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Community Conversation => Transitioning => Coming out of the closet => Topic started by: cutejanessa on December 16, 2009, 08:15:00 AM

Title: so this is a bit of irony
Post by: cutejanessa on December 16, 2009, 08:15:00 AM
So i have started my transistion about 5 months ago. I decided to do this since I was moving to a new state and already had Implants and HRT started. I realized soon that I was one of the lucky few who naturally passed with out having to go through FFS (which I still plan on doing some to soften up everything). Now I am not perfect and I think at the worng angle you can definately see MAN but to my suprise, I passed to most everyone I worked with.

Now this is where the irony comes into play. I had for the longest time always worried about being outed at work when I was living as a male. There were a few co-workers who knew but I never wanted the entire lot to find out about my female counter part...well now that I am at a new job and pass rather well I am worried about others finding out about my male past...

does anyone else have this worry, I am just not the type to want to carry my Transsexual history on sleeve for the world to know. I am very happy with just going to work being me..Janessa. 
Title: Re: so this is a bit of irony
Post by: jesse on December 17, 2009, 04:05:46 AM
unless someone does a records check i doubt if they will find out unless you tell them i think it is a fear though that all who are living in stealth have to deal with
hugs
jessica