Each of us embarked in this journey with different aims. Some wanted boobs, other less hair, others booty & hips etc... To be honest, I don't really know why I started taking hormones. Supposedly to be eligible for SRS, to have boobs, smoother skin and think like a girl. There are some surgeons who accept doing SRS without being on hormones + I can do the silicone implant directly + I was always a girl in my head. I am just in fact flowing with the 'mass' by taking hormones. When I look back I don't really know the real reason I am taking it and if it is really that necessary. Maybe I started taking it cos I'll need to take it anyway after SRS to avoid the osteoporosis of the pre-menopause effect.
But what's the REAL reason you all pre-ops started taking hormones, is it that necessary after all?
Well I am not yet..
...but whatever I try to do to shake this and lead a "normal" life seems to fail...so I suppose it is deep in my subconcious.. ::)
I'm just like a moth that is drawn to a lightbulb...
....I'm still far enough away most of the time to make rational decisions about my life, ;)
...I can fly around, but I remain invisibly drawn to the light, and cannot leave the room.. ::)
..but sooner or later I will be drawn too close and get burned.. :icon_flamed:
Chrissty
Tis a strange question :P
for me the real reason is the same as any other assumed reason... so I can look in the mirror with or without clothes and see 'me'. And go about my life feeling and being the woman that I REALly am!! :icon_joy:
@@.. I am taking hormones because I am a girl and my body doesn't produce them naturally.
Is there any other reason to take them? :X
I have to say there was only one aim when I commenced taking hormones, to change genders. I never intended or thought estrogen would change my thinking?
Anyone taking estrogen for other reasons strikes me as unusual.
I started Hormone Replacement Therapy as part of the whole transition
process from male to female. Why did you start playing with hormones?
Quote from: Myself on October 16, 2009, 05:07:01 AM
@@.. I am taking hormones because I am a girl and my body doesn't produce them naturally.
Is there any other reason to take them? :X
I have to agree. My body wasn't producing the correct type of hormones, however developing breasts was extremely important to me.
-={LR}=-
Bloke barging in on your girltalk here...
I haven't started T yet, but it's gonna happen soon.
I'm after it for a number of reasons that all narrow down to one.
"I don't have any testicles."
That's just a more crass way of saying the same thing as Myself really. I want my T because I'm a guy and my body isn't producing the right amounts of it.
I embrace all the effects that will follow and plan to meet them head on, even if some of them might be annoying or whatever. I don't care. I'm a man, a man should have a certain level of testosterone in his system, I don't have the testicles to tend to that job, thus, I will take testosterone from an external source.
(Can't wait for some of the physical effects though...)
Quote from: Myself on October 16, 2009, 05:07:01 AM
@@.. I am taking hormones because I am a girl and my body doesn't produce them naturally.
Is there any other reason to take them? :X
ya, me too. Because if I didn't do something about the dysphoria I was going to end up dead.
Quote from: Myself on October 16, 2009, 05:07:01 AM
@@.. I am taking hormones because I am a girl and my body doesn't produce them naturally.
Is there any other reason to take them? :X
Like Chrissty, I'm not yet taking hormones, but, when I do (hopefully soon) it will be for much the same reason as many have stated here - because my (defective) body doesn't produce them correctly and if I'm to become the girl I was supposed to have been born, then HRT is a starting point and SRS will be nearing the endpoint, though there is much more than just these two to becoming fully integrated with myself (not Myself :), sorry couldn't resist).
Deanna
I am taking them for the sames reason as all the Gals and guys here. To make my body congruent with my brain.
I do also have to say that my Breasts feel wonderfully sensitive as they are growing. I am now a B cup hoping for more.
Quote from: Myself on October 16, 2009, 05:07:01 AM
@@.. I am taking hormones because I am a girl and my body doesn't produce them naturally.
Is there any other reason to take them? :X
Fifth.
Janet
To make the appearance of my body (hips, breasts, skin,) be female. To get rid of the male smell caused by testesterone (yuk).
Susan
I took hormones because if i didnt, i'd become more male and feel much worse...
I wanted the body of the girl I am, girls get thier bodys through that hormone, so I did the same to have the body that fits my mind... I'm right now... I wanted the job lot of effects thanks! Though I didnt think hormones make you think like a girl.... isn't that sort of a prerequesite for transition? lol.
Quote from: The None Blonde on October 16, 2009, 04:45:59 PM
Though I didnt think hormones make you think like a girl....
YEAH IT CHANGES YOUR MIND TOO! Before I use to be horny like hell, speak brutally and aggressively like a man and SWEAR a lot. Though I still swear on and off, it's much less now. Before I could tell a guy directly "I wanna suck your cock!". Now I feel shy and coy and would never say such things directly but mince my words and say things in a very indirect and feminine way.
You may believe the hormones may have changed your approach but it appears that
they did not change your way of thinking. I went through a period early on in my transition,
two plus years before I started HRT, where I acted like a horny mindless teenager.
I do not believe, what you are going through has anything to do with the hormones. IMHO.
Hmmmm, thats not changing your MIND. Just the way it happens...
Testosterone fuels anger, so its easy to get mad.... agressive.
Estrogen doesnt... the hornyness is a biological thing, not neurological.
Tbh it changes how you think the same things.... its only difference is the reaction to stimuli, your thoughts are entierly the same....
The best analogy that I can come up with is... NOT taking hormones is like trying to run a gas-powered car with water. It doesn't run right. Mentally, physically, etc.
I started taking hormones in my teens to STOP my body from being ruined, doing things that were ugly (to me). I don't know if it was actually the hormones themselves or just knowing that I was taking them but they also had a calming effect that took the edge off the rest of the problems - that probably helped me last as long as I did. The fact that they helped my physical development was almost secondary.
My real reasons for starting HRT were to stop the masculinization process, reverse the testosterone damage to a certain degree & induce the secondary sexual characteristics of my real gender.
Post Merge: October 17, 2009, 03:28:19 AM
Edit: Or you could use my signature for my reason too:
"...and the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom." - Anais Nin
Even though hormones change your moods i dont think they change how you think. Me personally, I want hormones because I want others to see me as the guy I am. I want to have the deep voice and rough skin I feel like Im supposed to have. With the high t already in my body, it feels like destiny.
I was born intersex. The real reason was to combat all the artificial poison the doctors had been putting into my body without my consent since I reached a pubescent age.
I started taking hormones to cure the nagging constant depresson and unhappiness that has been part of my life since my teens. I have always been different from the norm and have felt completely depressed by having to live life as a man. Since my early teens, I have wanted to be female but I have supressed my inner self. I felt I had to live up to other's expectations and that did not involve make up dresses and boobs. After a life of setbacks and disappointments, I am determined to lead the life that I, not others, want.
I think we now established a fairly consistent set of 'whys', all pretty similar imo...
What I dont get, is why the topic is phrased this way.... the 'real' reason implies the reason you normally give is a lie..... like what is your 'secret hehe' motivation for hormones? Which makes me more than a tad concerned.
As said by others I take hormones as my body won't naturally produce the correct ones. I hated the fact the world saw me wrong; I thought about hormones for many years and now i don't.
Quote from: Shelina on October 16, 2009, 02:51:27 AM
Each of us embarked in this journey with different aims. Some wanted boobs, other less hair, others booty & hips etc... To be honest, I don't really know why I started taking hormones. Supposedly to be eligible for SRS, to have boobs, smoother skin and think like a girl. There are some surgeons who accept doing SRS without being on hormones + I can do the silicone implant directly + I was always a girl in my head. I am just in fact flowing with the 'mass' by taking hormones. When I look back I don't really know the real reason I am taking it and if it is really that necessary. Maybe I started taking it cos I'll need to take it anyway after SRS to avoid the osteoporosis of the pre-menopause effect.
But what's the REAL reason you all pre-ops started taking hormones, is it that necessary after all?
Because I can't stand being stuck in a male body, I can't even stand the thought and having to say I'm in a male body.
Because in my 21 years of living, everything I can remember about my life up until now tells me that I knew I wasn't supposed to be male, even if I didn't realize it, since I was at least 5. And because now that I DO realize it, I won't be happy until I do everything in my power to set things the way I feel like they were supposed to be.
That's the real reason I'm going to start taking hormones (I'm still working on the "getting them" part, but there isn't the slightest doubt in my mind that I will, and soon).
Quote from: Miniar on October 16, 2009, 10:40:37 AM
"I don't have any testicles."
This. And estrogen feels like a sedative. I can't think straight anymore, and it's horrible and frustrating.
Also the analogy of a gas-powered car (but I am too lazy to pull up the quote.)
Do not want estrogen to continue to deform my body. I feel like a guy and I want to look like one too. (And sound, and smell.) It would only be right. To get out of the "female box."
I took hormones because I wanted to turn into a vampire >:-) Nom, Nom, Nom!
Quote from: The None Blonde on October 17, 2009, 06:16:00 PM
I think we now established a fairly consistent set of 'whys', all pretty similar imo...
What I dont get, is why the topic is phrased this way.... the 'real' reason implies the reason you normally give is a lie..... like what is your 'secret hehe' motivation for hormones? Which makes me more than a tad concerned.
I got the same impression which is why I haven't replied.
I wanted to see what direction the thread took.
Satan came and sat down at my table, while I was eating beef and broccoli at
the Kat Wok Buffet. He told me that I was going to be the mother of his child,
just then the buffet attendant refilled the shrimp foo yung, I excused my self
to go get some before it ran out again. When I returned he was gone. A few
days later, I was overcome with an uncontrollable need to become a woman.
Quote from: Susan Dundee on October 16, 2009, 04:35:22 PM
To make the appearance of my body (hips, breasts, skin,) be female. To get rid of the male smell caused by testesterone (yuk).
Susan
This and especially the male funky smell! I do NOT miss that part! Now I can smell other types of smells on guys which I suppose might be pheromones. Kinda like sweat but different.
Quote from: Shelina on October 16, 2009, 02:51:27 AM
Each of us embarked in this journey with different aims. Some wanted boobs, other less hair, others booty & hips etc... To be honest, I don't really know why I started taking hormones. Supposedly to be eligible for SRS, to have boobs, smoother skin and think like a girl. There are some surgeons who accept doing SRS without being on hormones + I can do the silicone implant directly + I was always a girl in my head. I am just in fact flowing with the 'mass' by taking hormones. When I look back I don't really know the real reason I am taking it and if it is really that necessary. Maybe I started taking it cos I'll need to take it anyway after SRS to avoid the osteoporosis of the pre-menopause effect.
But what's the REAL reason you all pre-ops started taking hormones, is it that necessary after all?
My main reason was to try and get female fat distribution and boobs.......but it didn't happen so I'm now seeking other ways of trying to get a female shape.....any ideas how to do it?
Quote from: The None Blonde on October 17, 2009, 06:16:00 PM
I think we now established a fairly consistent set of 'whys', all pretty similar imo...
What I dont get, is why the topic is phrased this way.... the 'real' reason implies the reason you normally give is a lie..... like what is your 'secret hehe' motivation for hormones? Which makes me more than a tad concerned.
It probably ties in with the muted status of the original poster.
bewcause I'm too short and too "pretty" to get read as "male" without at least sideburns. Losing the soprano range in my singing voice is starting to ->-bleeped-<- with my head, though.
I guess I'm just slow. (I've always known that. :P) And yet once again I am the odd person out.
The real reason I started hormones was because I thought I was a cross-dresser and the hormones would soften my contours enough to be more presentable.
Once they kicked in, and I felt what it was like to operate on the right grade of fuel, I began to realize what I had known when I was 4 but had thoroughly repressed: I'm really a girl.
But originally, taking them was to make my body more androgynous. What can I say? ::)
- Kate
(newbie here :)
I am one of "Those Who Do Not Want Surgery or a Real-Life Experience" people they talk about on page 14 of SOC V6. Prenatally exposed to DES, I am bean pole with intersexed features and have had no trouble passing since before I even started hormones. I thrive on presenting as my female self in public whenever I can. But there is too much I enjoy about my male life and it would be too big of an impact on the things my wife and I spent the last 20 years building for me to live full time as a woman. I was prescribed a typical estrogen/testosterone blocker regimen because my gender dysphoria was a horrible life sucking malaise I could barely control by moving closer and closer to transition. I'm not sure how much longer I could have survived if I hadn't been able to fool my brain into thinking it was in the right body. I accept and welcome the physical changes hormones bring, but they were not my purpose for starting HRT.
Ginny
Quote from: heatherrose on October 18, 2009, 06:57:38 PM
Satan came and sat down at my table, while I was eating beef and broccoli at
the Kat Wok Buffet. He told me that I was going to be the mother of his child,
just then the buffet attendant refilled the shrimp foo yung, I excused my self
to go get some before it ran out again. When I returned he was gone. A few
days later, I was overcome with an uncontrollable need to become a woman.
This is exactly what happened to me, but I ran out and took hormones to become a man so I couldn't have Satan's child.
Ok seriously Like everyone else said because my body could not produce the right ones. I needed them to feel right in my skin and to help make the exterior match the interior.
Myles
Quote from: Virginia on January 17, 2010, 06:52:41 PM
(newbie here :)
I am one of "Those Who Do Not Want Surgery or a Real-Life Experience" people they talk about on page 14 of SOC V6. Prenatally exposed to DES, I am bean pole with intersexed features and have had no trouble passing since before I even started hormones. I thrive on presenting as my female self in public whenever I can. But there is too much I enjoy about my male life and it would be too big of an impact on the things my wife and I spent the last 20 years building for me to live full time as a woman. I was prescribed a typical estrogen/testosterone blocker regimen because my gender dysphoria was a horrible life sucking malaise I could barely control by moving closer and closer to transition. I'm not sure how much longer I could have survived if I hadn't been able to fool my brain into thinking it was in the right body. I accept and welcome the physical changes hormones bring, but they were not my purpose for starting HRT.
Ginny
How long ago did you start? Because a typical HRT dose is going to bring drastic external changes and pretty much force a real life experience. Plus your sexual function and desire will most likely change.
I had survived being sick for a long time and lost a lot of my hair. I had been diagnosed for BPH so I figured it would be the best way to 1. develop the feminine traits I so desired & help to stop my hair loss 2. decrease the size of my prostate relieving myself of a little problem I had. 3. so I could at least feel like I was a woman.
I underestimated the extent of the effect it would have on me-even a very low dose-especially in how I think.
I forgot to say I was very agressive sexually and I wanted to get rid of the way testosterone made me. I was a wreck emotionally and 4. I wanted to see if E would calm my disphoria-and it did-completely. I hope to go back on it this week. I can feel the T level increasing and I hate the way it makes me think. I also was taking Spiro for a time and it had a dramatic effect upon my T levels. :) The E did not decrease my sexual appetite either like I thought it would but Spiro did.
Randi
Several months, Autumn. Very minimal physical changes with no problems presenting as a male. I'm 50 and had to make adjustments to my sexual function years ago because of a back injury. If anything, it has improved with the freedom to be myself from HRT.
Ginny
I started because I wanted to be more powerful.
I don't like being cornered by masculinity. I am a slave to the hormones but then also to a gender identity that is not respected (therefore I am not respected). I felt even as a male I was outside of the male culture but I was still blamed for it.
As a male I often receive harsh attitudes. Tough guy ->-bleeped-<- -- like as if it were a piece of advice to grow on -- in reality it made no sense, and I was then blamed for the social irrationality.
It's what I have always wanted but was not willing to go half way. And sure testosterone is a sickness.
I my body was not what I would have liked it to be. While I am very attractive person, there is far too much ugly in mankind.
I continue to take them because my personality is far more acceptable than it was before. I can do things I was unable to do before. Even the look being deceiving it is even more divisive.
A problem I have as a male is that I am highly articulate but choke on my words some. This is usually identified as a *something* by some people and subjects me to (false) criticism to guard this opinion of me. As if it were the *key*.
As female I would hardly know the estrogen was their until I enter into a conversation with another person. I have more difficulty rendering accurately. Not that I couldn't invent something, I just don't My approach is not necessarily more gentle or less reactionary. It is much more fluid and feminine however, and this is controllable -- I can and usually do prop up a mutual conversation initially but then drop it once I feel comfortable. I will also diverge as if somehow am lost in myself or have to elevate myself to the conversation. It becomes almost impossible to pick a fight with me. Leaves people with a confused look. And I am then in control of situations. Because I now lie so low (naturally as a male, I barely stick up to far above the surface, now I'm just a fairy princess with really big forearms), retrograde straw man attacks are useless, never the less.
ok, ok, this is all well and good...but what's the real reason you started hormones? ::)
Thanks for waking this thread up, I had forgotten how cute it is