by: Hannah on September 26, 2009, 12:42:22 PM
Quote from: Katherine on September 26, 2009, 08:51:12 AM
I would think that in the end, it really doesn't matter how much it hurts...

That's kind of what I was thinking too. I would hope it doesn't hurt at all *during* the operation, and once it's done who cares how much it hurts as long as it's temporary.