If you don't know what It Made My Day is, it's a website where people can share blurbs of awesome things that happen to them. So I thought maybe I'd make a transgender version - share things related to transition/passing/trans stuff in general.
Here's mine:
I got checked out today - by a VERY gay man. IMMD
(Now let's see how fast this thread dies. Lol)
i was in a bath house and not for the reasons you might think and i got told i had a very female body.
jessica
The day I went to the SSA and they change my gender marker to 'Female'.
Janet
Today or whenever?
For the regular one it's generally today, but if you want to say something that's older, fine. :)
Alright, then some weeks ago I was in my drawing class and at some point the guy next to me looked at my chest and went "holy crap I though she was a guy!"
This was after some weeks of this class, so apparently I passed for a bit.
I just got a reply on an "initial" job application, asking for more information, in which I was addressed as Hans. IMMD.
I sat in a recliner reading forum posts all day while yawning... and avoiding mosh pits. ;D
It always makes my day when I Google "female to male" or something of that sort, and I come up with a site about extension cords. ::)
I was walking back to work after my electrolysis session, waiting at the lights and I herd this persistant beep. I turn around and driving past in a truck are a couple road workers hanging out their windows giving me a "Hey baby" kind of look. ;D
But maybe it was the free facial the electrologist gave me after our session....I've been floating ever since...
Cool topic BTW!
Why would someone devote an entire site to extension cords?..
Anyway, a few weeks back, I had gone to a McDonalds. The cashier had taken my order and was moving to get it when her supervisor asked her for something.
"Just a sec," she replied, "I'm getting her order."
I wasn't trying to look feminine. I was dressed in boy's clothes. I hadn't even shaved that day, and apparently none of these things mattered.
That kind of thing happens every so often, and it always makes my day. :)
I ordered a packer and it shipped on the day I ordered it.. and
I got the courage to call a therapist, and while she called me "miss" and couldnt take me in, she did give me two references of gender therapists.. and
my Dad seems to slightly being a bit more accepting, enough for him to give me advice on calling the therapist and what to say to her.
:D
My mom introduced me as her son this weekend. :)
Quote from: Jamie-o on December 02, 2009, 08:38:27 PM
My mom introduced me as her son this weekend. :)
thats HUGE, something I daydream about, congrats
"Alright gentlemen, so what's your last name?"
"[insert last name here]"
"Oh. . ." The lady proceeds to search the list for a minute or two. (I'm the only person with my last name) "You can't possibly be Julie right?"
"Yep that's me."
"Oh, you are Julie. Okay."
IMMD
Quote from: SilverFang on December 02, 2009, 09:17:02 PM
"Alright gentlemen, so what's your last name?"
"[insert last name here]"
"Oh. . ." The lady proceeds to search the list for a minute or two. (I'm the only person with my last name) "You can't possibly be Julie right?"
"Yep that's me."
"Oh, you are Julie. Okay."
IMMD
You should have said, "What?! It's Julio, dude." ;)
Quote from: Jamie-o on December 02, 2009, 09:38:45 PM
You should have said, "What?! It's Julio, dude." ;)
I was actually getting crossed off a detention list :P
Quote from: Luna! on December 02, 2009, 08:36:05 PM
Why would someone devote an entire site to extension cords?..
I think it was just an article or something. But it's amusing to use terms you associate with trans stuff and come up with something completely different. I made a thread about this a little while ago - acronyms and words used in everyday conversation that you associate with something LGBT.(QQIA...whatever the rest of that scronym is) Like "binder". When my teacher told me to bring in a binder next class yesterday, I thought "But I already do!" Haha.
Back when I was repressing i had a moment like that.
There is/was a radio preacher i REALLY like (he's not like any of the rest of them) and he mentioned at the end of one broadcast that he had a show on the Worship network (a tv network) which I'd never heard of.
So I went by the local library and googled "worship tv network"
Suffice it to say the tv I got wasn't television....
My mum's in Germany with my sister and they talked.
Sister shared concern that she was loosing her sister, and my own mother explained to her that she wasn't loosing anyone and that I'd always be who I've always been.
IMMD
I was working in the store last weekend when a trucker asked for a sub.
We chatted while I made his sandwich. As he turned to go, he said, "Thanks, doll."
;)
I was talking to this guy at school today. He doesn't know anything about me being trans. (though he recently started calling me Aaron) He said this:
"You know, I saw you today, and for a minute I couldn't remember whether you were a guy or a girl!"
I thanked him. :P
I just realized one of my friends is referring to me as Kyle, rather than my given first name. :D
I passed today in target
and, when I asked what was for dinner, and my mom said I could only have 1 sausage, I said "but I'm a growing boy!" and she laughed along with me
I was in Fred's today and as I was leaving the store, a little girl (maybe 6 or 7?) was standing by a basket with her baby brother in the seat and I smiled at the baby as i walked by and she caught my eye and said "What's your name?" and I was self aware enough to say "Laura" and she said "that's a pretty name" and smiled real big.
IMMD
I was driving home from the grocery store, not trying to look female or anything, but my 7 inch long hair was pulled back nice ... a guy passed me on the right, slowed down, and looked at me for a good 10 seconds out of his driver's side window. I'm pretty sure he thought I was a woman :)
I applied T gel for the first time this morning.
It made my day.
In fact, it'll keep making my day for a long time, every day.
My mom got me an ornament with Elijah written on it
ummm, could someone tell me what IMMD stands for?
Quote from: chris_gqueering on December 18, 2009, 05:46:36 AM
ummm, could someone tell me what IMMD stands for?
It
Made
My
Day.
I was working on a portrait of Wren in my painting class, and one of my class mates came up and said, "Hey, is that your girlfriend? She's cute." IMMD :D
Quote from: chris_gqueering on December 18, 2009, 09:10:46 PM
duh! :icon_redface:
don't be embarrassed, when I first saw it I didn't get it either. :P
it made my day---
-I am starting therapy this january
-my mom told me I would look good in dress pants, suspenders, and a dress shirt, and she said I would look like johnny depp :) lol
It didnt make my day---
-my stepdad indirectly said that he thought that "maggie" and "elijah" were two different people, which is not true, Elijah is maggie, and maggie is elijah, same person, different gender(in their minds) when they think fo me as maggie, they think of me as female, even though I am male no matter my name
I've actually changed my name three times. Once when I was about 8, then back to my birth name when I was 14, and then to a male name a couple months ago. I have friends who swear I was a different person with the different names. xD
"Oh hey, how's it going?"
"Good."
"So is that your boy?"
"No, that's my daughter."
IMMD
I was in a fast food restaurant today, when this little boy approached my table. His mom immediately said, "Leave the gentleman alone, dear, he's trying to eat his dinner." ;D
I got a day off today. Rose (that's me!) gets to lounge around the house all day as Rose. It's the little things in life, ya know.
Rose
I got kicked out of the women's changing room today.
IMMD
Customers refer to me as 'she' and 'her' so often (basically all the time) that my coworkers are barely phased when it happens now. I'm pretty sure one of them actually referred to me as 'she' to a customer today. It's just easier on peoples' brains.
Course, that guy had worked in contact with me 4 months before he became one of my trainees, and on the first day shadowing me he called me she :laugh:
I hope to god he didn't overhear the one customer who was trying to hook us up.
What made my day was that the customer I believe he said it to had been escorted up to me in front of 3 coworkers and said "she was the one who helped me!", much to the guy who doesn't work with me's extreme confusion.
I got cat-called by some drunk guys in a car while I was walking half a block from my car to my office in the dark. "Hey, you're a sexy <expletive deleted by engine sounds as the car drove off>." It Made My Day that much more scary and unpleasant. Oh, the joys of womanhood. >:(
I'm standing next to my mum when her friend asks "Is your daughter around?"
My mum replies "She's right here.." And the woman looks at me and blinks, "Oh.. Right..!"
IMMD
Of course it will do more when it can be corrected with "son". :P
I was playing darts with some friends last weekend, and when one of them came out of the washroom, she said "wow, for a second there I was wondering who that guy was playing darts with [other friend], I think I'm really getting used to seeing you as a guy!" IMMD ;D
Came out to some (important people) and they're still the same with me, still supportive. It continues to make my day. I might get this mess fixed.
Yesterday I posted a picture of myself in a "passing tips" topic on another forum. This morning I woke up and checked it. Someone had replied to give me makeup advice, thinking I wanted to pass for a girl. IMMD.
Got called "mijo" (not by my mom of course, but it's still awesome.)
IMMD
I got my first job as Cami today!
IMMD
Lost track of this thread but my Census Job has provided many instances of IMMD:
1. Just tonight one of my crew - upon hearing of a death in my family expressed her condolences to "my husband and his family" - either I've fooled her this long or she was gracious enough to adjust her language - either way;
2. Last night I was in a Wendy's in the county where I used to teach and the checker was a girl I had in class a couple of years ago - she showed no sign she recognized me, or even clocked me;
3. Women at the office who, for paperwork reasons, MUST know of my defective anatomy have no problem finding me in the ladies room and treat me in all respects as one of them;
In fact, only one person among all the people I work with struggles with the pronouns and you can tell she's trying hard.
All of these make my day....
I had my arm around my SO and we were asked if we were gay. I answered "maybe."
IMMD
I bought a couple things at a shop for the drive home from Reykjavík yesterday. I payed with a card.
The woman at the register ran it through then glanced at it and did a major doubletake.
IMMD
Definitely the best thing about this thread is it encourages me to think about the good moments in my day, rather than the bad ones. Here's mine. ^-^
Yesterday I got my hair cut short, since then I've been called "he" at least a couple times. I'm not even sure if I'm trans, and I'm not exactly trying to pass as a boy, but it felt good. :)
I was with my boyfriend holding hands... (we are an interracial gay couple) and we walked past this car.. and they shouted out at us.. "thats ->-bleeped-<-ing wrong!" (not sure if its b/c we were black and white, or gay)
and my boyfriend.. quickly responded by turning around, sticking out his tongue like he was making out, and put his hand at his crotch and pretended to jerk it, and then throw "semen" at them.
It was freaking adorable! but.. the part that made my day.. was 1. That he stood up for us so quickly.. and 2. That.. I probably passed as a gay guy to those people in the car.
The other day while at a dirt market quite a few ladies tried to sell me boys boxers. Not ONE person asked if i wanted to buy a bra/any type of womens underwear. Minus the part where my brother says "Shes a girl" It was pretty great.
Well, it technically didn't happen in real life, but in a dream. My dream, was that I was in a sort of group session, maybe it was specifically for transfolk, maybe not. But I remember telling them i was a transexual, a crossdresser, and a homosexual, and was nervous about saying it so i sorta said it all at once to get it out there was was laughing a bit. But then no one said anything bad really, they just acted normal, someone even kinda made it funny saying something like 'so wait, this is confusing. a transexual, ->-bleeped-<-? haha is that right?' And then there was some people I regularly talked to on msn messenger and stuff, like friends.
it was real nice, being about to tell people in person and be accepted and such.
well we were castrating lambs for class, and i had been marking them with the spray to tag which ones were being castrated. but i wanted to try the actual castration part. and i forget exactly how it was said, maybe like "give him the clamps'" or something to that effect were it "should have been" her, but they said him instead! ^ ^ then i never corrected her, and kinda wasnt paying attention anyways, then they didnt even relaly correct themselves, but another girl kinda did like 'you mean her?" but not making a deal of it.
so even though it was 'accidental' it made me feel so good! especally because it makes me think maybe secretly subconciously i give off male vibes and they just said 'his' without thinking cause it really fit. i mean, i was wrangling little rams and gettin dirty and stuff.
oh yeah, also i got some of the marking spray on my hand, and someone said something like 'guess your next!' and i was like "uh oh..." XD perfect, and they laughed too.
Quote from: Elijah on December 02, 2009, 08:37:57 PM
I ordered a packer and it shipped on the day I ordered it.. and
I got the courage to call a therapist, and while she called me "miss" and couldnt take me in, she did give me two references of gender therapists.. and
my Dad seems to slightly being a bit more accepting, enough for him to give me advice on calling the therapist and what to say to her.
:D
I was wondering if you has started T yet at all?
Just wondering :P
Quote from: Parker Lane on March 31, 2010, 02:31:46 AM
I was wondering if you has started T yet at all?
Just wondering :P
nope no T yet..
got car horns twice in one day the second one i was walking with my 20 year old son he looked at me funny and said god i hope those guys were honking at you. i laughed so hard i had to stop and sit down.
jessica
Quote from: jesse on April 11, 2010, 05:16:14 AM
got car horns twice in one day the second one i was walking with my 20 year old son he looked at me funny and said god i hope those guys were honking at you. i laughed so hard i had to stop and sit down.
jessica
You have a 20 year old son? How old is that pic?
it is this year actually i am 44 lordkat ;)
Way older than I thought Jess. You must be hiding about 15 years somewhere.
You are gorgeous.
Just got ma'am-ed in the pharmacy in my work clothes while picking up my second month of E. Then got called a lady by two little girls by my apartment's pool in the same clothes.
;D ;D ;D
I play an online web-browser based text rpg and I told the clan I am in that I am a MTF Transsexual. I checked the clan page today and saw my name under the Females section. IMMD
A week or so ago, I was in the car with my mother and sister. My mother was talking to my sister and I when she ended her sentence with "..girly girls" (when addressing us)and then she quickly added "...and girly guys." (she's still getting used to addressing me as a male). XD
Then just this week, my friend told me that her gay friend was interrested in me. Thats never happened before! ;D
And last week, I was in a play and forced to wear make-up. Some of the girls in the play put it on for me and I looked in the mirror and cracked up. I looked like Eddie Izzard! IMMD
While I pass fairly often with strangers, I'm not out, and people I know don't see me as male. But I was called "sir" today by a librarian who's known me pretty well for years. She immediately apologized, but it still made my day. ^-^
I got on a bus yesterday, and when I showed my bus pass, the driver said 'Cheers, Mate' as I got on. It made me smile. :)
well i was playing left 4 dead 2 on xbox live and i have a headset and i wasnt really talking much but when i did someone said something like 'hey, he talks!' oh man that was so exciting. i dont know exactly how long they believed i was a guy though, they might have thought i was a girl eventually, but i wasnt talking much and *attempting* to have a semi-male voice, which i dont know how to do at all haha. but either way, that was awwweeesome! ill have to keep practicing, that might be a good way to see if i can pass voice-wise!
My fiancé FINALLY gave up trying to get me to shave my hairy legs. xD [Hasn't come out to him properly yet... >.>]
Post Merge: May 25, 2010, 07:11:06 PM
My first packy arrived today, and I came out to a friend who said that today should be like a birthday, but a 'Boy-Day', with boy-day presents, boy-day cards, boy-day cake etc. xD It made me smile, bless'er. xD
I was waiting outside the bathroom at a restaraunt for my mom, today, and a cook came out of the kitchen. He looked at me, looked at the the door to the men's restroom, then looked quizzically back at me and asked, "Is it occupied?" assuming I was waiting for it to open up.
I was just wearing cargo pants and a (not very masculine) T-shirt. No binding, all my usual sparkly earrings were in... it made my day so much that I was hardly even phased when my mom started rambling about what a girly little kid I was on the ride home. |D
A nurse I talked to on the phone and saw and talked to at the hospital was giving my daughter a shot. The shocked look with a actual double take, when my daughter called me mom, was precious.
It wasn't today, but a few weeks ago.
I went to a club with two friends of mine that were girls.
The club charges more for guys, and when I got to the counter, the woman charged both my friends for the girls price and charged me for the guys price. It was one of the first times that I've been seen as a guy [when I'm dressing as one], not a tomboy-ish girl.
Went to buy a train ticket today, asked the man behind the window for the one I needed, blessed him when he sneezed, I pay for my ticket, and then, with a smile on his face, he hands me my ticket and says, 'There you go, young man!' ;D
That REALLY set me up for a great day. xD I had to go see my doc while trying my hardest NOT to grin like a blasted cheshire cat. xD
There's this really shy ftm at support and this not so couth dood that's just completely insensitive about his pronoun usage and, well, respect to the t's that are there in general. Up till now it's been fine, but the other day I could tell that he hurt ftm's feelings by calling him 'her' like ten times in a row and then calling him out for 'really being a girl'. He says, "she'll always be 'old name' to me." ftm got up to go the bathroom and I got up the courage to politely tell him that he was out of line. This lead to some discussion on being respectful in general and accepting people for who they are and all that. Anyway, ftm comes back in and proclaims he heard everything and told dood to his face that he was indeed a he and that he better recognize that fact. It was a proud moment for all of us, I think. :D
i found this forum and figured out there's a name for what i am and that im not alone.
it made my day. :)
Quote from: Hauser on June 09, 2010, 01:43:33 PM
i found this forum and figured out there's a name for what i am and that im not alone.
it made my day. :)
Cheers to that. :)
My sister had a hard time accepting my transition, but over the weekend we were sitting together, talking. She's looking at me as I chatter on about something and then says: "You look really good. I'm a bit jealous."
;D
- Kate
Quote from: Ruben/Aaron on June 09, 2010, 11:35:30 AM
Went to buy a train ticket today, asked the man behind the window for the one I needed, blessed him when he sneezed, I pay for my ticket, and then, with a smile on his face, he hands me my ticket and says, 'There you go, young man!' ;D
That REALLY set me up for a great day. xD I had to go see my doc while trying my hardest NOT to grin like a blasted cheshire cat. xD
This made me smile :) I love it when someone says something they think is insignificant, but to you it makes your day :D
Quote from: MiakoSamuio on June 17, 2010, 11:27:00 AM
This made me smile :) I love it when someone says something they think is insignificant, but to you it makes your day :D
I know, right! Still cheers me up when I think about it any time I'm feeling a bit off. ^^
I went to Sally's Beauty Supply that other day. And my "Sally's Card" had expired. The Cashier said "we can renew it". "If you are ex-military it is free, or if you are over 55 it is $2.50". I said "that one", referring to the over 50. She said " I would have never guessed", I told her I was 56. She still did not believe it. ;D
A gal who knows my male name covered for me rather than outing me to her co-workers :icon_chick:
I havn't transitioned at work for financial reasons, but I dress fairly androgenous when I have to be male. The last couple times I went out with some co-workers, the waitress has said something along the lines of "What about you maam" and none of my co-workers have even flinched.
Another thing that hs made my day is after a long day at work (again, a bit andro.) I was on the elevator to my apartment, a new neighbor of mine who's only seen me as Allison on the weekends ran into me on the elevator and she remembered who I was and we talked a bit without her giving me any strange looks.
Makes me feel good about myself when people treat me normally. :D
Quote from: Virginia Marie on June 17, 2010, 07:19:23 PM
A gal who knows my male name covered for me rather than outing me to her co-workers :icon_chick:
Now this is a rare thing and well worth feeling good about. I'm glad you know someone who was/is kind.
Last weekend I met a friend outside of the bar. He had a friend with him that had never met me before who immediately started gushing about how I was the cutest person they'd ever seen.
Him and his roommate's always make sure to keep my 'secret' safe whenever I'm at their parties too. It's nice knowing people like that. :)
omg omg omg!
okay, i just went to the local packie and i go up and tell him what i want from behind the counter. its this kinda young skinny indian dude and i hear him say something but he got like an accident and i'm practically half deaf as it is so i couldnt really hear him and after he said it a couple more times i realised he was asking "are you a boy or a girl?" omg i almost had a heartattack! no ones ever questioned my gender yet. and i finally realised what he said and kinda froze up, but before i could start to think again or anything hes just like 'oh, er forget it, what was it you wanted?' like kinda embarassed cause he looked away and sorta shook his head like 'stupid me', dang i felt so bad! i'm just bad like that sometimes i just freeze up and dont know what to say, i think i was kind nervous too saying 'im a boy' =( but it sucked anyways cause i was getting scratch tickets so he had to see my ID cause he asked if i was 18 (at first he didnt say anything, but maybe he just really wanted to know what gender i was, too bad he saw my id since its wrong :/ ) then on top of it he said my hair looks nice in the id pic (which was before i cut it and i look like a total girl =( ugh! stupid me! why didnt i just say 'im a guy!' and on top of it i had like a nervous laugh so i just blew it and sounded like a chick.... =( =( well hopefully one day i can redeem myself and let him know im a guy. though i hope hes not all 'no you arent, if says F on your liscense or anything like that. i know religious people can get all weird like that sometimes (no offense)
omg though, that was just awesome, made my whole week!!!! i just hope next time i am not nervous or ashamed and can say 'im a guy'! (hopefully im not buying scratch tickets or cigs though, haha)
Ummm...I bought my first "dude" (for lack of a better description) shirt today. Totally awesome. Oh yeah, I've got this great necklace-thing coming in the mail...completely trans related necklace. XD
Oh yeah, this forum completely made my day, too. :D
Had my 3-month checkup with the doctor and I'm now on a normal dose of estrogen instead of a low dose. Added progesterone too!
Got some recognition at work in front of about a hundred people, including upper management (yay!) but still in guy mode at work (boo!). At least this should help for when I do transition at work.
Met a local MtF that's really close to my age and it's looking like we'll be good friends!
It Made My Week
I was at Fremont solstice fair in Seattle yesterday and a woman in the parade was hugging people who were close to the sides of the street. She went 'hey man' and snuggled up to me, then jumped and was like 'woah you're not a man' and laughed. I was wearing an open hoodie with nothing under it because I was one of the bicyclists (though I only took my shirt off for it). Paint or no paint, I passed with my boobs out. That blew my mind a little.
For those who aren't familiar with the parade, something like 600 people bicycle around in a group either half or completely naked through Ballard and the parade line.
My creative flow has started to turn on again and I have been doing nothing but drawing and making music. IMMD
Quote from: Zetsubou Billy on December 02, 2009, 08:20:48 PM
It always makes my day when I Google "female to male" or something of that sort, and I come up with a site about extension cords. ::)
Why would anyone need a website for that?
had to take my wife to an appointment this morning and I went to grab a bite at mickyD's...no makeup, no bra, no special effort - and the girl says "Can I help you ma'am?
BIG grin.
Had that happen a few days ago too but that time i did have some concealer on.
I went to introduction at the college I'm going to, and found out they had queer studies as a freshmen seminar.
I finally bought my first pair of jeans. I usually only wear dresses or skirts out in public because I worry that I have guy hips. After getting my new jeans I visited a friend and she happened to have a bunch of other people over that I had never met before. Afterwords I asked my friend if she thought anyone had noticed that I was trans and she said that nobody even mentioned it. Then the next day I went on a walk with my roommate while wearing the same pants and a car full of guys whistled at us as they drove by:) IMMD
Now I can finally start believing my roommate when she tells me that I'm shaped like a female. :D
I have a good friend on another board who has seen my "before" pic and i asked her what she thought of the most recent one and she told me that both she and her husband came to the same conclusion independently. the guy in that photo looks beaten, burdened, resigned to misery - you can, she said, see it in his eyes.
The girl in the recent photo (she was speaking of the one in my av now) looks joyful, excited, hopeful.
It left me speechless.
Today, I was walking down the halls of my school after the bell had rang for the passing of one class to another. Today, I had felt the random need to get all dressy (nice work shirt, nice black pants, nice shoes, and a nice clean red tie). Whilst walking down the hall, this random male student walked by me, patted my chest (while walking) and said, in a sarcastic tone "Nice tie, Guy." and continued to walk, laughing.
He aimed to belittle me, but what he doesn't know is that he made me feel so accomplished. XD IMMD
Referred to as "he" and "man" by a guy helping with the dance team that I was signing up for.
IMMD
My boss called me into his office toward the end of the day today. The Chief of Operations was in there.
Close the door behind you, I was instructed.
Chief of Operations: Effective immediately, your security badge has been upgraded to grant you access to the gender-neutral restroom in the Executive/Accounting part of the building. I have a letter here that will go in your file stating that we don't want you to have to endure the embarassment of having to use male-specific restrooms. I know your name change isn't legal yet, but I put [legal first name]/Sydney on the letter.
You should know that we're doing this for you.
Come on. I'll show you where the restroom is.
IMMFD
Non-trans: I was talking to a long-time friend this morning. I mentioned something that happened around my 50th birthday. He looked at me and said: Oh that's right - you are older than that. :)
Trans: I've outed myself to a number of people I wanted to stay in contact with. Today I ran into someone I didn't want to stay in contact with. She didn't recognize me. (Yay.) :)
- Kate
Quote from: K8 on September 02, 2010, 06:41:10 PM
Trans: I've outed myself to a number of people I wanted to stay in contact with. Today I ran into someone I didn't want to stay in contact with. She didn't recognize me. (Yay.) :)
- Kate
I like that!
I have a little fantasy about certain events in the future - the first one being the graduation of the class i taught during my one year of full time teaching next spring - of going into the presence of various people who knew "him" and seeing if anyone recognizes me.
Today...
I found out through my sister that my mom is ok with me transitioning at least with HRT, however she does not approve of/want me to get bottom surgery. I wasn't planning on getting surgery down there anyways. :)
IMMD
All three therapists I've been to and the doctor that is going to be prescribing me HRT say I pass ("you look male.") Course that says nothing for my high voice, but I expect it to change relatively soon.
IMMD