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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: PrettyGirl19 on November 30, 2009, 04:52:50 PM

Title: Female Underwear
Post by: PrettyGirl19 on November 30, 2009, 04:52:50 PM
I'm wondering just cuase i like the feel of ladies underwear better than mens does that make me a transgender?
Title: Re: Female Underwear
Post by: Janet_Girl on November 30, 2009, 05:17:36 PM
Talk to a gender therapist.



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Janet
Title: Re: Female Underwear
Post by: Robin. on November 30, 2009, 05:23:51 PM
Quote from: PrettyGirl19 on November 30, 2009, 04:52:50 PM
I'm wondering just cuase i like the feel of ladies underwear better than mens does that make me a transgender?

:laugh: It is comfy... If its just the feel in a physical since I'd say no, it doesn't make you transgender. But if it is the way it makes you feel inside...then possibly.
Title: Re: Female Underwear
Post by: PrettyGirl19 on November 30, 2009, 06:02:43 PM
Thank you it was a question that has been bothering me for a while
Title: Re: Female Underwear
Post by: K8 on November 30, 2009, 06:35:18 PM
Lots of men wear women's underwear.  That doesn't mean they are TG.  I'm sure a number of women wear men's underwear, too.  Wear what you like. :)

- Kate
Title: Re: Female Underwear
Post by: V M on November 30, 2009, 07:00:42 PM
Quote from: PrettyGirl19 on November 30, 2009, 04:52:50 PM
I'm wondering just cuase i like the feel of ladies underwear better than mens does that make me a transgender?
I'm not sure if it makes you TG or not. I think that's more an internal feeling rather than external stimuli

I do know that I sure do love my undies
Title: Re: Female Underwear
Post by: Steph on November 30, 2009, 07:40:58 PM
Nope it doesn't make you anything other than a person who likes to wear women's underwear, in a similar way that many many women and men have fantasized about what it would be like to have sex with the same sex, doesn't make them gay or lesbian.

-={LR}=-
Title: Re: Female Underwear
Post by: YellowDaisy on November 30, 2009, 08:05:26 PM
Quote from: PrettyGirl19 on November 30, 2009, 04:52:50 PM
I'm wondering just cuase i like the feel of ladies underwear better than mens does that make me a transgender?
no, it depends on what you mean by that. if you want to wear them to be sexually excited, that is something else, but if you just like the feel of them, but don't have a desire to change into the role of female, you aren't.
Title: Re: Female Underwear
Post by: Rose2Me on December 06, 2009, 11:14:13 AM
I'm no expert either, but for me I wear ladies underwear because it feels right, and I cannot wear outer clothes as I would like to, such as skirts and dresses, other than in the privacy of my own home.  Knowing that I have panties and stockings under my work clothes helps to ease the need to dress up fully.  I'd dress a woman much more, if it wasn't for that whole anti-TG attitude out there.  Sure we have made gains, and there is an increased level of acceptance today than there was 20 years ago, but it is not as far as we would like. 

Rose
Title: Re: Female Underwear
Post by: Stevie Stevens on December 08, 2009, 10:36:25 AM
When I was a kid I wore my sister's panties and got sexually excited like many of us. But as time went on I began to realize that they were just right for me and that excitement went away. I developed a distaste for boy briefs. That became true for all girl's clothing. The excitement went away. And now, all these years later, I know that girl's, and now women's, clothing was just right for me. I do not feel right in male clothing at all. You just have to find that out for yourself.
Title: Re: Female Underwear
Post by: sarahF on December 08, 2009, 06:31:18 PM
It's hard to answer that question when living in a glass house
Sarah   
Title: Re: Female Underwear
Post by: Ms Bev on December 09, 2009, 10:01:36 PM
Beats me.
Why do you call yourself 'PrettyGirl19' ?



Bev
Title: Re: Female Underwear
Post by: pamshaw on December 10, 2009, 04:29:11 PM
I wore womens underwear for many years before I started transition as it felt right. I suspect that if you like to wear womens underwear and you are exploring this site you should seek a gender counciler. Remember it as OK to be transgendered and it will not go away; I tried for years to fight it and that was a big mistake. I am much happier on HRT and living as a woman.

Pam
Title: Re: Female Underwear
Post by: Meshi on December 10, 2009, 11:40:24 PM
Just saying that you like the feel of women's  underwear doesnt necessarily make you TG.  As suggested above, you need to speak to a qualified counselor that has extensive experience with TG and transexuals.  You provide not much in information for even a lay person to make an assumption. 
Title: Re: Female Underwear
Post by: sarahF on December 11, 2009, 08:05:41 AM
Someone said "If it makes you feel good,DO IT.
This is not always true. Go with it
Sarah