Well, as I said in the Comming out forum, I told my mom and blah blah...
Well she kinda accepted it preety well, but suggested I should move to London, to my dad's house as she said it owuld be atleast a litle good to live abit with a male character to know how it is like, like it would change anything though e.e (they're divorced)... I always enjoyed the idea of studying in either America/London, so I got even more excited and said yes.
At this state, my mom went to talk with my dad about this, as since he is no dumb, he saw she was hiding something so she told him.
Well he accepted it well, and the good thing is that now, even though I'm still going, I'm going to have "Better" psychological support on this issue and join a private school.
In general, I'm happy, but this also includes to leave all my friends behind, my class where I just got elected as co-representer and I'm only with them for a week... It's kinda akward, so many things of a sudden.
I'm going to have to ask the papers of the qualifications at my school and tell my class I'm leaving anytime soon... I won't tell why, but I may think I'll say I won a scholarship or something for being such a computer "geek".
So I don't know... I know many of you guys have been by worse scenarions, but this is like to much for a person of my age to have to think and decided. Even though I'm preety stubborn and made up my mind.
Well, congrats are in order for coming out to your mom and that she and your dad seem to have taken it well! :)
I do understand that this is a big step for you, and I'm not going to say that it'll always be easy, but somethings in life are hard because they just have to be, and in the end I think we appreciate them more due to the struggle we had to go through to get there.
Susan's is a great place to come for support, there are many guys and girls here who either are going through the same thing, or have been there already (on both sides of the fence - male to female, and female to male). Please feel free to ask any questions you may have, share your thoughts, feelings, hopes, fears, etc. You'll always find caring people here to help. Even if sometimes there are those on here who may disagree, we all try to treat each other with respect, and there are more compassionate and helpful people here than not.
Jump on in and start posting in any thread that catches your interest and you'll start to get to know everyone here before long at all!
Actually, it sounds like things are going well. It's too bad you will have to leave your school and friends, but other than that it looks like things are very positive for you. How wonderful that your father is understanding.
Good luck with your new school and classmates. You'll soon be co-representer there, too. ;)
And I wouldn't lie to your present friends. Just tell them that your mom wants you to live with your dad for a while and, well you know, you have to (darn!). :D
- Kate
Hanks both :)
And in fact I think I will say that to them :P