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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: seventeen on October 23, 2006, 12:58:51 PM

Title: NOT SURE WHAT TO DO
Post by: seventeen on October 23, 2006, 12:58:51 PM
I am new to this forum and have a situation. I am involved with a girl but have had an affair in the past with a transexual. I am from windsor ontario so its hard to meet transexuals etc. I have a large attraction to them and am not sure where to go meet chat or just talk to them on a level that will help me understand this attraction even more. please send suggestions to any of the above questions. thanks
Title: Re: NOT SURE WHAT TO DO
Post by: stephanie_craxford on October 23, 2006, 08:28:07 PM
Hello Seventeen.

I'm not sure what the user name you selected represents but I would recommend that you change it as there is the risk of lets say some unsavory characters browsing through the site trolling for minors.

As to your question of meeting Transsexuals remember that Susan's is not a dating service but you probably already knew that.  Please ensure that you read the Terms of Service /Rules that govern this site.

One of the best places to start looking for possible TS friends is in your local GLBT community.  Now I'm not saying that TS are gay or lesbian, however many TS hang out in gay/lesbian bars/clubs as they are generally a safe haven.  Then there are TS like myself who stay away from the gay/lesbian scene as that is what I'm not.  You'll find me in a regular club/bar.  Remember that many TS will not advertise that they are TS, and many live in stealth mode so that their backgrounds and past lives will not be discovered.

I believe that most Canadian cities have GLBT support groups, well we do here in Kingston, so I'm sure that Windsor will have one.

Steph
Title: Re: NOT SURE WHAT TO DO
Post by: ssindysmith on October 31, 2006, 10:07:27 AM
I agree with Steph, although I am Bi I do not hang at gay/lesbian bars I would rather find a strait couple to pleasure.